Do you trust your spouse with your private info?

[Hitchiker69]

Do you trust your current spouse wuth your sex history? Would you tell him/her how many people you've slept with before you met them? How do you think they would respond if they knew the truth? Would they respect your privacy and keep it secret, or tell everyone?
Also, would you trust them, telling them your deepest sexual desires?

 

[dolf]

Have i reeled out a list of past partners and experiences? ...why??
How is it relevant? And wtf has it got to do with trust?
Why would he even be interested?

I wouldn't be in a relationship with the sort of twat who would ask.

 

[Philthy_Phil]

I always clear my sex history cache when finished.

 

[pointless]

i had no idea i was even married. i think i might need a minute to take this all in.

 

[Sean]

Some people's idea of what constitutes a relationship is just fucking weird.

 

[Cubantripod]

We've shared a lot of details. I'm sure that some of the stuff I have mentioned to my wife has made her scared to ask other questions. If she prefers to not know certain things that's fine. I also haven't asked questions I do not want to know the answer to.

 

[butters]

Do you trust your current spouse wuth your sex history? Would you tell him/her how many people you've slept with before you met them? How do you think they would respond if they knew the truth? Would they respect your privacy and keep it secret, or tell everyone?
Also, would you trust them, telling them your deepest sexual desires?

of course
of course
the truth will set you free
of course
of course


what's the point of being married to someone you can't trust? i know the answer to this having been through that for a long long long long time: none whatsoever.

on the other hand, i'm really not that interested in his past sexual history. i know enough. important people in our lives we know about. this relationship was a reset button; we accept we both have pasts we don't need to apologize for or talk about unless we want to. the now is what matters to us

 

[lovetoread]

i had no idea i was even married. i think i might need a minute to take this all in.

you and me both

Some people's idea of what constitutes a relationship is just fucking weird.

indeed

 

[rockcasbah]

Some people's idea of what constitutes a relationship is just fucking weird.

Hahahaha!

 

[nowisthetime]

of course
of course
the truth will set you free
of course
of course


what's the point of being married to someone you can't trust? i know the answer to this having been through that for a long long long long time: none whatsoever.

on the other hand, i'm really not that interested in his past sexual history. i know enough. important people in our lives we know about. this relationship was a reset button; we accept we both have pasts we don't need to apologize for or talk about unless we want to. the now is what matters to us

This is the best answer here! Definitely agree.

 

[rockcasbah]

This is the best answer here! Definitely agree.

You mean the way she said Yes! to Truth.... then explained why they dont tell it to each other?

Ha!

 

[mayfly13]

on the other hand, i'm really not that interested in his past sexual history. i know enough. important people in our lives we know about. this relationship was a reset button; we accept we both have pasts we don't need to apologize for or talk about unless we want to. the now is what matters to us

so harry is a dog...
who would have guessed...

 

[DanDraper]

I always clear my sex history cache when finished.

Married or not, that should be the general rule at all times


...

 

[girlsmiley]

Was I supposed to count the sex?

 

[thør]

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[KimGordon67]

Do you trust your current spouse wuth your sex history? Would you tell him/her how many people you've slept with before you met them? How do you think they would respond if they knew the truth? Would they respect your privacy and keep it secret, or tell everyone?
Also, would you trust them, telling them your deepest sexual desires?

This is just bizarre. Why is the number of people I've had sex with a secret? Who cares if 'everyone' (whatever that means) knows? Why would this hypothetical spouse give a toss? My ex-husband did have a ballpark figure, I think, because ballpark is the best I could do. He met a few of them. I know how many people he slept with, and I met a couple of them. None of this made one iota of difference to anything we did together.

 

[juttjaw]

I would venture to guess, healthy couples would have no desire to know who, what, when, why and how, of past relationships. The only thing that matters is we are not ashamed of the past. Which is exactly that, the past.

 

[Riles]

Fine to share any of that if asked but why he would care is beyond me. I found out all I needed to know by spending time with him. Who/how he was with someone else is irrelevant- it’s different now cause I’m a different woman.

 

[silver gurl]

Fine to share any of that if asked but why he would care is beyond me. I found out all I needed to know by spending time with him. Who/how he was with someone else is irrelevant- it’s different now cause I’m a different woman.

This!

I don’t care about the past and I don’t need to know the details of one’s history. Why would I need that?

 

[Fermina_Daza]

I’m of the age where we don’t ask numbers…and if I were asked I would answer but find the person immature.

Perhaps this is why I am spouseless.

 

[SissySalina]

If She ask, sissy will respond, but the past is past and what really counts is the present. There are deep dark spots of the past that sissy will not talk about but the little sex is not one of them so if She inquires it will be disclosed but She has not except for one or two instances.
Why not?

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Do you trust your current spouse wuth your sex history? Would you tell him/her how many people you've slept with before you met them? How do you think they would respond if they knew the truth? Would they respect your privacy and keep it secret, or tell everyone?
Also, would you trust them, telling them your deepest sexual desires?

I don't trust ANYONE for any reason.

 

[Not Normal]

My girl's nosey. She knows everything she wants to know.

 

[jomar]

Well, the older you get the less you care.

Also, 30 by 30 is a game for some.

Female partner gives you a number multiply by 4 to 7, male partner gives you a number divide by same.

Speaking of games, getting sexual histories, if interested, can be really fun…

 

[rockcasbah]

This!

I don’t care about the past and I don’t need to know the details of one’s history. Why would I need that?

That's funny!