Breeding Kink

[Amberyl]

So, for some context- I used to be severely phobic of pregnancy/pregnant people (as in, would have a panic attack seeing a pregnant woman) and I grew up decently religiously- Not extremely so but enough that I never wanted to have sex before marriage and dealt with a lot of guilt around losing my virginity at 18 without being married. Somehow, between the guilt of unmarried sex and being scared of pregnancy, I started kind of obsessing about it?

It started with a simple fascination with creampies as I've never had one and always been *very* careful to have safe sex- only with condoms, EVER. It was always extremely important to me because I was terrified of getting pregnant and I wouldn't even really let any of my partners rub their dick on me without a condom. But slowly I just started to think about what it would be like if they took the condom off and it turned into a pregnancy risk kink. I've never actually done anything involving it, I've just thought about it * a lot *.

But somehow, as I hit my 20s (I'm 24 now, for reference), it just started getting more and more intense and it went from a pregnancy risk kink to just being obsessed with the idea of being bred. Being pinned down and filled with cum, someone saying they're going to knock me up or fuck a baby into me, that sort of thing. It's gotten to the point that I can't get off without thinking about someone shooting their load inside me and I just fantasize about being knocked up for a large portion of my day.

Weirdly, it's helped with my pregnancy phobia, but I was wondering if this happened to anyone else? Like, just like a switch flipped at a certain age and you just became obsessed with the idea of being impregnated?

It's not even baby fever, necessarily, I don't feel the need to have a child persay (I'm also not sure if I'd even be able to, as women in my family struggle with infertility) but just to be pregnant and be claimed by someone in such a raw, primal way. It doesn't help that I recently learned about microchimerism in pregnancy (tl;dr: fetal cells being stored in maternal blood and tissue) and it just seems so hot to me to have someone elses DNA in me forever.

 

[tristianc]

As a guy I’ve had lots of unprotected sex and I never gave it a second thought of pregnancy risk. But somewhere in my 30’s I’ve stated to enjoy the idea of the risk. The pinning down and primal nature of it, when I play I use words like fertile, seed, womb, virile, potent, etc… my scenarios don’t have to have pregnancy involved just has to state the risk of it. Heck I even like pregnancy encouragement porn.

 

[Acktion]

This resonates for me. On many levels.

I, too, was raised in the "Amen pews" and had my own share of guilt revolving around sexual needs when I was younger. Which was just exacerbated by being given up for adoption as an unwanted pregnancy myself. As such, when I did get around to having sex, it was with my second fiance.

As many issues as I had, she had even more. She was willing to have sex... just as long as I didn't cum in her, on her, or even in the same room with her unless it was in a condom. And Jesus H. Christ on a crutch, you should have heard the shitstorm when the condom broke!

She was also the last person I ever used a condom with.

But, if you'd put my back against the wall, I'd've said that my go-to fetish was for oral in those days, cumming in her mouth and down her throat.

Then in my mid-thirties... and yes, I was married... my late wife took a little eighteen-year-old beauty queen in town on a scholarship won in a pageant and working with her for some pocket money under her wing. I didn't want a damn thing to do with the situation for a variety of reasons, but over the months she gradually won me over.

Last few days she was in town, she stayed with us. I won't go into the details here, but yeah. We ended up having sex for a few hours while my wife was at work. (I'm still not certain that wasn't a set up, but as I say, I won't go into the details here.)

The important thing is that I didn't really think about filling all three of her little holes before she called "done" and went for a run. Not until later that night, after I'd worn my wife out and was going to the kitchen for a drink, still naked.

Talking, we figured out that she'd made a false assumption that I was the one that couldn't have kids and damn near fainted when I cleared up the misconception that my wife'd had her tubes tied after an early abortion, two live births, and three miscarriages during her first marriage. And we'd had at least three ectopic pregnancies that we knew of.

