Unwanted Contact

[leeanna19]

Does anyone know if anything has changed on the site recently?

Since yesterday I have had 6 guys contact me. Not stuff about my stories. Wanting to meet.
It's like I have signed up to a dating site.

I have never had this in the 18 months I have been on here.

 

[MadeleineSinha]

Not date requests but I had a brief flurry of WhatsApp requests

If anyone's wondering, no I don't want to join you on WhatsApp to exchange messages or maybe more.

 

[Jackie.Hikaru]

I found that changing my gender to "no answer" in my profile got rid of almost all solicitations

 

[MadeleineSinha]

We should compare 'blocked' lists

 

[ChloeTzang]

Does anyone know if anything has changed on the site recently?

Since yesterday I have had 6 guys contact me. Not stuff about my stories. Wanting to meet.
It's like I have signed up to a dating site.

I have never had this in the 18 months I have been on here.

I get them now and then. They just get deleted. I get them on FB too, intermittently, but there I block them. The guys that do that are mostly outliers, and they pretty much try it on anything where the userid is female, I think.

The dick pic's make me laugh tho. I guess it's a compliment to the effect of my stories on male readers. LOL.

We should compare 'blocked' lists

LOL. There'd probably be a lot of them that we'd all recognize. The dick pic's might be a but harder though. Maybe we could ask Facebook to come up with dick recognition software

 

[Lifestyle66]

.... Maybe we could ask Facebook to come up with dick recognition software

LOL. There's a potential story there. Run with it.

 

[MadeleineSinha]

LOL. There'd probably be a lot of them that we'd all recognize. The dick pic's might be a but harder though. Maybe we could ask Facebook to come up with dick recognition software

I would imagine we'd recognise some of the same Dicks as well

 

[ChloeTzang]

LOL. There's a potential story there. Run with it.

OMG. A Geek Day plot bunny! I love it. Okay, it's really off topic, but rotflmao. Never thought of that, but I love it.

I would imagine we'd recognise some of the same Dicks as well

LOL. I wonder if they have stock photo's on hand, or do they take fresh ones every time

 

[yowser]

LOL. There'd probably be a lot of them that we'd all recognize. The dick pic's might be a but harder though. Maybe we could ask Facebook to come up with dick recognition software

Hey! That's my next story!

Famous (nameless) hi-tech company comes up w/ new series of laptops/tablets for males and females which can only be unlocked by ...

 

[TadOverdon]

I've had a couple in the last few days.

 

[leeanna19]

I get them now and then. They just get deleted. I get them on FB too, intermittently, but there I block them. The guys that do that are mostly outliers, and they pretty much try it on anything where the userid is female, I think.

I'm a TV/CD who leans towards being trans. I have Different Identity in my profile. I have had 3 more since I posted this. I'm in the UK . All the guys are in the USA.

I don't like to be rude, but getting a lot of Hi, just that, or Hiya.

 

[lovecraft68]

I get a taste of what its like to be a woman on the internet due to a twitter account for my female pen name. I've gotten a lot of dick pics. Some of them I want to say 'you're proud of that?"

Other times, I just want to reply with a pic of mine.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

It happens, especially to posters with feminine names. If they seemed polite, I sent them back a polite PM saying thanks but I have a policy of not engaging in online chats. If they seemed to be jerks, I merely blocked them. The problem stopped within a week or two.

Hang in there.

 

[LexxRuthless]

Does anybody even LIKE getting dick pics? I mean, come on! I made sure to spell out "Straight Male" in my profile here, mention that I've been married 22 years, and I STILL get dick pics in my e-mail. When I taught at our community college several years back, my pointy-haired boss thought it would be a good idea to post our photos and cell phone numbers in the campus directory. I had a moustache and goatee at the time, and yet I got 47 dick pics in the following three weeks.

Just eww. And not even good-looking dicks, ever. Even after I used the software to put a smiley face on it.

 

[leeanna19]

Does anybody even LIKE getting dick pics? I mean, come on! I made sure to spell out "Straight Male" in my profile here, mention that I've been married 22 years, and I STILL get dick pics in my e-mail. When I taught at our community college several years back, my pointy-haired boss thought it would be a good idea to post our photos and cell phone numbers in the campus directory. I had a moustache and goatee at the time, and yet I got 47 dick pics in the following three weeks.

Just eww. And not even good-looking dicks, ever. Even after I used the software to put a smiley face on it.

