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Time to revisit this thread :)

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And a question for everyone: how do you bring up rimming to a partner? Do you ask them verbally, before or during sex? Or do you work your way to their ass and if they don't object, continue? Or do you have another method?

In the past few relationships that I had, I just did it as I was going down on her - usually while I was behind her and she was facing downwards. It was very easy to lick her asshole since it was displayed, but I didn't just go for it alone. I just trailed my tongue up to it while licking upwards from her pussy.

No complaints or push a ways meant that either she didn't mind it or wanted more of it.
 
In the past few relationships that I had, I just did it as I was going down on her - usually while I was behind her and she was facing downwards. It was very easy to lick her asshole since it was displayed, but I didn't just go for it alone. I just trailed my tongue up to it while licking upwards from her pussy.

No complaints or push a ways meant that either she didn't mind it or wanted more of it.

They didn't object or try to push you away, so they seemingly didn't mind it as you said.

I take from you're not mentioning it that none returned the favor to you?

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They didn't object or try to push you away, so they seemingly didn't mind it as you said.

I take from you're not mentioning it that none returned the favor to you?

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Holy Cow, that was Hottt, I could go for some of that. :):)
 
They didn't object or try to push you away, so they seemingly didn't mind it as you said.

I take from you're not mentioning it that none returned the favor to you?

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no, my ex would do it to me while giving me a bj, incredible feeling to have both done at the same time. Well, maybe NOT at the exact same time, but doing both together, gong from dick to ass and then back.

I do miss that feeling!

Incredible!!
 
Holy Cow, that was Hottt, I could go for some of that. :):)

Few men would turn it down :)

no, my ex would do it to me while giving me a bj, incredible feeling to have both done at the same time. Well, maybe NOT at the exact same time, but doing both together, gong from dick to ass and then back.

I do miss that feeling!

Incredible!!

It is a great feeling, whether giving or receiving :)

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Few men would turn it down :)



It is a great feeling, whether giving or receiving :)

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I agree ... giving and receiving are both great, assuming both are fully into it ... it is intimacy as its naughty best, the taboo nature of the contact adds a rush that sends me into the stratosphere!!!
 
Few men would turn it down :)



It is a great feeling, whether giving or receiving :)

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Love your new avatar.
So willowly, tell us about your first experiences. When did you know it was something you wanted.
 
Love your new avatar.

Thank you :)

So willowly, tell us about your first experiences. When did you know it was something you wanted.

My first experience was with my first husband. I wasn't young when we married (23) and I wasn't a virgin either, I was still quite naive about sex. When we made love, he never went right for my ass. He'd caress it, run his fingers along the crack, but never go in. The times he went down on me he'd go towards it, but never went all the way to it. And of course I'd never dream of touching his, other than grabbing his ass cheeks.

One night we came back from a party at a friend's house. We'd both been drinking and we were both feeling horny. We got in the shower, scrubbed each other up and started making out. He got down on his knees and started eating my pussy, and he did that for a few minutes. Then he went around behind me. At first I thought he was going to fuck me from behind, as he did like that. Instead, he stayed on his knees, spread my ass cheeks and just started eating my ass. I let out a yelp and told him not to do that. But he kept doing it and I suddenly realized that it felt really good. So good my knees just buckled and I sank down. He held onto me, licking my ass and stuck his fingers into my pussy and started fingering me. It felt so good I had an orgasm within a minute or two. At that moment I was hooked. Once I recovered I had to do the same to him. He didn't object and he came pretty quickly too.

If I was sober, would I have? I'm not sure. But I'm certain the alcohol I had drank lowered my inhibitions and made me more open to letting him rim me the way he did. I don't regret it and it's a wonderful memory of mine.


Is it better to give than receive?
Like the new AV WS.

