Fucking Your Best Friend

[Carnevil9]

There is a thread on the Fetish forum called "Fucking Your Best Friend." But it is about when you find out that your girlfriend is fucking your best friend. That would be a bad thing (for most people), but not at all what I thought the title meant.

From a Story Ideas perspective, what happens when you yourself start fucking your best friend? Why do you do it? Do you regret it? Does it end up ruining the friendship that you had? Or does it deepen it and make everything better?

An obvious approach would be a guy and his best female friend who suddenly become lovers as well. Or it could be two guys who for some reason feel compelled to try same-sex love (maybe one has just been dumped by his GF and is bitter toward all women). Or two women. Or possibly other combinations.

There are some married couples who refer to each other as their "best friends." Is that the same thing? Or does it make a difference if you were platonic friends first, and then become lovers?

It just seems that there would be lots to explore in a story based on this concept.

 

[Hypoxia]

A relationship is problematic if your best lover isn't also your best friend.

For fun, a gang of pals (all genders) get together so everyone can fuck everybody's best friend(s). Now see how many remain pals.

 

[gunhilltrain]

My guess is that two (straight) people of different genders can be friends, but rarely best friends. It's worth exploring anyway. You need to work in some angle of why they didn't become lovers in the first place.

I have a story of two women I should post here. They were friends for a long time until they became roommates, and then things got going. One of them had some lesbian experiences earlier but then moved on until the other woman shared an apartment with her.

Then they both became involved with the same guy, which complicates things. (Only one of them knows the full truth.)

 

[NaomiDPlumm]

Maybe I'm just of a different generation where people were brought up to talk to each other. Because i don't see anything at all weird about fucking my best friend whether he's a guy or another girl. Having sex with someone isn't a lifelong, or even year long commitment. But it is being vulnerable, so it's something you do with someone you trust.

In fact, the very first time I fucked a guy, I had suggested to my best (female) friend that she and he had a lot in common and maybe they should. She said maybe I should, so we both did. He didn't complain.

 

[NaomiDPlumm]

A relationship is problematic if your best lover isn't also your best friend.

For fun, a gang of pals (all genders) get together so everyone can fuck everybody's best friend(s). Now see how many remain pals.

To me it's like the dessert cart. So long as everyone can have as much as they want, there isn't a problem. If Bob has three slices and Tony two and some ice cream so long as it's their choice it's all cool. It's only when someone is (or feels) left out that there is envy or jealosy.

 

[Carnevil9]

To me it's like the dessert cart. So long as everyone can have as much as they want, there isn't a problem. If Bob has three slices and Tony two and some ice cream so long as it's their choice it's all cool. It's only when someone is (or feels) left out that there is envy or jealosy.

That is a very interesting and very cogent observation. Bravo! However, in my experience, most people DO NOT see it that way, and human nature doesn't seem to work that way. But isn't it pretty to think that it could work that way?

 

[Hypoxia]

My guess is that two (straight) people of different genders can be friends, but rarely best friends. It's worth exploring anyway. You need to work in some angle of why they didn't become lovers in the first place.

Here's a reason why best friends weren't lovers: too young, and separated by forces beyond their control before they could get it on. My most recent posted story, Reunion, has two girls and a guy raised near each other, best of friends from infancy onward till his family moved away during his first year of high school, so no underage sex. Had he stayed, he'd have been their first.

Another mechanism has siblings as best friends who don't go incestuous till they're both over 18. For another, same-sex best friends through childhood don't fuck till they're of age and some event drives them into bed. An "angle of why they didn't become lovers in the first place" isn't too hard to invent.

 

[sirhugs]

There is also the, gulp, Loving Wives possibility where Wife is fucking hubby's bf. Or avoid LW by having hubby fuck wife's bf.

 

[PattieD]

Two male friends
One long since divorced the other just adding that moniker to his marital status column.
Luke finally manages to drag Graham out of his undecorated isolation and to the bar he bought in to in the wake of his own divorce.
Most often, Luke is a silent partner kind of bar owner but tonight his promise of tending bar lures Graham to one his first social outings since his divorce still feeling fresh after nearly six months.
Luke not only knows the chemistry of bartending but also what kind of drinks pushes his long time friend's fun buttons. And, that was the sole intent tonight was to find what remained of his friend's self confidence after his wife left him for another woman.
Tonight was everything Graham from the drinks to the bar food to the jukebox. Slowly but surely, Luke manages to surface some hope, happiness and few laughs. So slow that the bar is essentially theirs as all the employees and customers had left since closing time came and went. Eventually, Graham emits a sense that tonight was a success and thanks Luke for being such a good friend.
About to leave, Graham steps down from his tall bar stool, loses his balance and reels towards the bar to maintain his balance. An exchange of knowing chuckles leads to the realization that Graham is not driving tonight. Luke tells Graham to meet him at his car that is behind the bar so he can lock up.
By the time Luke catches up to Graham, he is leaning against the car head down and quietly sobbing. Luke knew that Graham was still hurting so he approaches without words and simply reaches out to him with a consoling hug. They have hugged many times over the years but this was different as Graham is not just hugging but clutching.
Two friends in a tight embrace in a dark isolated parking lot illuminated by only by a distant security light. Two friends holding each other tight to feel that needed human touch.
Suddenly, Luke feels Graham slowly growing against his crotch. Luke having been long time bisexual just let the moment happen. And happen. And happen.
Graham was completely aroused so Luke slowly held his head back and then gently connected with his friend in a kiss. Graham hesitated for a split second then returned the gesture with tongue.
Two friends in isolation realizing deep down what had been felt all along. Two men slightly illuminated by a singular light. Two men standing became one man kneeling as Luke went to his knees to reveal what was concealed . . .

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Fucking your best friend... isn't that like friends with benefits?

I could have had that with a female friend in my youth, but I was still to dumb to recognize what she wanted. We were still friends but there was a little bit of chill there after she made the pass and I didn't catch it. To this day, I wonder.