I don't understand this.

[Jada59]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

I think it ties in to this post you made a few days ago:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=93828153#post93828153

People get off on all kinds of things. Pain and humiliation are just two. I know a woman slightly who is, in public well put together, intelligent and strong. In private she craves humiliation in ways that would blow your mind, and cannot achieve a decent orgasm unless she is being verbally abused with sexist and racist language that is at a level that is unbelievable.

Its all part of the wide world of kinks.

 

[FGB]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

Heck woman.

You should know by now that there are some really fucked up people in this world and different levels of perverse things turn them on...some harmless and some not so harmless.

I don't understand a great deal of it and don't want to!

 

[Bigaug]

You are not alone, I don't get it either.

 

[Jada59]

I think it ties in to this post you made a few days ago:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=93828153#post93828153

People get off on all kinds of things. Pain and humiliation are just two. I know a woman slightly who is, in public well put together, intelligent andhumiliatig.strong. In private she craves humiliation in ways that would blow your mind, and cannot achieve a decent orgasm unless she is being verbally abused with sexist and racist language that is at a level that is unbelievable.

Its all part of the wide world of kinks.

True, but I can't see how that would be humiliating.

 

[Asian_Flower]

I rarely ever watch porn and only with my Hubs. Most of it seems to be yucky, horrible stuff like that these days. I would much prefer to watch an everyday couple filming themselves

 

[KinoKe]

I rarely ever watch porn and only with my Hubs. Most of it seems to be yucky, horrible stuff like that these days. I would much prefer to watch an everyday couple filming themselves

There is nothing quite like a real couple sharing their moment - unless, of course, they also feel the need to be abusive

 

[KimGordon67]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

If you wouldn't put up with being spat on or slapped, it seems likely that's partly because it would be humiliating, and you're not into humiliation.
Other people are. There's nothing wrong with that. I don't get it either, but suggesting that they're somehow 'fucked up' (as a previous poster did) is just kink shaming.
(I don't think the porn links you're referring to are suggesting that blow jobs are humiliating per se, although some can be - it's hardly like there's just one variety. It's the combination of the blow job with the other actions that make it humiliating, along with the fact that blow jobs are not traditionally thought of as something that women derive actual pleasure from, but rather something we do as a 'service'. Obviously that's not true in a lot of cases, but it's a common perception.)

 

[muycurioso]

I don't get it either

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that![/QUOTE

porn is getting really sick, you have to really look to find anything that looks real. And who wants to be treated so badly? I would not want a woman to say and do bad things to me during sex. I would never treat a woman that way. I did have a gf once that asked me to choke her. I could not do it. She wanted me to, but I felt I was hurting her and I did not want to hurt her.

 

[Chernosoth]

When you're tired of not understanding American porn, you could try not understanding hentai, fantasy football, cricket, or politics.

 

[muycurioso]

the problem is teenagers see that crap

Heck woman.

You should know by now that there are some really fucked up people in this world and different levels of perverse things turn them on...some harmless and some not so harmless.

I don't understand a great deal of it and don't want to!

the really abusive stuff and they think that is ok. I mean they have no real experience so that is what they see. Check out the read aloud reddits about women's experience with sex with young men who watch to much porn. I agree there are wild and crazy fetishes out there, but not as prevalent as porn makes them out to be. Well, IMHO

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCV0zCegevM

 

[muycurioso]

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[KimGordon67]

the really abusive stuff and they think that is ok. I mean they have no real experience so that is what they see. Check out the read aloud reddits about women's experience with sex with young men who watch to much porn. I agree there are wild and crazy fetishes out there, but not as prevalent as porn makes them out to be. Well, IMHO

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCV0zCegevM

The problem is not the kink. Humiliation is fine if it's consensual, and if everyone is clear about the possible emotional ramifications.

There is an issue with young people using porn as their source of sexual information. However, it's not really the responsibility of porn manufacturers to take that into account. (Personally, I think they should, but I recognise that they're businesses that will always just act like businesses do, i.e. making as much profit as possible. We can't expect morality to come into the equation.) It's the responsibility of society - parents, schools, everyone else - to clearly teach young people about what good sex looks like, and suggest that maybe diving head first into stuff like humiliation-kink is probably not the best path to take.

Young people are not stupid, and most of them want their sexual partners to enjoy the experience. But if porn is they're only go-to in terms of the information they're getting, and no one's saying 'actually, what you're seeing there isn't really representative of most sexual relationships', they can't really be blamed for how things work out.

 

[Delawareguy]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

Mental health issues and/or early life trauma.

 

[stickygirl]

The problem is not the kink. Humiliation is fine if it's consensual, and if everyone is clear about the possible emotional ramifications.

There is an issue with young people using porn as their source of sexual information. However, it's not really the responsibility of porn manufacturers to take that into account. (Personally, I think they should, but I recognise that they're businesses that will always just act like businesses do, i.e. making as much profit as possible. We can't expect morality to come into the equation.) It's the responsibility of society - parents, schools, everyone else - to clearly teach young people about what good sex looks like, and suggest that maybe diving head first into stuff like humiliation-kink is probably not the best path to take.