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It's a toss-up. I enjoy giving, but I love the feeling of receiving too. I'd hate to have to choose :)

And thank you :)
 
If I was sober, would I have? I'm not sure. But I'm certain the alcohol I had drank lowered my inhibitions and made me more open to letting him rim me the way he did. I don't regret it and it's a wonderful memory of mine.


I believe many of us found that particular pleasure by accident. Thinking back to when I was in my twenties, among other pleasures, I would never have thought I would love rimming so much.

Thank you for that story. I enjoyed reading it.
 
Thank you :)



My first experience was with my first husband. I wasn't young when we married (23) and I wasn't a virgin either, I was still quite naive about sex. When we made love, he never went right for my ass. He'd caress it, run his fingers along the crack, but never go in. The times he went down on me he'd go towards it, but never went all the way to it. And of course I'd never dream of touching his, other than grabbing his ass cheeks.

One night we came back from a party at a friend's house. We'd both been drinking and we were both feeling horny. We got in the shower, scrubbed each other up and started making out. He got down on his knees and started eating my pussy, and he did that for a few minutes. Then he went around behind me. At first I thought he was going to fuck me from behind, as he did like that. Instead, he stayed on his knees, spread my ass cheeks and just started eating my ass. I let out a yelp and told him not to do that. But he kept doing it and I suddenly realized that it felt really good. So good my knees just buckled and I sank down. He held onto me, licking my ass and stuck his fingers into my pussy and started fingering me. It felt so good I had an orgasm within a minute or two. At that moment I was hooked. Once I recovered I had to do the same to him. He didn't object and he came pretty quickly too.

If I was sober, would I have? I'm not sure. But I'm certain the alcohol I had drank lowered my inhibitions and made me more open to letting him rim me the way he did. I don't regret it and it's a wonderful memory of mine.




It's a toss-up. I enjoy giving, but I love the feeling of receiving too. I'd hate to have to choose :)

And thank you :)

Thank you for sharing. I was thinking back to our previous conversation where we discussed whether to discuss it or not. I guess you didn’t discuss in the end! Which of course also leads to the comfort level you have with someone in terms of what you are willing to try. Of course, this leads me to wonder what is off limits (other men in the same bed as me with a partner as one of mine - but I would watch others if invited). There may be other things that I think are off limits but I haven’t tried so maybe I don’t know (a la your rimming experience).
Anyway, I’m always learning new things here.
 
I believe many of us found that particular pleasure by accident. Thinking back to when I was in my twenties, among other pleasures, I would never have thought I would love rimming so much.

Thank you for that story. I enjoyed reading it.

Thank you for sharing. I was thinking back to our previous conversation where we discussed whether to discuss it or not. I guess you didn’t discuss in the end! Which of course also leads to the comfort level you have with someone in terms of what you are willing to try. Of course, this leads me to wonder what is off limits (other men in the same bed as me with a partner as one of mine - but I would watch others if invited). There may be other things that I think are off limits but I haven’t tried so maybe I don’t know (a la your rimming experience).
Anyway, I’m always learning new things here.

You're both welcome :)

It was a unique night. While we were both well under the influence, we weren't stumbling drunk. We were both laughing and giggling and really horny and couldn't wait to get home to get our hands on one another. So it was a sort of perfect storm for us. We didn't do a lot of talking about what we might want to do or not do, other than saying how horny we were and we really wanted to fuck one another :)
 
You're both welcome :)

It was a unique night. While we were both well under the influence, we weren't stumbling drunk. We were both laughing and giggling and really horny and couldn't wait to get home to get our hands on one another. So it was a sort of perfect storm for us. We didn't do a lot of talking about what we might want to do or not do, other than saying how horny we were and we really wanted to fuck one another :)

That’s so romantic.
For me, there’s nothing better than both being extremely horny and unable to contain ourselves. Years ago we were out. She drank a lot and was very much in the mood. We had been with people. Normally diminutive, she attacked me in the car and didn’t seem to care that people were watching. The drive home was short but it didn’t feel like it. We almost broke the bed. Alcohol can be a great thing in the right amount. Alas, no rimming!
 
