What made you shake your head today?

[PattiJolene]

Drivers, honestly l don't know how some get a license

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I’ve been reading this site since 1999 and posting in the forums since 2001. I am literally shaking my head at a relative newcomer who thinks he can tell people where they can post. Wow.

 

[ydahecnot]

I’ve been reading this site since 1999 and posting in the forums since 2001. I am literally shaking my head at a relative newcomer who thinks he can tell people where they can post. Wow.

But is this the proper forum to express that?

 

[ToPleaseHim]

But is this the proper forum to express that?

I’ll post where I want to! Harumph!

 

[Sinstories]

Drivers, honestly l don't know how some get a license

This..after 11 hours on the road...the US needs to require all drivers to learn how to fucking drive on interstates...stupid doesn't begin to cover it

 

[cheekygirl75]

Dog owners whose dogs somehow get loose & go wandering out in the cold (and now rain ), without any tags…

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I’ve been reading this site since 1999 and posting in the forums since 2001. I am literally shaking my head at a relative newcomer who thinks he can tell people where they can post. Wow.

You can’t actually tell someone where to post. You can delete posts if you have superpowers. You can weed out none bdsm related posts in sections of the site , well because that’s for bdsm stufff only.

You can spin doctor to influence thought. Yep that can happen.

 

[barefootgirl69]

People who are narcissist and those that feed them.

 

[fire_breeze]

Trying to find some old favourite threads and realising that they are closed :sob:

 

[TongueLust]

Persuasive Alts.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

You can’t actually tell someone where to post. You can delete posts if you have superpowers. You can weed out none bdsm related posts in sections of the site , well because that’s for bdsm stufff only.

You can spin doctor to influence thought. Yep that can happen.

Show me where it says The Playground is for “vanilla” posting only, or for only “vanilla” people. This is a bulletin board on an erotic site; there are a lot of people of all sexual persuasions and there are no rules that say people must stay in one area of Lit. You don’t get to make up rules that don’t exist and your trolling to enforce them is just pathetic.

Yep, I will remove things from the BDSM forum that don’t belong. That’s the job I signed up for. I wouldn’t tell someone that they shouldn’t belong there because they aren’t kinky enough. I am spinning nothing.

 

[JerseyJade]

Lit drama.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Show me where it says The Playground is for “vanilla” posting only, or for only “vanilla” people. This is a bulletin board on an erotic site; there are a lot of people of all sexual persuasions and there are no rules that say people must stay in one area of Lit. You don’t get to make up rules that don’t exist and your trolling to enforce them is just pathetic.

Yep, I will remove things from the BDSM forum that don’t belong. That’s the job I signed up for. I wouldn’t tell someone that they shouldn’t belong there because they aren’t kinky enough. I am spinning nothing.

So it’s ok to make a humiliation kink thread in the Playground or any kinda kink threads in the playground for that matter that involve bdsm , is that what you are saying? And they won’t be removed.

But not ok to make a 50 shades of grey talking point in the bdsm section of the site ?

For the record , don’t forget my stalker Fara3.0 since I first made the account. The one that followed me around like a puppy from day 3 I think. While I ignored her and she posted trolling , breaking all these rules you talk about.

When she crosses the line and I messaged you to say maybe this has gone on long enough and could you ask her to stop . I was a newbie don’t forget. You almost immediately, made a post mocking me and stating people should learn to use the ignore feature , generalized of course , but you just don’t get how much you enable Fara3.0 and her same actions that you are dogging me about.

What you are forgetting about is getting to the root of this cancer , the puppet master of chaos that you enable by deleting and censoring whenever your superpowers can come into play. Out here in this section that your censoring powers don’t work **you do this.

I’ve never bothered with anyone that didn’t attack me first. Why should I actually.

But I see no reason to just take it because the puppet master , starts chaos and then steps back and watches. I’m actually not the only one this has happened to , there are lots of newbies run off because of this pattern that You enable .

The ignore feature, like you said works two ways. I ignored Amy , she lost her shit because why , shrugs I don’t actually care it’s in her head not mine.

She has made a whole thread as a humiliation trubite to me. K , I posted it’s not my birthday and left it there.

There’s a fake. The real Fingerfuxs account there with no posting history but it has a AV ?

Hacker , someone with superpowers, just how does that happen ?

So seriously , shitstorms are created by chaos and puppet masters Not a meanie that doesn’t observe your rules and Lit protocols.

 

[Dribble]

Hypocrisy of the Lit Playground.

Rule 1: Only those in the clique get to change the rules as they see fit.

Rule 2: Holding up a mirror to show the hypocrisy is not allowed. See Rule 1.

 

[BadAmy]

.....

 

[ydahecnot]

He also attacked me unprovoked, just to piggyback

 

[ToPleaseHim]

So it’s ok to make a humiliation kink thread in the Playground or any kinda kink threads in the playground for that matter that involve bdsm , is that what you are saying? And they won’t be removed.

But not ok to make a 50 shades of grey talking point in the bdsm section of the site ?

For the record , don’t forget my stalker Fara3.0 since I first made the account. The one that followed me around like a puppy from day 3 I think. While I ignored her and she posted trolling , breaking all these rules you talk about.

When she crosses the line and I messaged you to say maybe this has gone on long enough and could you ask her to stop . I was a newbie don’t forget. You almost immediately, made a post mocking me and stating people should learn to use the ignore feature , generalized of course , but you just don’t get how much you enable Fara3.0 and her same actions that you are dogging me about.