That is so funny. I have had tonnes of "dicktures" on other sites. I wonder if it ever works for these guys. I'm trying to chat to girl online because I want oto meet her how can I do it. I know I'll send a picture of my dick. I'm sure that will work

 

[windar]

Does anybody even LIKE getting dick pics? I mean, come on! I made sure to spell out "Straight Male" in my profile here, mention that I've been married 22 years, and I STILL get dick pics in my e-mail. When I taught at our community college several years back, my pointy-haired boss thought it would be a good idea to post our photos and cell phone numbers in the campus directory. I had a moustache and goatee at the time, and yet I got 47 dick pics in the following three weeks.

Just eww. And not even good-looking dicks, ever. Even after I used the software to put a smiley face on it.

Quite honestly, I have never gotten one in my entire life. Nor sent one...

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

Does anyone know if anything has changed on the site recently?

Since yesterday I have had 6 guys contact me. Not stuff about my stories. Wanting to meet.
It's like I have signed up to a dating site.

I have never had this in the 18 months I have been on here.

Some relief can be found by changing your status to "appear offline" all the time. I think hornies sift through girl names who are "online now." It made a big difference.
Depending on your reasons for being here, you can take it further. I closed my PMs to all but buddies, which saddened me. But, some people think this site IS a free version of "Fuckbook" or "Adult Friend Finder." Lol.
It was not the nice men introducing themselves that bothered me, it was the passive aggressive "nice guys" that get irate if denied digital pussy, or a long, dirty reply, who ruined it for the others...
Hope this helps.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Not specifying sex helps a lot. I've not even had any impolite contacts on Fetlife, which is presumably down to my lack of portraits and being apparently 97, sex unknown, living in Antarctica. I'm not sure I've ever been sent a dick pic in my life, except when female friends have sent ones to laugh at. Queer male friends claim they aren't really into dick pics of strangers either - they'd like to see the shape of an arse, thighs and torso at the least, if the guy doesn't want to show his face.

I changed my profile here to be basically blank - partly to deter complaints that a woman shouldn't be writing gay sex. I say what I see, is all I'll say about that. Haven't had too many annoying contacts - one the other day going 'do you like submissive men' so I replied 'If they're interesting. Read XXX and tell me what you think.' Didn't expect to hear back.
He comes back with 'my cock is in a cage. I resisted saying 'my cock is in a drawer, so what?' and suggested he might enjoy the first two pages of the aforementioned story - though I'd mentally written him off as a twat.

He replies to say 'i don't like reading' - so what the fuck are you doing on a text-based forum, then? Didn't bother replying.

There's definitely a large contingent of subby men who are really pushy about it and clearly get off on making others witnesses to their fantasies, which really isn't submissive at all. Odd. Bound to be a PhD thesis in that.

 

[leeanna19]

Some relief can be found by changing your status to "appear offline" all the time. I think hornies sift through girl names who are "online now." It made a big difference.
Depending on your reasons for being here, you can take it further. I closed my PMs to all but buddies, which saddened me. But, some people think this site IS a free version of "Fuckbook" or "Adult Friend Finder." Lol.
It was not the nice men introducing themselves that bothered me, it was the passive aggressive "nice guys" that get irate if denied digital pussy, or a long, dirty reply, who ruined it for the others...
Hope this helps.

Thank's I just thought it was odd after being on here for over a year and not getting any. Perhaps I should change my profile picture to my little dick peaking out of my panties to put them off.

or perhaps not...

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

Thank's I just thought it was odd after being on here for over a year and not getting any. Perhaps I should change my profile picture to my little dick peaking out of my panties to put them off.

or perhaps not...

I would laugh....Do it and see if they notice.

 

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

Also, if coming in clumps, could be from all one person..

 

[Voboy]

Ever since I added a profile picture I've only gotten one message.

And did something change with messages? When I logged in today my box is no longer full. Did the amount that you can have change or do messages expire and get deleted after a certain time?

You probably JUST crossed the 100-post threshold recently. When that happens, your messaging capacity goes way up.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Oh okay, that makes sense.

Wonder how long until it fills up again?

I think there's another jump at 500 posts, but don't quote me.

Wait, that's not what you meant.

Do you know you can do block deletes of all those unwanted PMs? Or you can turn PMs off except for accounts you permit.

 

[RedLezRedemption]

This is an account Rusty set up for one of his stories - three Uni students who are into gaming and wrote a story for Lit. He decided to use the name so no one would pinch it.

Currently the mailbox is empty. It'll be interesting to see how long it takes before the blowflies land...

 

[KeithD]

I have accounts across gender and kink and do occasionally get a mash PM. Not too many considering this is the Internet, though, and one click and they're gone. No big deal. This is an erotica site and posters have chosen to play on one.