I am not a sissy BUT…

Escierto

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I do not consider myself a sissy. I am happy to be a man and I have no desire to be a woman or a feminine man. I have never worn women’s clothes nor do I have any desire to do so. I am only attracted to women and I have only engaged in sex with women.

Having said that, my transgender girlfriend is a top and I love being her bottom. We both fantasize about her making me pregnant and I love having her cum inside me. When we are together I suck her off or she fucks me. Our sexual relationship is based on my satisfying her sexual needs and bringing her to orgasm.

Before I met my girlfriend I had a cyber relationship with a transgender woman who liked to refer to my ass as a pussy or a cunt. She regularly referred to herself as the man or the husband in bed and me as her woman or wife. Although she was very feminine she was a top and told me she wanted to fuck me as a man fucks a woman.

I always found her dirty talk very exciting and stimulating. I really got off on the idea of being her wife in bed and satisfying her sexually. My question is why do I find this kind of talk so stimulating? Am I a closet sissy? A sissy in denial?
 
Escierto, why would you think you are a sissy?
What in your opinion would make you a sissy? Is it just that you are a bottom ?
 
You don't need to "be" a sissy to enjoy a little gender fuckery every once in awhile. After all it's just a form of play which is meant to be fun.

True. You make a good point. A little gender fuckery never hurt anyone lol
 
Escierto, why would you think you are a sissy?
What in your opinion would make you a sissy? Is it just that you are a bottom ?

Nothing except enjoying being the woman in my sexual relationship. For me I get a thrill and I am turned on by being called the wife or the woman by my lover who refers to herself as the man or the husband. Out of bed it’s obvious we are normal man and woman. As has been commented, it’s gender fuckery that I really enjoy.
 
Nothing except enjoying being the woman in my sexual relationship. For me I get a thrill and I am turned on by being called the wife or the woman by my lover who refers to herself as the man or the husband. Out of bed it’s obvious we are normal man and woman. As has been commented, it’s gender fuckery that I really enjoy.
Then you would have seemed to have answered your question about being a sissy, have you not.
As far as why you enjoy it, why it stimulates you so much, that is a different thing.
It goes as what stimulates anyone person, all are different, if you really want an answer it is with you and no one else can define it. You must figure the need it satisfies in you in order to understand the ultimate why.
 
Nothing except enjoying being the woman in my sexual relationship. For me I get a thrill and I am turned on by being called the wife or the woman by my lover who refers to herself as the man or the husband. Out of bed it’s obvious we are normal man and woman. As has been commented, it’s gender fuckery that I really enjoy.

Rather than being a "sissy", is there a feeling of being submissive, and relinquishing control to someone who is dominating your ass and mouth? i don't mean to suggest that all women are "submissive" when being fucked by a man, but perhaps in your case this is a component of the way you feel.

i know i am full "Alpha" in my "RL", but when i wear panties i want to completely submit to a woman, including getting pegged. To me, it's the emotional release of always being in control, and i can submit and let go of stress and anxiety. Being "taken care of" is a huge part of my fantasy/kink.
 
Rather than being a "sissy", is there a feeling of being submissive, and relinquishing control to someone who is dominating your ass and mouth? i don't mean to suggest that all women are "submissive" when being fucked by a man, but perhaps in your case this is a component of the way you feel.

i know i am full "Alpha" in my "RL", but when i wear panties i want to completely submit to a woman, including getting pegged. To me, it's the emotional release of always being in control, and i can submit and let go of stress and anxiety. Being "taken care of" is a huge part of my fantasy/kink.

OMG! I feel exactly the same way! Sometimes, I'm tired of "leading" everything between me and my wife. I so wish she'd be a full partner in all of the decisions we have to make but she's just too unsure of herself. In the bedroom, I so :heart: it when she pegs me but she only does it when I ask her to. I'm dying inside not being able to wear her thongs while she fucks me.
 
