a question for straight guys-

[rae121452]

my definition of straight being that you've never had a same sex experience and haven't sought one.


okay...you're in another town for work or visiting or whatever, alone. you go to a hotel bar or restaurant. at the place you notice a woman who is downright beautiful, she ticks every one of your boxes. and, she keeps giving you the eye and catching you checking out her tits which are almost spilling out of her low cut top. after a while, she comes over and introduces herself. things progress, the two of you are getting on like a house of fire. finally she says, 'i really want you to fuck me. let's go to my room.' you can't believe your luck, you escort her to her room. once inside she turns to you and says,' i have to tell you something, i should have before now. i'm a pre-op transsexual. i have a penis. but, i can still get fucked.'

what do you do?

this question is based on a different but similar story of an event that happened to an internet friend of mine.

 

[Tubesocklover]

Tell them to put some tube socks on and ill see how i feel lol

 

[naughtymind]

I feel like I've heard this question before, when I was 13 playing truth or dare at a slumber party? I don't know, it's kind of a contrived question really. I suppose the underlying question is really about where the line is between sexual attraction/orientation vs horny lust in a spur of the moment situation; and what is the basis for our sexual boundaries. I have my sense, which is that I personally define my sexual orientation based on desire and attraction, and NOT experiences (how many homosexual people have entered into heterosexual relationships for a variety of reasons). I also don't really care about definitions all that much honestly; I'm good with what I like, and that's all that counts. If I find someone attractive, that's all great and exciting, and I wouldn't spend one minute worrying about why. I personally just don't find men physically stimulating, and while I fully support trans individuals to self identify however they wish; as far as attraction goes, I usually feel pretty much the same that I do for men: nothing there. This is nothing against men, gay, or trans people at all; I love everyone, but I just don't feel any sexual connection there. If, and there are many "if's" here; but IF I were single, and IF I were looking, and IF I was actually attracted to another person that much (male, female, somewhere between), then I don't even see any question. The thing is I just don't see that attraction being all that likely.

 

[rae121452]

geeze, i really thought there were more straight guys here.

 

[irishblade]

Whatever happens, happens. I’m not going to kick her out of the room. And I’m certainly not going to degrade or make her feel bad for keeping that secret.

 

[jc4324]

I would be more than willing to fuck her however I would want to suck her cock as well and if it worked out take her load in my mouth. FYI happily married but recently this has been a big turn on for me. My wife knows it as well.

 

[MrFields]

Check please!

 

[Replicant2018]

I’ll let her suck my cock and then fuck her deep and hard.

 

[Crankbait88]

So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, adieu

 

[Carnevil9]

geeze, i really thought there were more straight guys here.

I'm sure there are tons of straight guys here. But they probably don't want to be called homophobes for saying that they would decline that offer and exit the room ASAFP.

 

[DirtyOldMan64]

Simple

I fit your definition of a straight guy. She fits my definition of a woman. We'd have a wonderful night.

 

[magicalmoments]

Most guys would probably decline the offer and politely leave. Some would curse her and smack her around a little before leaving, a large minority would fuck her and politely leave feeling guilty as hell and pretend like it never happened, a small minority would really get into it. I'd be in the small minority.

I've always maintained that when you close your eyes it can be anyone you want who is sucking your dick or taking it in their ass or pussy.

 

[adlon]

quick answer

ask her stay and book the room for another night

 

[Polranny]

Thanks but no thanks

 

[EctoJohn]

Go for it, don't worry about it.
You're clearly sexually attracted to her, so to hell with it.
If you have fun, why do you care?

It's not like there's straight law and you'll lose your license if you fuck a transsexual.

 

[jarigi]

my definition of straight being that you've never had a same sex experience and haven't sought one.


okay...you're in another town for work or visiting or whatever, alone. you go to a hotel bar or restaurant. at the place you notice a woman who is downright beautiful, she ticks every one of your boxes. and, she keeps giving you the eye and catching you checking out her tits which are almost spilling out of her low cut top. after a while, she comes over and introduces herself. things progress, the two of you are getting on like a house of fire. finally she says, 'i really want you to fuck me. let's go to my room.' you can't believe your luck, you escort her to her room. once inside she turns to you and says,' i have to tell you something, i should have before now. i'm a pre-op transsexual. i have a penis. but, i can still get fucked.'

what do you do?

this question is based on a different but similar story of an event that happened to an internet friend of mine.

By pre op trannie I'm assuming no vagina right? Unless she is an hermaphrodite, (different kettle of fish) 'she' is a dick with tits. You say she can still 'get fucked' but I'm assuming anal. Then I would have to decline. In my view this is a homosexual sex act waiting to happen and, since you asked, 'not my bag baby'.
Two dicks in bed is gay sex. Simple?

 

[johnnyampleed]

That's easy. If I'm really attracted to her, I'm going deep and lovin' it. Not a problem. Not into labels.

 

[STRC]

Call me what you want if needed! It is just not my thing. If someone else wants to take it on and they enjoy it or want to test themselves to see what it is like....Have at it........I would take the pass though!

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

Tell them to put some tube socks on and ill see how i feel lol

<applause>

 

[falkor207]

There all kinds of ways to have sex. This one's not my type. Risking not telling your "date" until you're alone is asking for trouble and the odds are probably not good that sex will be had. Better to divulge in the bar and with a positive response, then you'll know you're getting lucky upstairs.

 

[BillTheKatt90]

I'm sure there are tons of straight guys here. But they probably don't want to be called homophobes for saying that they would decline that offer and exit the room ASAFP.

If I, a straight guy (not white and don't look white, but everyone on the internet treats me like I am), express an opinion about this, recent experience tells me I will be perceived as a privileged oppressor. My opinion will thus be cast as worth little, and is very likely to be interpreted as wrong no matter what I say. Over the last five years, I have just stopped expressing opinions about anything that has to do with race, sex, religion, sexual preference, etc.

Notwithstanding the above: I would take a dose of Viagra and go to town.

 

[MuscleDaddy]

The question reveals less about an respondent’s orientation that it does about their belief in what they define as female. Straight men are attracted to women (obviously) but some will include transwomen in that and some won’t. Therefore I agree that the question is leading and plenty of straight men will be put off of answering for fear of being called transphobes.

 

[savmitch1038]

First and foremost, I identify as straight, but I think the older I get, the more secure I become, the wider my spectrum of what I allow to turn me on increases. Given the situation is right, I could absolutely have fun with a very feminine trans-woman.

 

[FGB]

Well, there are several issues here.

I can tell you this.

There is going to be trouble...

(Nods)

 

[JamieJ424]

I’d gracefully decline and exit.

She doesn’t check all my boxes. A vagina is mandatory. Ideally OE but at least a convincing reproduction.