That’s so romantic.
For me, there’s nothing better than both being extremely horny and unable to contain ourselves. Years ago we were out. She drank a lot and was very much in the mood. We had been with people. Normally diminutive, she attacked me in the car and didn’t seem to care that people were watching. The drive home was short but it didn’t feel like it. We almost broke the bed. Alcohol can be a great thing in the right amount. Alas, no rimming!

We never drank a lot. If we did it was at parties like the one we went to. I like a glass of wine in the evening, but that's about as far as I go anymore. For us we were fortunate because we only lived 5 minutes away from our friends house, so we had walked to and from the party, no drunk driving that night :)
 
We never drank a lot. If we did it was at parties like the one we went to. I like a glass of wine in the evening, but that's about as far as I go anymore. For us we were fortunate because we only lived 5 minutes away from our friends house, so we had walked to and from the party, no drunk driving that night :)

Same here. I think that’s what made it unique. Now I typically have a beer once or twice/week, but expanded that a bit since COVID. My friend bought be a bottle of Costco vodka. It’s as big as you would expect.
I think it would be fun to have a drink with you. I just have so many questions.
 
Same here. I think that’s what made it unique. Now I typically have a beer once or twice/week, but expanded that a bit since COVID. My friend bought be a bottle of Costco vodka. It’s as big as you would expect.
I think it would be fun to have a drink with you. I just have so many questions.

We don't need to drink for you to ask me questions. You can ask me almost anything. If something is too personal I'll let you know :)
 
We don't need to drink for you to ask me questions. You can ask me almost anything. If something is too personal I'll let you know :)

I appreciate that. For as much as I do on the Boards, there are some things that I’m only comfortable asking outside of a public forum. And I think it’s only fair for me to ask questions about something if I am willing to give an answer as well (before I even know if you’re comfortable with it!). But I know that you prefer to just stay on the Boards.
So with that in mind, other than rimming, is there something that you’ve tried that you may have previously thought was taboo/off limits to you?
 
I appreciate that. For as much as I do on the Boards, there are some things that I’m only comfortable asking outside of a public forum. And I think it’s only fair for me to ask questions about something if I am willing to give an answer as well (before I even know if you’re comfortable with it!). But I know that you prefer to just stay on the Boards.
So with that in mind, other than rimming, is there something that you’ve tried that you may have previously thought was taboo/off limits to you?

One thing I did get into later with my second husband was pegging. He loved it the first time I rimmed him, but to be honest, pegging wasn't something I'd thought of. A couple of months after we'd been married he confessed to me that he'd like me to do him from behind. That's when I learned about strap-ons and how some men enjoy it. And I found the first time I pegged him I liked it, and he loved it.

All that said, it's not something I have a burning desire to do. I'd rather rim someone to be honest. But if I was with a man and he was into it I'd do it again.
 
One thing I did get into later with my second husband was pegging. He loved it the first time I rimmed him, but to be honest, pegging wasn't something I'd thought of. A couple of months after we'd been married he confessed to me that he'd like me to do him from behind. That's when I learned about strap-ons and how some men enjoy it. And I found the first time I pegged him I liked it, and he loved it.

All that said, it's not something I have a burning desire to do. I'd rather rim someone to be honest. But if I was with a man and he was into it I'd do it again.

I used to chat with someone about that. She really wanted to try it (and we talked about meeting up but never did). It had never occurred to me but I wasn’t opposed to considering it. I think about that on occasion. There are other similar options similar that could also be interesting.
And I don’t want you to think I’ve forgotten about this thread’s theme.
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I used to chat with someone about that. She really wanted to try it (and we talked about meeting up but never did). It had never occurred to me but I wasn’t opposed to considering it. I think about that on occasion. There are other similar options similar that could also be interesting.
And I don’t want you to think I’ve forgotten about this thread’s theme.
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No I didn't think you forgot about it and neither did I :)

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