What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[munch2much]

I think I view it the same as any other relationship. I make no assumption. It might be a one off thing. I might be more. Or there might be an amazing connection. I’d love there to be. But the likelihood is that this is unlikely. Though I appear to have been very lucky in the past.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I feel wholly unprepared for this e-boning conversation.

I mean, I knew it happened...

I think I'm just more of an IRL boner

There is one person here who I would definitely have boned when our paths crossed. We became great friends and that may still happen. But it would be in person, not e-boning.

That brings me to my next thought?

What do you define as e-boning?

Must nudity be involved? Is roleplaying e-boning? What if one person is shooting the shit and the other has his dick in a vacuum?

Let's hear it.

How do you (define) e-bone?

 

[SassySheDevil]

I feel wholly unprepared for this e-boning conversation.

I mean, I knew it happened...

I think I'm just more of an IRL boner

There is one person here who I would definitely have boned when our paths crossed. We became great friends and that may still happen. But it would be in person, not e-boning.

That brings me to my next thought?

What do you define as e-boning?

Must nudity be involved? Is roleplaying e-boning? What if one person is shooting the shit and the other has his dick in a vacuum?

Let's hear it.

How do you (define) e-bone?

Pmann????

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Pmann????

He does come to mind now you think of it, doesn't he?

 

[SassySheDevil]

He does come to mind now you think of it, doesn't he?

lol I'm sure his dick hairs are standing up now at the thought.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

lol I'm sure his dick hairs are standing up now at the thought.

Do you think they grew back after he accidentally epilated them?

 

[Silk_Princess]

Now we just need to find out whether Rainshine also likes queso . . .

I’ve never had queso.

That is a tragedy -- we will not hold it against you, but will certainly invite you to the next Great Queso Romp! I do not wish to subject fellow Playgrounders to another round of that right now, but should you be curious about what you are missing in the meantime, see this thread from about p.59 onward. It migrated to other threads as well, but you'll get the gist.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Do you think they grew back after he accidentally epilated them?

OMG that made my own dick crawl up inside me..
ouch.

 

[BadAmy]

Would you only be happy with your partner eboning others if that fed back into your own relationship with that partner?

That's not only consensual, but hopefully pleases all three. Assuming your kink is what I think. But it's very, very different from your partner eboning anything with a keyboard, pulse and vagina because they randomly want a change from you sometimes.

I think it should be tri-consensual. And yeah, it is what you think.
Funny how my kink taste buds have morphed over the years!

I can't say I would "only" be happy. Each experience is unique. I might be more understanding of a situation I might otherwise turn from, because he, or she brings something good to the table.

 

[Dribble]

I feel wholly unprepared for this e-boning conversation.

I mean, I knew it happened...

I think I'm just more of an IRL boner

There is one person here who I would definitely have boned when our paths crossed. We became great friends and that may still happen. But it would be in person, not e-boning.

That brings me to my next thought?

What do you define as e-boning?

Must nudity be involved? Is roleplaying e-boning? What if one person is shooting the shit and the other has his dick in a vacuum?

Let's hear it.

How do you (define) e-bone?

I assume it is streamed. It isn't like you are trading stories. I think txt messaging is fine for saying....God I want you tonight. But it has little meaning when it says....I am cumming (cause you aren't typing and cumming at the same time).

My first wife would call me up in the middle of the night while she masturbated when weren't together for whatever reason. Just to let me hear how wet her pussy was. Or how she breathed. Not to talk...cause that took attention away and she couldn't cum. She just wanted to share something very special with me...and only me. That is what made it special. For me...it isn't special if she does something for me tonight...and someone else tomorrow. I am assuming eboning just replaced the landline and cell calls

 

[Xerxes82]

I'm sure people have different views on this. For me, what I get from it is not necessarily a different outcome but a different type of journey. The personalized and interactive element(s) of e-boning differentiate it from porn and stories (both of which I also like at times). And while I do have a vivid imagination, I also like being surprised, which adds an element of frisson in comparison to a scenario I invent in my own head. I also like learning about other people's styles, expectations, desires.

And that's cool. But never, not even once, has it not felt fake, manufactured and performed (in the sense of acting) to me.