Listening to her half-panicked, talking about how she might be pregnant right then, I sort of lost my mind just a little. And took her again right there on the kitchen table with her panties in her mouth and her shirt she'd been wearing binding her wrists until I came in her twice more.

It may be worth noting that she came harder then than everything I'd done to her that morning. Hard enough she passed out twice.

When it was over, I redressed her and held her in my lap with my hand just below her navel before carrying her back to the couch and tucking her back in.

If I knew that her plane was leaving the next morning, I'd forgotten. And nobody woke me to see her off.

My late wife and I never really spoke of her again, and now it's too late to ask if she'd actually planned that incident or not. (The girl knew my buttons just a little too well. And we kept her picture taken while we were playing dominoes up on the wall. We just didn't talk about her.)

But, that's about when this particular fetish bloomed for me personally. Or at least when I realized it. I had appended a minor in sexology to my undergrad, but I'd never heard of microchimerism. That... I have to say, that makes it just even that much hotter for me.

 

[Amberyl]

This resonates for me. On many levels.
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I just wanted to thank you for this incredibly well-worded to my post- I really didn't expect much in terms of replies but yours was so interesting and exciting to read!

I was raised in the deep south so I always had the big idea to save myself for marriage and such, which, obviously didn't happen- I find your second fiance's issues around cum very interesting, I observed that with a lot of my peers that were raised similarly and it seemed almost like they were TERRIFIED of it. Somehow I went the complete other direction from fear at some point and to fascination/borderline obsession. I was obsessed with blowjobs for a while (still kind of am, honestly) and especially letting people cum down my throat.

I can imagine why you didn't want anything to do with that beauty queen at first, pageants have always freaked me out a little personally, as common as they are where I'm from. It sounds incredibly hot to me how you just took her again when she started freaking out about possibly having gotten pregnant, and honestly, I probably would want the same to happen to me in that situation! You know, when the risk's already there.. You also sound quite sweet, with redressing her and tucking her back in- Can't say anyone I've been with every did that with me!

And yeah, I only recently learned about microchimerism myself and I considered myself decently well educated on reproduction and it just really fascinated me in the hottest of ways. Just the idea of having something of the person that impregnates me always inside me just really does it for me.

 

[bill4672a]

I had never had a breeding fantasy and always thought it a bit odd. Then once during phone sex, my partner said she wanted me to make a baby in her, and I was so turned on by that. It completely surprised me.

 

[HeavyBalls]

It's a primal human need, ingrained into us in general. Nothing wrong in reveling and enjoying the feeling and concept, if only that alone.

For to deny our own impulses is to deny what makes us human.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

...I, too, was raised in the "Amen pews" and had my own share of guilt revolving around sexual needs when I was younger. As many issues as I had, she had even more. She was willing to have sex... just as long as I didn't cum in her, on her, or even in the same room with her unless it was in a condom....

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My first wife was similar, I was 22 and she was 21. Unless I wore a rubber, she would would only jerk me off, and get this, she would only jerk me off while sitting on the toilet so I could cum into the bowl!

Talk about some "issues"!!!

Needless to say we were divorced within 18 months.

 

[water_moutina]

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My first wife was similar, I was 22 and she was 21. Unless I wore a rubber, she would would only jerk me off, and get this, she would only jerk me off while sitting on the toilet so I could cum into the bowl!

Talk about some "issues"!!!

Needless to say we were divorced within 18 months.

Was she like that even before you married her?

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Was she like that even before you married her?

Yes, pretty much. I wasn't her "first" but we probably didn't screw more than 5-6 times before marriage. I seem to remember a "few" handjobs at the drive in movies (now I am dating myself) always finishing in towel I kept under the driver's seat.

Did I mention that she had the BIGGEST tits in our high school?

 

[water_moutina]

Yes, pretty much. I wasn't her "first" but we probably didn't screw more than 5-6 times before marriage. I seem to remember a "few" handjobs at the drive in movies (now I am dating myself) always finishing in towel I kept under the driver's seat.

