The Joys of Cheating

Before I was married, I was very open to sex on any date!..if I was dating someone or not.

I won't say I have an "open" marriage, but we've both seen other people and confessed it. I do enjoy something different at times, though it's rare now a days.
Variety is the Spice of Life
 
I'll jump in- Interesting thread. I have travelled over the years. I have cheated. I have been caught. I have made some poor choices over the years. I have made some fun choices over the years. I have some adventures that I STILL will not share with my wife- no sense in dredging it up..... but still have those adventures in my memories- and makes me part of who I am. People judge or want to guess me- let them.

There IS joy in cheating sometimes....there is pain some times and foolishness sometimes.

but live for the joy!!

wow- too early to be this philosophical??

My experience and thoughts exactly.
 
Before I was married, I was very open to sex on any date!..if I was dating someone or not.

I won't say I have an "open" marriage, but we've both seen other people and confessed it. I do enjoy something different at times, though it's rare now a days.

I highly recommend open marriage!
 
Cheating is wrong of course but it does provide a little extra excitement. Currently I am seeing a man that things I am cheating on my husband. He does not know that hubby knows and is encouraging me. For me it is a bit of role play cheating but a little excitement. It does seem that some men like the idea of shagging another man's wife without him knowing.
 
My wife and I now have an open relationship but it all started with her cheating on me. Even though it's still a lot of fun knowing that she's sleeping with other men, there was something extra erotic about her doing it behind my back and miss that feeling of being cheated on. She also admits that sometimes she misses the extra thrill of sneaking around or coming home after a wild tryst and having the knowledge of what she was just doing while trying to make it seem like she was doing something innocuous like shopping or even going to work.

While I've never cheated, I have been the man who a woman has cheated with and although I do feel guilty, it was also thrilling to know that I was with another man's woman.
 
Cheating is wrong of course but it does provide a little extra excitement. Currently I am seeing a man that things I am cheating on my husband. He does not know that hubby knows and is encouraging me. For me it is a bit of role play cheating but a little excitement. It does seem that some men like the idea of shagging another man's wife without him knowing.

The best of all worlds -- you have some of the excitement of cheating but can have fun telling your husband too
 
I think over the years I've learned to enjoy aspects of cheating. It's something that I had never even considered until my husband told me about his own cheating kink. Not so much him cheating, rather being turned on by the idea of his partner doing things behind his back. We've had an open relationship pretty much since we started dating, but he would often encouraged me to feel free to have fun on my own without telling him. That always felt wrong to me and I didn't understand why I wouldn't tell him when we always had open communication and a very open relationship. That is until the first time I did it oh, I'll be at it was to surprise and satiate his own fantasy. It was so much fun planning everything and having to be so secretive. The most thrilling thing was that he happened to call me right in the middle of me going down on the guy and I had to answer the call with a cock still in my face. All it took was that one experience to want to do it again. Eventually I do tell him about it but it's always a surprise and he loves finding out when I've done something behind his back.
 
I think over the years I've learned to enjoy aspects of cheating. It's something that I had never even considered until my husband told me about his own cheating kink. Not so much him cheating, rather being turned on by the idea of his partner doing things behind his back. We've had an open relationship pretty much since we started dating, but he would often encouraged me to feel free to have fun on my own without telling him. That always felt wrong to me and I didn't understand why I wouldn't tell him when we always had open communication and a very open relationship. That is until the first time I did it oh, I'll be at it was to surprise and satiate his own fantasy. It was so much fun planning everything and having to be so secretive. The most thrilling thing was that he happened to call me right in the middle of me going down on the guy and I had to answer the call with a cock still in my face. All it took was that one experience to want to do it again. Eventually I do tell him about it but it's always a surprise and he loves finding out when I've done something behind his back.

Agree withn all of this
 
Its definitely risk vs reward. Ive never been big on cheating on my own partner but absolutely love it when I sleep with a taken woman. The thrill of the naughtiness plus the fact that they want to fuck even though they morally should not. It makes it very exciting.
 
Its definitely risk vs reward. Ive never been big on cheating on my own partner but absolutely love it when I sleep with a taken woman. The thrill of the naughtiness plus the fact that they want to fuck even though they morally should not. It makes it very exciting.

I love taking another woman's man
 
The best of all worlds -- you have some of the excitement of cheating but can have fun telling your husband too

I am fairly new at this lifestyle and my first two lovers knew that my husband knew and approved. My latest lover thinks I am cheating. It does add a little spice to the relationship. There is also some convenience in that it keeps them from expecting too much time from you. I also think he enjoys thinking he is getting someone else's wife and the husband does not know. The relationship dynamics seem quite different when you are cheating as opposed to being a share wife or hot wife.
 
This is the only drawback of opening up our marriage to hotwife status. I’ll never again know that thrill of my wife being taken by another man in a cheating scenario. Her getting fucked in that hotel room,!The next guy getting her naked then into his bed! The whole time my wife in screaming in her head “I shouldn’t be doing this!” And the thrill the other man is feeling knowing the pussy his cock is in was vowed to her husband!
 
My husband knows that I cheat. Sometimes I do it to puss hum off or get back at him. Sometimes I'm just horny. He's caught me a few times and it turns me on more. It's even better when the guy is married and cheating too.
 
My husband knows that I cheat. Sometimes I do it to puss hum off or get back at him. Sometimes I'm just horny. He's caught me a few times and it turns me on more. It's even better when the guy is married and cheating too.

I've been fooling around before I realized the "cheating thrill". I guess I liked sex and just gave a label later. Most of my regulars started as singles but now they are all married too
I love the idea of draining a guy and sending him to his wife
 
I've been fooling around before I realized the "cheating thrill". I guess I liked sex and just gave a label later. Most of my regulars started as singles but now they are all married too
I love the idea of draining a guy and sending him to his wife

The second time I cheated was with my husband's friend. It started with my husband staring me with him one night. Then we started to get together behind his back. Then he got engaged. I even did a strip dancer for his bachelor party. I ended up banging him into the first year of his marriage. I felt like it was more a thrill after he was married. Since then, I always got git around married men. Friends husbands are the best. I feel bad about it, but I kind of love hanging out with my friends knowing that I fucked their husbands.
 
The second time I cheated was with my husband's friend. It started with my husband staring me with him one night. Then we started to get together behind his back. Then he got engaged. I even did a strip dancer for his bachelor party. I ended up banging him into the first year of his marriage. I felt like it was more a thrill after he was married. Since then, I always got git around married men. Friends husbands are the best. I feel bad about it, but I kind of love hanging out with my friends knowing that I fucked their husbands.

I am extra careful. I don't play or even flirt with anyone who I met through my hubs. I've only had one women friend whose husband I had sex with. He wasn't a regular tho
 
I am extra careful. I don't play or even flirt with anyone who I met through my hubs. I've only had one women friend whose husband I had sex with. He wasn't a regular tho

I've had sex with most of my husband's friends. My main regular is right in the neighborhood.
 
I'm scared. If they are friends with my hubs, then who knows when they go drinking and get drunk and spill shit out

Oh, my husband knows about a few of them. He was passed at first but he got over it. Actually, I fucjed a few eight in front of him when we got in a fight. He told me I was embarrassing because 8 was filtung with one of them. I showed him embarrassing.
 
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