Spouses with mental illnesses

[MKvDeepSea]

Your first post was about finding a FWB.
Your second post was about your wife’s mental health.
That doesn’t vibe well on the GB.
If you are serious, which I doubt you are, you would be better of posting on the How To forum.

He's right about posting this on the GB silver gurl; he's not asking How To do anything, he's asking if anyone else has had issues with a loved one's mental health. I've been PMing him and he is in fact voicing his concerns about his wife's mental health and how sorry mental health issues are taken not only on here, but everywhere.

 

[Travelguy2022]

Never thought I’d say this to someone who isn’t me, but you are fucked up and need therapy.

This is the part where you act dumb and we all point and laugh.

Look at you keeping my post at the top

 

[JohnnySavage]

If it hasn't been said yet: Marriage itself is a mental illness

 

[Travelguy2022]

ah so he is just fishing then?

Only person fishing here is girl smiley fishing for attention

 

[Travelguy2022]

If it hasn't been said yet: Marriage itself is a mental illness

This is true

 

[girlsmiley]

Look at you keeping my post at the top

I’m flattered to have driven you to think I’m the only one posting.

 

[hobbit.]

ah so he is just fishing then?

full on 100% JR Hartley

 

[Travelguy2022]

I’m flattered to have driven you to think I’m the only one posting.

You're my post bumping hero

 

[girlsmiley]

You're my post bumping hero

Me responding and you deflecting

 

[Travelguy2022]

Me responding and you deflecting

Never deflected. I've responded to you along the way, along with everyone else. Despite you calling me names. You and some others think my post is a predator post, or that I'm fishing for info, that's simply not true. You've obviously never been close to a person dealing with serious mental issues. Consider yourself lucky. Thousands of other posts on this site, you seem fixated on mine. Every time you respond, it goes back to the top. So by all means, keep replying. Mental illness is a delicate subject people don't like to discuss. Thank you for keeping my thread alive, you're my hero

 

[girlsmiley]

Never deflected.

Your first two words are lies. Lol sorry that’s as far as I got.

You’re my biggest fan today.

 

[Travelguy2022]

Your first two words are lies. Lol sorry that’s as far as I got.

You’re my biggest fan today.

Anyone who wants to take the time to go through the 4 pages this is up to now (mostly thanks to you), will see it's true. Did you want to push this to 5 pages today?

 

[girlsmiley]

Anyone who wants to take the time to go through the 4 pages this is up to now (mostly thanks to you), will see it's true. Did you want to push this to 5 pages today?

If you like.

You mean mostly thanks to yourself, right? And most were deflection and, well… a load of shit if we’re being honest here. Where you’re just “fake” thanking me for bumps over and over I’m your hero blah blah etc etc.

You realise people can read here, yeah? Literotica. Because you wouldn’t want to embarrass yourself in your own thread. Especially when the goal is to get your dick sucked.

 

[girlsmiley]

Why not talk to your friends and family about what you're going through? Get their support, what about a church if you're involved there? You say, she's mentally, verbally, and physically abusive, but she's banging your brains out? Okay, I paraphrased somewhat. That last line makes no sense to me.

Talk to your attorney about getting power of attorney, take control over your joint finances, or get them separated. If you want to see a counselor, just go. Don't continue to be the victim or abuse spouse, and explain that to her in clear terms.

Probably because it isn’t true.

 

[toeskr]

GS, the troll is not a good source for mental well-being.

They/them, is pretty creepy.

Will try to call you out while hiding skeletons in it's/theys/thems closet.

 

[Travelguy2022]

If you like.

You mean mostly thanks to yourself, right? And most were deflection and, well… a load of shit if we’re being honest here. Where you’re just “fake” thanking me for bumps over and over I’m your hero blah blah etc etc.

You realise people can read here, yeah? Literotica. Because you wouldn’t want to embarrass yourself in your own thread. Especially when the goal is to get your dick sucked.

You expect responses to posts of you calling me names? Am I to respond with calling you names? No thanks. I'll just politely thank you for bumping my post. You're fixated on this theory that I'm looking for a sexual relationship out of this, which is far from the truth. If that's what I wanted, I would've posted it elsewhere, like in the personals section (which clearly I know where that is). If you think this thread is BS, you don't need to keep responding, yet here you are, keeping this thread nice and fresh

 

[jaF0]

Apparently an anonymous person posting stuff about their anonymous spouse is offending some,

Buncha' silly twit twatters. Fuggedaboudem.