Did I mention that she had the BIGGEST tits in our high school?

I was thinking why you married her then I read the last part lol

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I was thinking why you married her then I read the last part lol

Please remember, we were in LOVE

 

[TheWhiteBull]

I can’t say my experience was quite as dramatic as yours, but I understand it nonetheless.

I was also raised by a strict, conservative mother/grandmother. I was the only one of my generation (small town, large family) to graduate High School without already having a kid or with one on the way. This was not due to any fear over it or any sense of shame. I already knew all that was bullshit by that point. Rather it was the direct experience of seeing how all of my cousins’ lives were affected by having children so early.

That being said, I did get married the year after graduating and impregnated her within the first month…

I don’t know that she has a breeding kink per se, but she does love it when I finish inside and somedays really expresses interest in getting pregnant again. We’re several kids in though at this point and I’m done, so I got the snip a few years ago and haven’t looked back.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I personally love this kink. I often fantasize about getting filled with cum and making a baby. It can be more forceful or invitational. I’m always so horny when I’m ovulating and I want to be filled with cum so badly. I don’t really want to be pregnant again and have another baby but the fantasy of it makes me so horny and hot to be fucked.

 

[grandprix1041]

Momma you are so hot you're on fire.

 

[PMarky]

I have one little lass who is "brain-crack" anyway, as she turns me on intellectually, which is much more effective than simply appealing to my cock. She is a generation younger than I am, but for all that we share a lot of our ideas and ideals, not to mention the fact that we have had conversations that have trespassed on to the topic of kids, and how to bring them up. She wants three kids, and she too is of the 'free-range, dirty-eating' school of child-rearing. After those conversations I go home and whack off to the fantasy of her giving me her slender body and begging me to get her pregnant. It is very powerful.

 

[LarsPorsena]

This was not a subject which particularly interested until a female friend with whom I had occasional sex for over a decade asked me if I'd consider giving her a baby. She was divorced, not really attractive and finding it difficult to find a new partner and actively considering artificial insemination.

We discussed this a few times, I was not keen on having a child myself or in my life but started getting extremely excited at the idea of impregnating her. Although she seemed to cool at the idea of bringing up a child by herself we ended up having unprotected sex twice - she had always been very careful and insisted I wore condoms throughout. It was wonderful to have sex skin on skin feeling her wetness and exploring her large pussy properly. The second time it happened, we used to have long multi-orgasmic sessions, I remember waking in the middle of the night and mounting her and we both had tremendous orgasms, I held myself deep in her when I ejaculated and I was a very heavy ejaculator at the time. Of course, I made her pregnant. She insists to this day she felt the moment of conception.

From then on I've been more interested in breeding. In particular my huge-breasted and pretty niece (adult) often talks about having a baby without a partner and I fantasise about me being the provider once again but that, I think, will definitely remain a fantasy!

 

[ImiGirrst]

So, for some context- I used to be severely phobic of pregnancy/pregnant people (as in, would have a panic attack seeing a pregnant woman) and I grew up decently religiously- Not extremely so but enough that I never wanted to have sex before marriage and dealt with a lot of guilt around losing my virginity at 18 without being married. Somehow, between the guilt of unmarried sex and being scared of pregnancy, I started kind of obsessing about it?

I wrote this before I realized this was dated 5 months ago, but I'll lleave my response in case someone else can appreciate it.

Cudos to you for having the courage to bare your soul here. It's a tough thing to do. And especially on this topic, because we have never been more polarized on the topic than we are today.


This is an age-old challenge for women. You're a ho for wanting sex, you're a prude for wanting sex to be on your own terms, you're a slut for enjoying it, you're not making the most of your youth if you dare to say you want to me a mom and you're a frigid bitch if you want to have your own life or career. In my generation, you couldn't win, and yet we tried to do it all (just read some Wendy Wasserstein).