I do not consider myself a sissy. I am happy to be a man and I have no desire to be a woman or a feminine man. I have never worn women’s clothes nor do I have any desire to do so. I am only attracted to women and I have only engaged in sex with women.

Having said that, my transgender girlfriend is a top and I love being her bottom. We both fantasize about her making me pregnant and I love having her cum inside me. When we are together I suck her off or she fucks me. Our sexual relationship is based on my satisfying her sexual needs and bringing her to orgasm.

Before I met my girlfriend I had a cyber relationship with a transgender woman who liked to refer to my ass as a pussy or a cunt. She regularly referred to herself as the man or the husband in bed and me as her woman or wife. Although she was very feminine she was a top and told me she wanted to fuck me as a man fucks a woman.

I always found her dirty talk very exciting and stimulating. I really got off on the idea of being her wife in bed and satisfying her sexually. My question is why do I find this kind of talk so stimulating? Am I a closet sissy? A sissy in denial?



We're mammals. We have a natural instinct to be dom or sub in any given experience. Subbing is new to you so it's thrilling.
 
I feel much the same way. When I'm with a man especially (or a dominant woman), I am turned on by the fact I am assuming the role of a "woman". I, by no means, display outwardly feminine characteristics, but I will lose my mind if you call my ass a pussy while you're fucking me. No need to label it. Sissy, or not, I enjoy being owned.
 
I feel much the same way. When I'm with a man especially (or a dominant woman), I am turned on by the fact I am assuming the role of a "woman". I, by no means, display outwardly feminine characteristics, but I will lose my mind if you call my ass a pussy while you're fucking me. No need to label it. Sissy, or not, I enjoy being owned.
Exactly. Even though there is nothing outwardly feminine about us, why do we get off on being the “woman” while being fucked? My girlfriend is as feminine as it gets but I love her being the “man” sexually. It puzzles me.
 
I feel much the same way. When I'm with a man especially (or a dominant woman), I am turned on by the fact I am assuming the role of a "woman". I, by no means, display outwardly feminine characteristics, but I will lose my mind if you call my ass a pussy while you're fucking me. No need to label it. Sissy, or not, I enjoy being owned.
This times 1000. I don't dress but I love being called "baby" and if a man called my ass a pussy it would make me lusty crazy. I had an FWB a few years ago who dumped me over straddling his lap while we kissed and said it was "too girly" but I'm just not going to change that part of who I am.
This could not be more spot on, in the past have loved being cock slut for the couple I've been with. When my wife takes control, I love being used however she wants me, and this past weekend when she slid one of her lovers cocks up my ass, and he told me I took his cock as good as my wife, I felt amazing.
 
This could not be more spot on, in the past have loved being cock slut for the couple I've been with. When my wife takes control, I love being used however she wants me, and this past weekend when she slid one of her lovers cocks up my ass, and he told me I took his cock as good as my wife, I felt amazing.
Did you cum as he was fucking you?
 
As I am visiting my girlfriend now, we were laying in bed and I told her that she is so feminine I always think of her as a woman. Yet in our sexual relationship there is no doubt that I am the woman and she is the man. She laughed and said that’s exactly the way she likes it.
 
As I am visiting my girlfriend now, we were laying in bed and I told her that she is so feminine I always think of her as a woman. Yet in our sexual relationship there is no doubt that I am the woman and she is the man. She laughed and said that’s exactly the way she likes it.
Sounds like a wonderful arrangement. Thanks for sharing.
 
Sounds like a wonderful arrangement. Thanks for sharing.
We are really well matched. She has the sexual needs of a man - when she is excited and hard she just wants to stick it in and fuck until she cums. No foreplay or anything - she just wants to get her stiff prick in my hole.

As a man I understand her need to cum but I offer myself to her like a woman letting her take me and use me for her pleasure. It’s so satisfying for me when she cums - it’s like I have received a gift of her hot cream in my ass or down my throat. I never spill a drop of her sperm.
 