Young people are not stupid, and most of them want their sexual partners to enjoy the experience. But if porn is they're only go-to in terms of the information they're getting, and no one's saying 'actually, what you're seeing there isn't really representative of most sexual relationships', they can't really be blamed for how things work out.

Young people are not stupid but they are naive and ignorant, fearful of peer group pressure and lacking in confidence. We don't grow up knowing how to have sex - it has to be learned and porn is the most accessible and worst place to look. I know plenty of girls my age who were pushed towards anal sex because they felt they had to by boys and the porn they got off on.

Humiliation falls in to the same bracket.

 

[Jada59]

I rarely ever watch porn and only with my Hubs. Most of it seems to be yucky, horrible stuff like that these days. I would much prefer to watch an everyday couple filming themselves

Same.

 

[ukcouple4play]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

One word - misogyny.

That's the kind of porn that incel losers and predators get off on.

 

[KimGordon67]

Young people are not stupid but they are naive and ignorant, fearful of peer group pressure and lacking in confidence. We don't grow up knowing how to have sex - it has to be learned and porn is the most accessible and worst place to look. I know plenty of girls my age who were pushed towards anal sex because they felt they had to by boys and the porn they got off on.

Humiliation falls in to the same bracket.

Sorry, the 'young people are not stupid' comment really had a bit more to it that I should have written. I guess mean that young people know, especially if they're told, that porn isn't real - they do understand the difference between fiction and reality.

The onus is on everyone else - especially, but not only parents - to provide alternative versions. Not literally, obviously, but to keep that as an ongoing conversation that they have with their kids. So many parents HATE talking to their kids about sex, and we seem to have this idea that there just needs to be 'a talk' and that's enough. It is awkward talking to your kids about this stuff, but something being awkward isn't a good enough excuse for just going 'oh, surely they'll learn this at school' ... because they don't, or at least, not well enough to really work.

The porn industry isn't going to do any of this, because there's no money in it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Every body has there thing. I know you do things for your partner that might not be your thing, but I’ve come across some that it’s just no. Some things are a turnoff.

 

[FL30]

I see a lot of porn with titles like... Useless whore humiliated! They will feature a woman sucking cock and bei g spit on or slapped in the face.

What is humiliating about this? I love sucking cock, but if some guy were to slap me or spit on me, that would be the end of that!

There's a lot of sexual stuff that I don't understand besides humiliation, scat sex being one.

However, there are people out there that LOVE it and even CRAVE it.

That's what makes this world so interesting - everyone's different.

Even within one's own household.

Children grow up in the SAME house and yet, they like and dislike different things.

It's just part of being human and being different.

 

[Jada59]

There's a lot of sexual stuff that I don't understand besides humiliation, scat sex being one.

However, there are people out there that LOVE it and even CRAVE it.

That's what makes this world so interesting - everyone's different.

Even within one's own household.

Children grow up in the SAME house and yet, they like and dislike different things.

It's just part of being human and being different.

Right but... I atill fail to see how being slapped is humiliating?

 

[CuttingEdge]

Right but... I atill fail to see how being slapped is humiliating?

Because the person has no control over it.

It is a turn on for them because its mind-play in the realm of having sex. They do not know how many slaps, how hard the slap will be, nor where future slaps might land.

I am not into it either, but for those that are (like my wife) her mind goes a million miles an hour on "what-ifs", but trusts me because I would never actually hurt her. The fact that I could, is what turns her on.

 

[geronimo_appleby]

Because the person has no control over it.

It is a turn on for them because its mind-play in the realm of having sex. They do not know how many slaps, how hard the slap will be, nor where future slaps might land.

I am not into it either, but for those that are (like my wife) her mind goes a million miles an hour on "what-ifs", but trusts me because I would never actually hurt her. The fact that I could, is what turns her on.

or they can relinquish all responsibility and/or guilt?

 

[FGB]

All in All, there is a reason why young people have to be a certain age to see certain films or videos and buy certain reading material/picture magazines...or smoke or drink and go in certain Adult places it has nothing to do with civil rights.

It has to do with their developing minds and the realization That young minds need time to have to process the adult world and it's choices in a healthy way.

We see the results of NOT doing this every day in the news and courts...and the educational system.

And then some people just fucking Strange!

 

[Islander55]

I won't pretend to be an expert but I think the biggest problem for young people is having too little knowledge of real sex. Schools can not really teach it and parents tend to be reluctant to talk about it. Add in that many Americans have an unhealthy view of sex which makes it difficult for most young people to understand what is going on. While porn is fine for people who like kinky sex or like to watch the same thing over and over. it certainly is not going to show people how to form a meaningful relationship. Even a meaningful casual sexual relationship.