I think it's getting much better for younger women, in many places. I'd like to think that your generation has learned from my own. There are many times I wish the internet - and Lit - had been around when I was your age. I suspect my life would have been very different. </p> </p>
So, as such - you're not so different and you're in really good company. I also frequent ArchiveOfOurOwn.com where breeding stories run rampant. So I would say fascinate away.

I would also say try to understand where this is coming from. I wouldn't doubt that somehow, your body has had a massive increase in hormones for some reason. There are a hella lot of women who have this kink in their late 30s-early 40s. My theory is that this is mother nature's way of keeping the world going. The fact is fucking feels good. And there is a purpose TO FUCKING. Lemme tell you, if you think you are got an obsession now about sex, wait until you do get pregnant and past morning sickness. If you have a male partner, this might be his happiest time, because it just might be the time he gets laid most!


But keep fantasy, fantasy, unless you are really sure. Raising kids by yourself can be done - and has been for hundreds of thousands of years. But it really does take a village to raise the next generation well. As much as you love your kid(s), the best thing you can do for them is to love yourself. If you want to be a mom - be a mom. No matter what anyone tells you, you don't have to give up other things you want to be in order TO BE a mom.


And don't let anyone tell you, you should wait to be a mom. That you need more money, better house, farther along in your career - it's all a load of horse crap. There is never a good time to have a kid. But as long as your kid is loved - that kid ain't going to care. They don't care what they wear, or how the house looks. And don't give up on yourself - having a supportive partner of some ilk will make life easier, but no matter, all the important stuff will work itself out because our country has a lot to take care of moms and kids. Maybe not the way you expected or on the timeline you expected, but maybe it's also not so bad.


Having had my kid at 39, I carried really well. But then I got really exhausted when it came time to actually BE a mom. My body didn't bounce back the way I saw so many younger women do. And I wish that I had started younger, because I wished there would have been more than one (but I'm so grateful to having got one in the first place). That's why I wish Lit was around when I was younger, because I could have had this talk, and learned that I could walk my own path, and ENJOY the idea of getting pregnant instead of being so terrified of it because it required me to give me away. (That's a load of horse crap too.)


So, I know I sound like a wet blanket because we're talking about kinks - but breeding is breeding. The whole point is GETTING PREGNANT - which means there is another person to consider. So if you're going to do something beyond fantastic

And if you do decide to do more than fantasize, and you do get pregnant and you do have a wee one - I would highly recommended looking up the folks on here with milk fetishes. I look back and this is another one I wish I would have had Lit to refer to more. I was really bound up about it, and I couldn't let go. I have a different attitude now, and this is one regret that really is time sensitive. (I can guarenttee you that Corbie will let you know just how sexy you are!)

 

[givememoresir]

My partner and I are actively trying to have a baby AND I have a breeding kink. Every time we have sex, it drives me wild knowing that I am really bein bred.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

I wrote this before I realized this was dated 5 months ago, but I'll lleave my response in case someone else can appreciate it.

Cudos to you for having the courage to bare your soul here. It's a tough thing to do. And especially on this topic, because we have never been more polarized on the topic than we are today.


This is an age-old challenge for women. You're a ho for wanting sex, you're a prude for wanting sex to be on your own terms, you're a slut for enjoying it, you're not making the most of your youth if you dare to say you want to me a mom and you're a frigid bitch if you want to have your own life or career. In my generation, you couldn't win, and yet we tried to do it all (just read some Wendy Wasserstein).


I think it's getting much better for younger women, in many places. I'd like to think that your generation has learned from my own. There are many times I wish the internet - and Lit - had been around when I was your age. I suspect my life would have been very different. </p> </p>
So, as such - you're not so different and you're in really good company. I also frequent ArchiveOfOurOwn.com where breeding stories run rampant. So I would say fascinate away.