Last night we went to bed and we were both excited because she promised to fuck me. She took her panties off and I fluffed her sucking and licking her cock to get her good and hard. When she was stiff, I took my underwear off and she had me lie on my side facing away from her presenting my ass to her.

She got some lube and put it in my hole and rubbed a little on herself. She poked around with her cock a little before she inserted the cockhead and then pushed it all the way in. Suddenly I felt wet and I asked her what happened? She was a little embarrassed but she said she came as soon as she got in.

Actually it made me happy that she was so excited she came so fast. I went to sleep content with her cum up my ass.
 
I had gone to bed and I was sound asleep when she finally came to bed. I was awakened when she roughly pulled my underwear down enough to expose my asshole. I was facing away from her lying on my side towards the bedroom wall.

As I lay there I could hear her getting the lubricant and furiously jerking her cock to get it hard. Once she succeeded, she put a dab of lubricant into my anus with her fingers. Immediately afterwards, I felt her cockhead pushing into my wet hole. I wanted her inside so badly I tried to position my ass so I could help her mount me. After a little back and forth she was able to thrust her pelvis forward and penetrate me completely.

It felt so good having her cock deep in my ass, I moaned as she started to fuck. I put my hands against the wall so I could push back against the force of her fucking - this allowed her to assault my ass using her big hard cock like a jackhammer. She was fucking me brutally with every ounce of energy she had and I loved being the hole she was using for her attack.

Finally I felt her push into me as deep as she could get her cock in my ass and then stop as she reached her climax. This was the moment we both craved. She panted softly as she spewed her load of sperm filled cum into my ass and completed mating with me. I felt so much like a woman as I was being bred by my horny man. It was my duty as a good wife to give my husband the sexual relief he needed. For a moment we lay together afterwards savoring the fuck with her cock uniting our bodies. Then she pulled out of me and rolled over.

I rolled over to face her and wrapped my arm around her. I asked her, “You fucked me so hard didn’t you?” She dreamily replied, “Yes, I did.” Then I asked her, “You were the man fucking his woman, right?” She answered, “Yes I was, and you were my wife.” I told her I loved her and then we went to sleep.
 
I had gone to bed and I was sound asleep when she finally came to bed. I was awakened when she roughly pulled my underwear down enough to expose my asshole. I was facing away from her lying on my side towards the bedroom wall.

As I lay there I could hear her getting the lubricant and furiously jerking her cock to get it hard. Once she succeeded, she put a dab of lubricant into my anus with her fingers. Immediately afterwards, I felt her cockhead pushing into my wet hole. I wanted her inside so badly I tried to position my ass so I could help her mount me. After a little back and forth she was able to thrust her pelvis forward and penetrate me completely.

It felt so good having her cock deep in my ass, I moaned as she started to fuck. I put my hands against the wall so I could push back against the force of her fucking - this allowed her to assault my ass using her big hard cock like a jackhammer. She was fucking me brutally with every ounce of energy she had and I loved being the hole she was using for her attack.

Finally I felt her push into me as deep as she could get her cock in my ass and then stop as she reached her climax. This was the moment we both craved. She panted softly as she spewed her load of sperm filled cum into my ass and completed mating with me. I felt so much like a woman as I was being bred by my horny man. It was my duty as a good wife to give my husband the sexual relief he needed. For a moment we lay together afterwards savoring the fuck with her cock uniting our bodies. Then she pulled out of me and rolled over.

I rolled over to face her and wrapped my arm around her. I asked her, “You fucked me so hard didn’t you?” She dreamily replied, “Yes, I did.” Then I asked her, “You were the man fucking his woman, right?” She answered, “Yes I was, and you were my wife.” I told her I loved her and then we went to sleep.
that sounds beautiful to me. enjoy the relationship you have with her. she sounds like a beautiful woman with something extra.
 
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