I could tell you shit you simply would not believe. No one has so far. Shit's just too far out if you didn't see it happen in person.

 

[jaF0]

perhaps it would be a better use of your time to look for online support groups that may even have professionals there as well to offer advice. If you've time to access Lit to ask this, you have time to access dedicated sites for help.

asking on here is looking for skepticism if you're already posting about sexually-related matters. The GB has a history of those using posts like yours to fish for information as leverage in hook-ups with intent to abuse.

Nawh, this place is as good as any. OP really should try the other thread I linked above though. More supportive over there. Less Aussie.

 

[Travelguy2022]

Why not talk to your friends and family about what you're going through? Get their support, what about a church if you're involved there? You say, she's mentally, verbally, and physically abusive, but she's banging your brains out? Okay, I paraphrased somewhat. That last line makes no sense to me.

Talk to your attorney about getting power of attorney, take control over your joint finances, or get them separated. If you want to see a counselor, just go. Don't continue to be the victim or abuse spouse, and explain that to her in clear terms.

My parents are no longer here, and I'm an only child. Her parents know, but don't like to talk about it. I do talk to friends about it, however none of them are going through what I am. All they say is, "that sucks man, sorry you're going through this."

Regarding the abuse, plus the high sex drive; that's literally how a bipolar person is. High highs, low lows. Medication also comes into play here for the high sex drive.

Really don't expect others to understand if they're not going through this. But at least I have this thread where I'm shining a light on this subject. Despite those who think this thread is something that it's not.

 

[jaF0]

I posted about FWB in the personals section, where that belongs. GB description said this was a place to post about anything else. I started with saying I wasn't sure if this is the right section.

Dude ... the other thread I linked previously. Go there. No GB ers.

 

[jaF0]

You say, she's mentally, verbally, and physically abusive, but she's banging your brains out? Okay, I paraphrased somewhat. That last line makes no sense to me.

Then you clearly do not understand.

 

[girlsmiley]

You expect responses to posts of you calling me names? Am I to respond with calling you names? No thanks. I'll just politely thank you for bumping my post. You're fixated on this theory that I'm looking for a sexual relationship out of this, which is far from the truth. If that's what I wanted, I would've posted it elsewhere, like in the personals section (which clearly I know where that is). If you think this thread is BS, you don't need to keep responding, yet here you are, keeping this thread nice and fresh

That’s a lot of questions. What do you think the thread might have looked like if you weren’t a giant bullshit artist? Do you think that people would be calling you names or telling you you’re full of shit if you’d been honest? And it’s not just me lol. Like, we ALL know you don’t come to Literotica for mental health help, but you’d try to have us all believe that. Self serving.

And again with the thread bumping comments! Seriously?

 

[rockcasbah]

Not sure if this is the right place for this post, but I'm looking to connect with someone who's married to a person with mental health issues. For me, my wife was not always like this. I've been supportive since the onset of it, and continue to get her the help that she needs. However it comes with me being mentally, verbally, and sometimes physically abused. I'm hoping to connect with someone that I can share my experiences with, and for them to share their experiences with me. It would be nice to not feel like I'm the only person going through what I am, and to have support and be supportive to someone who is living with what I'm living with. If this post is relatable to you, please send me a PM

You’re in the right place.

Ahahaha!

 

[Travelguy2022]

That’s a lot of questions. What do you think the thread might have looked like if you weren’t a giant bullshit artist? Do you think that people would be calling you names or telling you you’re full of shit if you’d been honest? And it’s not just me lol. Like, we ALL know you don’t come to Literotica for mental health help, but you’d try to have us all believe that. Self serving.

And again with the thread bumping comments! Seriously?

I'm not sure what you're not comprehending. My OP was very clear, as were my responses to you. I'm looking to communicate with someone going through something similar. Not once did I mention sex, that's what you assume. If that's what I wanted, I would've been upfront about it. I have no desire to have sex or get my dick sucked by a 90 year old man, but if a 90 year old man is going through or has gone through what I am, I'm more than happy to have a conversation with that person. If a female around my age is going through what I am, I'm happy to chat with them as well. They could live a town away from me, I don't want anything sexual from them. This was posted in the GB, not personals, or the fetish section. You don't have to respond over and over, yet here you are, again.

 

[Travelguy2022]

You’re in the right place.

Ahahaha!

Apparently I am