What you are forgetting about is getting to the root of this cancer , the puppet master of chaos that you enable by deleting and censoring whenever your superpowers can come into play. Out here in this section that your censoring powers don’t work **you do this.

I’ve never bothered with anyone that didn’t attack me first. Why should I actually.

But I see no reason to just take it because the puppet master , starts chaos and then steps back and watches. I’m actually not the only one this has happened to , there are lots of newbies run off because of this pattern that You enable .

The ignore feature, like you said works two ways. I ignored Amy , she lost her shit because why , shrugs I don’t actually care it’s in her head not mine.

She has made a whole thread as a humiliation trubite to me. K , I posted it’s not my birthday and left it there.

There’s a fake. The real Fingerfuxs account there with no posting history but it has a AV ?

Hacker , someone with superpowers, just how does that happen ?

So seriously , shitstorms are created by chaos and puppet masters Not a meanie that doesn’t observe your rules and Lit protocols.

I can’t say if a thread on humiliation kink would be removed from the Playground. I’m not a mod in the PG. Over the years, there have been many threads and discussions about kinky topics in the PG. It’s not a banned topic. People are not prohibited from posting here. Submissive women are allowed outside of the BDSM forum, lmao.

I just searched “Fifty Shades” in the BDSM Talk forum. There were over 100 threads that hit, several of which have the name in the title of the thread.

I searched my PMs and don’t see one from you when you were new. I’ll look again as maybe we have different definitions of new and I get a lot of PMs (Of course, there is another annoying male user who PMd me many times complaining about women in the BDSM and other forums. Did you message me from a different account?) The beauty of my PM inbox as a mod is that I have a LOT of storage and I have never deleted a message. I have PMs back to 2016 when I became a mod. You first came on my radar in fall of 2020 and it was my impression at that time that you were harassing Fara. I can understand that you think you are incapable of wrongdoing, but that doesn’t change my perception. You also tried to provoke me several times with little jabs here and there using variations of my username. I didn’t take your bait and you mostly moved on.

You really like to complain about people doing the same things you do. Stop harassing people.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

First 5 pages of my inbox are May 2020 to present day. Zero from you, FingerFux. I have not deleted a single PM since becoming a mod.

 

[Sinstories]

How much this thread reminds me of one of the very first memes. Subject was arguing on the internet. Still true all these years later.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

First 5 pages of my inbox are May 2020 to present day. Zero from you, FingerFux. I have not deleted a single PM since becoming a mod.

K , it’s a moot point anyway at this point. I’ve said what needed to be said. You’ve said what’s needed to be said. We both haven’t actually addressed the puppet master struggles we seem to be having.

So , that s that.

Quoted from bdsm cafe pet peeves thread…….Nov 2020 , literally two minutes after I messaged and asked for newbie help about Fara3.0 trolling me. ……..One beauty of moderating this forum is that there are almost never petty reports of posts. Almost never, but the rare petty one is always annoying. Folks, the ignore feature is your friend.


You’ve edited and deleted lots of my posts there , so a honest opinion isn’t available for anyone that wants to bother.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=672732&page=2

 

[Dribble]

He also attacked me unprovoked, just to piggyback

Doubtful. You attacked me first. Remember? So all I see is a reoccurring theme.

There are many here that I do not like. You are one. But not for the reason you suspect. I believe you to be fake. Someone that can't be trusted. The reason I believe this is based on how you interact with others when it comes to touchy subjects...how you pile on. Instead of just simply saying "I disagree". You act like a self-appointed moderator. Who are you? A piss ant. Same as me.

(I am no longer talking to Y for the rest of this drivil)
The reason drama exists here is because people create it. They participate in it. If you don't like what someone says...let it go. Or if you can't do that...call them an asshole and then let it go. You don't have to say anything. Your opinion does not matter to anyone but yourself. It solves nothing. They aren't important. You aren't important. I am not important. None of this matters. So why pretend it matters? Is your life that empty that if some anonymous asshole insults you...you take it personal? Seriously? Grow up.

 

[Dribble]

Shaking my head and laughing so hard right now...the fucker was point blank caught in yet another lie and then responds with "well that wasnt the point anyway"

Another person I don't like. For the same reasons. You can believe he lied....that is your right. But why state it? What does it solve? Nothing.

 

[ydahecnot]

Doubtful. You attacked me first. Remember? So all I see is a reoccurring theme.

There are many here that I do not like. You are one. But not for the reason you suspect. I believe you to be fake. Someone that can't be trusted. The reason I believe this is based on how you interact with others when it comes to touchy subjects...how you pile on. Instead of just simply saying "I disagree". You act like a self-appointed moderator. Who are you? A piss ant. Same as me.

(I am no longer talking to Y for the rest of this drivil)
The reason drama exists here is because people create it. They participate in it. If you don't like what someone says...let it go. Or if you can't do that...call them an asshole and then let it go. You don't have to say anything. Your opinion does not matter to anyone but yourself. It solves nothing. They aren't important. You aren't important. I am not important. None of this matters. So why pretend it matters? Is your life that empty that if some anonymous asshole insults you...you take it personal? Seriously? Grow up.

I did not attack you. I said arguing politics on a sex board is silly. I said the level of discourse on a board matters. The fake accusation? Yeah, a personal attack, but whatevs. I have been called worse by better.

 

[OxfordJack]

This place...what the fuck happened to it?

 

[OxfordJack]

Fingerfuxs happened


But I think if we can collectively ignore him we can get back some semblance of fun, maybe?

Let's hope so!