I get that other people get something out of it. Power to y'all. But all I ever feel is that I've been used, manipulated, or maybe worse, processed through something generic and utterly pointless. If that's the trade off for something unpredictable then no thanks. To use your journey analogy, all I ever get is a journey to a place I never wanted to go in the first place. It doesn't feel good, it feels like being a faceless, nameless cog in a machine for somebody else to get off. And it's never mattered who it was, that's the endgame EVERY SINGLE TIME.

Even when it feels good, it feels like shit. So yeah, not for me thanks.

 

[saustin5432]

I’ve never had queso.

https://i.imgur.com/OnNvsU8.jpg

 

[Silk_Princess]

And that's cool. But never, not even once, has it not felt fake, manufactured and performed (in the sense of acting) to me.

I get that other people get something out of it. Power to y'all. But all I ever feel is that I've been used, manipulated, or maybe worse, processed through something generic and utterly pointless. If that's the trade off for something unpredictable then no thanks. To use your journey analogy, all I ever get is a journey to a place I never wanted to go in the first place. It doesn't feel good, it feels like being a faceless, nameless cog in a machine for somebody else to get off. And it's never mattered who it was, that's the endgame EVERY SINGLE TIME.

Even when it feels good, it feels like shit. So yeah, not for me thanks.

I’m sorry to hear that. Your description does not sound very fun to me either. We’ve definitely had very different experiences; I guess I’ve been lucky.

 

[ydahecnot]

https://i.imgur.com/OnNvsU8.jpg

Worst. Photoshop. Ever.

 

[saustin5432]

Worst. Photoshop. Ever.

Huff. Alright smart guy, you caught me. I didn't actually see Hulk Hogan at my local taco establishment and snap this pic.

 

[ydahecnot]

Huff. Alright smart guy, you caught me. I didn't actually see Hulk Hogan at my local taco establishment and snap this pic.

What you gonna do when ydamania runs all over you?


at myself

 

[Mei5ter]

I’ve got to say, something Meister said here has thrown me and I feel like if that’s how things actually are I could rapidly become e-bone averse again - because that’s definitely how I used to be.

My ability to kill moods at 8,000 miles distance is legendary. Sorry .

 

[LikeableMe]

I hear what everyone is saying about communication and I completely agree. Let me ask it in a different way…do you personally prefer having just one partner or do you prefer having as many as you want?

When I first came back to lit in 2017 I would talk to multiple guys sexually, but only via PM. I didn’t consider it e-boning, as I wasn’t doing anything myself, I was trying to get out of my own head as I had suffered a bereavement and I felt no connection to anyone I was talking to. I can only remember a few of the usernames. I didn’t want to be alone, but I didn’t feel capable of connection right then either.

But now - as anyone who has tried to get me to e-bone can vouch for - I won’t do it. I got close to one person in particular, so any sexual talk or actions feels like cheating. Honest communication is extremely important to me. I found out I wasn’t the only one as someone keeps posting his name on the boards. I find it really difficult to do more than just type about sex without developing feelings. Lit has taught me I’m so very naive in general.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

My ability to kill moods at 8,000 miles distance is legendary. Sorry .

Seems so.

I'll bring the defibrillator! Pay no mind that it looks like a vibrator...

 

[Dribble]

I'll bring the defibrillator! Pay no mind that it looks like a vibrator...

Modern tech now a days

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

God, if I knew it was that easy!

Not the first time I've been called easy

 

[BadAmy]

I'm nosey about your Avatars. What made you choose it? Do you change it or keep the same one? And why or why not?

https://giphy.com/search/curious

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I'm nosey about your Avatars. What made you choose it? Do you change it or keep the same one? And why or why not?

Mine's just a picture of my username. It used to be a picture of a clergy collar, but I got a few too many PM's of various sorts I wasn't looking for with that. I've had the bird for a while now and don't intend to change it anytime soon.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I'm nosey about your Avatars. What made you choose it? Do you change it or keep the same one? And why or why not?

Mine is me (that might be obvious!) and I chose it because I liked the picture. I've had a couple of different avatars. I like changing them once in awhile just because I get bored of them.

But I can see the value of keeping them the same because then it's easier for others to find your posts.

 

[Modern_drunkard]

I'm nosey about your Avatars. What made you choose it? Do you change it or keep the same one? And why or why not?

https://giphy.com/search/curious

Dude, it’s what goes down.