Paying The Wife For Sex

[Wildfly11]

My wife likes the idea of being paid to perform sexual deeds. She has had a lob time fantasy of being hired by a couple for the weekend and having to do whatever they tell her to do. She is shy and has not told me what they make her do in her fantasy but the idea of getting paid having to perform whatever they ask along with the idea of being used are a huge turn on for her.

I recently had to pay for some work on the car and I told her that she could pay me half or trade for sexual deeds. She has agreed to to trade for sexual deeds. I am currently away for a week so I told her I would come up with a list of acts with prices for her to look at...we will negotiate the final fee schedule.

We are both in our early 50's and our sexual has not been that great of late and I am thinking this will add some spice to our sex life. I am in the process of thinking up sexual acts and prices. I want to add some things that will make her feel used.

The list is going go from simple things ..say a hand job for $20. Jerking me off on her tits $30, Me jerking off on her face $50.

Other things I am thinking of:
- Face fucking her and Cummings in her mouth.
- jerking me off in her country...head of my cock in her pussy and then she jerks me off until I cut
- anal sex..she enjoys anal sex so I think this should be fairly cheap lol.

She once pegged me and it really turned her on so will add this to the list.

The sex will just involve the two of us and is more of a game that will fill her fantasy and allow me to have the sex I want when I want.

Anyway would like to hear ideas on what you would put on your list and things that would really make her feel used.

 

[screwher]

My wife and I are a hotwife couple. I know it’s not for everyone. But I would consider us even if my wife fulfilled some long time fantasties of mine:

- Watching her having a threesome with two other men.
- Her having sex with a man we just met. I’m talking mere hours after an introduction and we're inviting him back to our place.

 

[Wildfly11]

Awesome

Sounds like fun but my wife would not go that far..but as my wife is shy I think it would be fun to have her create an account here and have her have dirty chats with men and or women while I am with her..I think it would be a huge turn-on for her.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

My wife likes the idea of being paid to perform sexual deeds. She has had a lob time fantasy of being hired by a couple for the weekend and having to do whatever they tell her to do. She is shy and has not told me what they make her do in her fantasy but the idea of getting paid having to perform whatever they ask along with the idea of being used are a huge turn on for her.

I recently had to pay for some work on the car and I told her that she could pay me half or trade for sexual deeds. She has agreed to to trade for sexual deeds. I am currently away for a week so I told her I would come up with a list of acts with prices for her to look at...we will negotiate the final fee schedule.

We are both in our early 50's and our sexual has not been that great of late and I am thinking this will add some spice to our sex life. I am in the process of thinking up sexual acts and prices. I want to add some things that will make her feel used.

The list is going go from simple things ..say a hand job for $20. Jerking me off on her tits $30, Me jerking off on her face $50.

Other things I am thinking of:
- Face fucking her and Cummings in her mouth.
- jerking me off in her country...head of my cock in her pussy and then she jerks me off until I cut
- anal sex..she enjoys anal sex so I think this should be fairly cheap lol.

She once pegged me and it really turned her on so will add this to the list.

The sex will just involve the two of us and is more of a game that will fill her fantasy and allow me to have the sex I want when I want.

Anyway would like to hear ideas on what you would put on your list and things that would really make her feel used.

I don't have to make no list.

EVERYTHING I DO----
EVERYTHING I SAY----
makes her feel like I am just there to use her up and then move on down the road.

And I don't have the financial means yet to change her mind about how she feels---and this is after 44 years of being together.

 

[Wildfly11]

I don't have to make no list.

EVERYTHING I DO----
EVERYTHING I SAY----
makes her feel like I am just there to use her up and then move on down the road.

And I don't have the financial means yet to change her mind about how she feels---and this is after 44 years of being together.

Ideally she will enjoy being used and it will lead to this

 

[Wildfly11]

Other items

I have thought of a few other items for the list.