I would also say try to understand where this is coming from. I wouldn't doubt that somehow, your body has had a massive increase in hormones for some reason. There are a hella lot of women who have this kink in their late 30s-early 40s. My theory is that this is mother nature's way of keeping the world going. The fact is fucking feels good. And there is a purpose TO FUCKING. Lemme tell you, if you think you are got an obsession now about sex, wait until you do get pregnant and past morning sickness. If you have a male partner, this might be his happiest time, because it just might be the time he gets laid most!


But keep fantasy, fantasy, unless you are really sure. Raising kids by yourself can be done - and has been for hundreds of thousands of years. But it really does take a village to raise the next generation well. As much as you love your kid(s), the best thing you can do for them is to love yourself. If you want to be a mom - be a mom. No matter what anyone tells you, you don't have to give up other things you want to be in order TO BE a mom.


And don't let anyone tell you, you should wait to be a mom. That you need more money, better house, farther along in your career - it's all a load of horse crap. There is never a good time to have a kid. But as long as your kid is loved - that kid ain't going to care. They don't care what they wear, or how the house looks. And don't give up on yourself - having a supportive partner of some ilk will make life easier, but no matter, all the important stuff will work itself out because our country has a lot to take care of moms and kids. Maybe not the way you expected or on the timeline you expected, but maybe it's also not so bad.


Having had my kid at 39, I carried really well. But then I got really exhausted when it came time to actually BE a mom. My body didn't bounce back the way I saw so many younger women do. And I wish that I had started younger, because I wished there would have been more than one (but I'm so grateful to having got one in the first place). That's why I wish Lit was around when I was younger, because I could have had this talk, and learned that I could walk my own path, and ENJOY the idea of getting pregnant instead of being so terrified of it because it required me to give me away. (That's a load of horse crap too.)


So, I know I sound like a wet blanket because we're talking about kinks - but breeding is breeding. The whole point is GETTING PREGNANT - which means there is another person to consider. So if you're going to do something beyond fantastic

And if you do decide to do more than fantasize, and you do get pregnant and you do have a wee one - I would highly recommended looking up the folks on here with milk fetishes. I look back and this is another one I wish I would have had Lit to refer to more. I was really bound up about it, and I couldn't let go. I have a different attitude now, and this is one regret that really is time sensitive. (I can guarenttee you that Corbie will let you know just how sexy you are!)

I wish I could like this post twice! It rings so true about so many things. The urge to be bred is real, and it can be powerfully strong. But the consequences are SO huge. As my husband says "There's nothing as real as a baby. Pregnancy changes you ... physically, mentally, emotionally.

But estrogen is still a hell of a drug. I'm in my early 40's and my body is like "chop chop, we're running out of time! Can't let those eggs go to waste! Why don't you let that cute young guy over there cum in you?"

 

[AficionadoAngel]

Like some others here, I've always been very afraid of getting pregnant (mainly with the wrong person at the wrong time in my life) and my body doesn't react well to birth control so I've pretty much only had sex with condoms exclusively. I still enjoy it tremendously and everything else that goes with it, but it turns me on a lot when I think of having a bare cock inside me and filling me with come....especially if the purpose is to get me pregnant. I have friends who have had a hard time getting pregnant and they complained about all the sex they had to have when the time was right. Maybe it does actually get tedious after a while, but I love the idea of dutifully spreading my legs and letting my partner fill me up at any given time. In a strange way, I also think it would be quite exciting to be pregnant and round, but still satisfy my partner's ongoing needs with my body.

 

[BillTheKatt90]

We have a litter of kids. It was our plan even when we were super young to have a lot of kids.

When we were making them, sex was sizzling and nonstop. It was hot, fun, experimental, frequent. It involved dress-up, fantasy, different locations, all kinds of positions, and even video cameras (back in the VHS days!). I would barely make eye contact and she was ripping my pants off. There was chatter about how she would be more likely to get knocked up if the orgasms were particularly good, which egged us each to wring the most pleasure out of the other. Most of our many kids were born within 20 months of their nearest siblings. That took up most of our 20s, and into our early 30s.