- jerk me off onto my face
- have an online bi-curious chat with a woman while I watch and do everything to her the other woman says she would like to do to my wife.
- Have her chat online with a man and send him a pic to provide her with a tribute

 

[Wildfly11]

Bumping

Bumping up

 

[ThinkWrite]

Many possibilities, really depends on what you’d both enjoy. A few ideas:

-her going braless, grocery shopping, home depot, out for coffee
-her taking a set of pictures of herself in poses you want
-describing past sexual experiences or fantasies
-paying her to plan a night around something new she wants to try

 

[OldFred65]

I have never paid my wife for sex myself, but as a former prostitute she has been paid for a lot of sex both before and since out marriage, and we both love it.

 

[Wildfly11]

Many possibilities, really depends on what you’d both enjoy. A few ideas:

-her going braless, grocery shopping, home depot, out for coffee
-her taking a set of pictures of herself in poses you want
-describing past sexual experiences or fantasies
-paying her to plan a night around something new she wants to try

Some great ideas...I would like to have her describe in detail her past sex encounters. She has told me a few good ones but never about how she lost her virginity. Thanks for the suggestions.

 

[CuttingEdge]

Being paid for sex is often a huge fantasy for a lady; it being one of the top sexual fantasies, or at least in the top five.

The reasons on this can vary, but an example might be, a lady who has feelings of inadequacy, can have such sex and feel like they are validated by having money for it. As one woman in my life who had a high priced escort fantasy said, "it would blow my mind if a high priced executive would pay me insane amounts of money to have sex with me...me?!!"

But it need not be about a lot of money for having sex.

A lady might enjoy the thought of paid sex as a streetwalker, only because payment takes away her ability to "control" what sort of sexual experience she has. In other words, money makes her obligated to do some dirty things with perhaps men she normally would not have such intimate relations with. That obligation is where the turn-on is for her.

 

[Wildfly11]

Being paid for sex is often a huge fantasy for a lady; it being one of the top sexual fantasies, or at least in the top five.

The reasons on this can vary, but an example might be, a lady who has feelings of inadequacy, can have such sex and feel like they are validated by having money for it. As one woman in my life who had a high priced escort fantasy said, "it would blow my mind if a high priced executive would pay me insane amounts of money to have sex with me...me?!!"

But it need not be about a lot of money for having sex.

A lady might enjoy the thought of paid sex as a streetwalker, only because payment takes away her ability to "control" what sort of sexual experience she has. In other words, money makes her obligated to do some dirty things with perhaps men she normally would not have such intimate relations with. That obligation is where the turn-on is for her.

Yes I think your spot on. I have chatted with my wife about this and in her fantasy she has been bought for the weekend and has to do whatever she is asking/told no matter how dirty/taboo it may be. It takes away the option of choice.

The idea of being used is a big part if it having her holes filled and being covered in cum.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Ideally she will enjoy being used and it will lead to this

I don't know where you live but here in The Place of Fishes, it is illegal regardless if the lady is your wife, to force her, to have sex with you.
And excuse me if I don't hold any stock in your opinion of what she may or may not enjoy.
And over and above paying cash for something that I have ALREADY paid for in aggravation and emotional pain, I feel is redundant and plain thievery.
(but that isn't to say that I wouldn't do it...)

 

[HMILF]

I really hope it's just a game! If this is a regular thing, you don't have a family anymore.

 

[Wildfly11]

I don't know where you live but here in The Place of Fishes, it is illegal regardless if the lady is your wife, to force her, to have sex with you.
And excuse me if I don't hold any stock in your opinion of what she may or may not enjoy.
And over and above paying cash for something that I have ALREADY paid for in aggravation and emotional pain, I feel is redundant and plain thievery.
(but that isn't to say that I wouldn't do it...)

Its more of a game to spice things up and a way for get out of the hum drum situation have found ourselves in. Secondly, I am not forcing her. She has decided to make herself available for me to use at a price..its win win.

 

[Lvncreampies]

50 dollars for her to be fake used by 3 guys. Think of 3 different positions she could have sex in, (bend her over the bed, 1 in the ass and 1 in her pussy, doggy style, missionary,
how every you can think of) blindfolded and use 3 different sized ejaculating dildos on her for 15 minutes each. (Multiple orgasms by each guy) Make up 3 different names of the guys. (Fill the dildos with "cum lube. It simulates cum and shoot thecum lube in her pussy). If you do this at a hotel, when you're done, kick her out of the room with no panties or bra for the "walk of shame" back to her car. Then have her drive home a longer way than you and when she gets there you have sex with her as she tells you about her 3 guys.

 

[Wildfly11]

50 dollars for her to be fake used by 3 guys. Think of 3 different positions she could have sex in, (bend her over the bed, 1 in the ass and 1 in her pussy, doggy style, missionary,
how every you can think of) blindfolded and use 3 different sized ejaculating dildos on her for 15 minutes each. (Multiple orgasms by each guy) Make up 3 different names of the guys. (Fill the dildos with "cum lube. It simulates cum and shoot thecum lube in her pussy). If you do this at a hotel, when you're done, kick her out of the room with no panties or bra for the "walk of shame" back to her car. Then have her drive home a longer way than you and when she gets there you have sex with her as she tells you about her 3 guys.

Oh I like it. Awesome.. that would be a ton of fun. I will have to look for those ejaculating dildos.

 

[Wildfly11]

Bumping

Bumping up

 

[jasexy28]

How about you take her to a local park late one evening, she is wearing a short summer dress, no bra, no panties. Stroll along the trails with her, seeing who might tag along behind, maybe raising her dress once in a while to expose her naked ass to any followers. Once you have some interested parties, veer off the path and find a secluded picnic table, laying her back and kissing her, you can expose her pussy and see who might be willing to throw down some money to enjoy her there in the dark.
Just a thought.

 

[Wildfly11]

How about you take her to a local park late one evening, she is wearing a short summer dress, no bra, no panties. Stroll along the trails with her, seeing who might tag along behind, maybe raising her dress once in a while to expose her naked ass to any followers. Once you have some interested parties, veer off the path and find a secluded picnic table, laying her back and kissing her, you can expose her pussy and see who might be willing to throw down some money to enjoy her there in the dark.
Just a thought.

Thanks for the suggestion. Remind me of years ago when we were walking through a park at night and I did something similar in that we started fooling around so I pulled off her panties and doctor on the picnic table.

 

[Asunna]

I was offered cash for a blowjob quite awhile ago and did not take it because I could not stand the guy. Later on I did blow a guy to fix my car, as well as fuck a guy to watch my apartment when I was out of town. I knew both those men so it was not like doing a stranger.

 

[jasexy28]

I was offered cash for a blowjob quite awhile ago and did not take it because I could not stand the guy. Later on I did blow a guy to fix my car, as well as fuck a guy to watch my apartment when I was out of town. I knew both those men so it was not like doing a stranger.

So Curvy Lady, you would not want to be the woman taken for a walk through the park, as suggested above?

 

[Asunna]

So Curvy Lady, you would not want to be the woman taken for a walk through the park, as suggested above?

Sexy idea but some parks would be more for murdering rather than sex lol.

 

[Wildfly11]

Paying

I was offered cash for a blowjob quite awhile ago and did not take it because I could not stand the guy. Later on I did blow a guy to fix my car, as well as fuck a guy to watch my apartment when I was out of town. I knew both those men so it was not like doing a stranger.

I was pissed once that I had to spend my Saturday and Sunday working on the vehicle so I made a deal with my wife that I would f*** her five times anytime I wanted in exchange for doing the work. I would call the first time I cashed in she was working in her office and I told her to stand up I pulled down her pants and bend her over her death and just f***** her as hard as I could until I came.

 

[Asunna]

I was pissed once that I had to spend my Saturday and Sunday working on the vehicle so I made a deal with my wife that I would f*** her five times anytime I wanted in exchange for doing the work. I would call the first time I cashed in she was working in her office and I told her to stand up I pulled down her pants and bend her over her death and just f***** her as hard as I could until I came.

Lol a lot of fun could be had with that condition.