Then we had enough kids (again, we have a lot), and we started taking measures to prevent pregnancy. Some sparkle or heat or something special about sex just died. We still really enjoy our sex life, but it just isn't the same intensity without the risk/intention of pregnancy.

I am nearly certain that the very thought of making a baby added a thick layer of eroticism to the act of making a baby, and on a several levels. I am really confident wife would say that, too, because when we joke about having another baby in our forties, a simple kiss goodbye in the foyer of the house seems to heat up a bunch.

Or maybe I am a sentimental fool remembering in a golden haze our younger years when we would fuck 9 or 10 times a week.

 

[tristianc]

The original post in this thread resonates with me so much. I’ve never really been interested in having a family or being pregnant, but the very narrow focus of getting pregnant (or, more accurately, being impregnated) is so hot to me in a visceral, animalistic way.
My “digital sex life” currently surpasses my “IRL sex life” because I have so many other things going on, but I, too, am at the point where the fantasy of having someone cum in me / breed me is so essential to my fantasies that I can’t get off if I’m chatting/sexting someone and they say they want to shoot in my mouth or on my tits. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve wanted to stomp my feet and say “that’s NOT where I want it!” But then when I do meet a partner who says all the lovely nasty things about holding me down and putting a baby in me or filling up my fertile cunt whether I want it or not (I’m realizing even as I type this post that apparently, my NC fantasies are tied pretty closely to my breeding fantasies) then it’s like flipping a switch, I come so hard.

NC and breeding fantasies should always be hand in hand, or close to it.

 

[Hardkoch2]

Agree with a lot here, its a natural and primal need for many. As a bloke you want to knock up and show that your seed is potent and nothing more sexy than a big pregnant belly. Makes the fucking so much hotter and both cum so hard in my experience.

Again and again.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

The original post in this thread resonates with me so much. I’ve never really been interested in having a family or being pregnant, but the very narrow focus of getting pregnant (or, more accurately, being impregnated) is so hot to me in a visceral, animalistic way.
My “digital sex life” currently surpasses my “IRL sex life” because I have so many other things going on, but I, too, am at the point where the fantasy of having someone cum in me / breed me is so essential to my fantasies that I can’t get off if I’m chatting/sexting someone and they say they want to shoot in my mouth or on my tits. I can’t even count the number of times I’ve wanted to stomp my feet and say “that’s NOT where I want it!” But then when I do meet a partner who says all the lovely nasty things about holding me down and putting a baby in me or filling up my fertile cunt whether I want it or not (I’m realizing even as I type this post that apparently, my NC fantasies are tied pretty closely to my breeding fantasies) then it’s like flipping a switch, I come so hard.

This. Even my totally unrelated fantasies often eventually work their way around in my head to me being bred.

For me, it's not tied to lack of consent though. (Although I do fantasize about that too.) The trigger for me seems to be being bred by a stranger, someone who's not my husband or even a boyfriend. Just an insatiable male animal who desperately needs to satisfy his instincts. He doesn't force me, but he does overpower me.

 

[tristianc]

This. Even my totally unrelated fantasies often eventually work their way around in my head to me being bred.

For me, it's not tied to lack of consent though. (Although I do fantasize about that too.) The trigger for me seems to be being bred by a stranger, someone who's not my husband or even a boyfriend. Just an insatiable male animal who desperately needs to satisfy his instincts. He doesn't force me, but he does overpower me.

Seduction by a stranger just getting you so hot you eventually take him inside you feel him moving against your wet pussy walls exiting you, going harder and faster until you feel that last pulse, hear that unmistakable groan and know he is flooding you deeply, his seed pulled into your fertile womb. You don’t even know if the name or story about him you heard that night was even real but your body took his seed the same as if it were a man you’ve known for years.