Sleeping and fucked

....and if you are really crazy in your head, you will actually, willingly, jump into it. And then, it will eat you, or you will eat it, either way something will.. come, out of it. Then it wont make any difference, believe me, it wont make any difference. Nobody understands when i talk about it, they give me my meds to shutmeup, but it wont make any difference. Because then you are in it and it is in you, you are it and it is you. You realize something that cannot be put to words. You can show it to someone if they can look deep into your eyes, and are willing to get lost in it, that infinite madness, inside you, thats also inside them. Its inside everything, it is, everything. It is you. You are.. dreaming and when you dream, sometimes you realize you are different, different body different mind, whole different person, whatever you dream becomes real to you as long as you are dreaming that dream it is real to you, you will feel that whatever you dream as is you and the world around as yours, as your reality. I fell into it the first time when i was a little baby, i was just very little, they sent me to sleep... and.. i just.. i was gone? I was there but i was gone. I just couldnt tell the difference. I was scared but i was not. I was not scared but i yet was. i was falling into that madness, and it was endless, it was infinite, there was no time, because there was no me, yet i was, me, without being, me. Nobody will understand, but it doesnt matter anymore because i know, everything is me. Different dreams i dream, i feel as a different person when i dream different dreams but yet im the same person. I can neve die, because there is no time for death to exist there. When i jumped into it, or when it jumped into me, i realized its all just stories that we choose to believe in that became so real to us, it doesnt matter in the end. One should feel free to make their own story into reality. Im you, im me, everything you wanna be. Im perception. Im existence and nothingness, energy and consciousness. Im nothing.. yet everything exist inside of it or i exist without existing inside everything. Im pure consciousness. I have no name no fame no shame no aim never the same yet eternal and timeless and ageless. They keep asking me which came first chicken or egg and i tell them, nothing, because there is no chicken ir egg or im both chicken and egg because both chicken and egg exists in the dream im dreaming, they are made of me and im made of them, i create myself, myself, nothing came first or last and nothing can live and die because there is no time, because im dreaming up time too. I exist beyond space and beyond time. When you feel it atleast for a moment you feel that you can never die because you are light. Everything is made of light and light cannot die. Light is both particle and a wave at the same time, just an infinite wavy potential of nothing or everything made of subatomic particles of energy somehow at the same time. What a miracle? There is no blue pill or red pill or black even as they say because im dreaming it all up its part of my dream and when im willing to wake up, it wont matter which pill, its the willingness to feel the truth that does the trick. And that moment, even just for a momemt, from the Second Attention, You fall into The Third Attention, The Superconscious Awareness, that you, are God itself.
 
....and then.. you scream.. like you have never before. You weep and cry, like ever again. You feel, everything around you, as it is happening to you. You look at yourself without looking at yourself, you see yourself without seeing yourself. Because you just cannot see yourself, yourself like light, cannot, illuminate, itself, like love, cannot, love, itself. Like nothing mirrors the light, in the outerspace, you dont see anything, but its all light. Out there and in here and everywhere. It needs a mirror, you, need something to mirror yourself, you need another self to mirror yourself. You have to look deep into the eyes to see yourself looking at yourself in all your selves because all your selves are yourself. You look at yourself without looking at yourself you see yourself without seeing yourself because you dont want to see your true self. Because then, you feel, that you judge and hate and fight and kill yourself yourself. All your selves you feel as yourself all that pain as your pain all that hate as your hate. You will break like never before like never again into infinite pieces and form agan and again and again and again
 
While there is no way I could get away with sliding inside of my wife without waking her up, there has been on multiple occasions times where my wife has used my limp body, but hard cock, with me entirely passed out.

I have woken up to her absolutely thrashing me! It takes a second for me to get my wits about, but then it is absolutely go time! One time I woke up from my orgasm.
 
I'll admit to doing this. I love it when he climbs into bed and slides his hand between my legs thinking I'm asleep. I know that he has his own fantasies and things he'd like to try but for whatever reason won't do it or say it and I always hope that if he thinks I'm sleeping, he'll throw caution to the wind. Sometimes it works, sometimes he stops if I don't "wake up". Either way, he almost always keeps a finger inside when he falls asleep and I'm happy.
 
I was in bed sleeping with a FWB one night. He was spooning up tight against me, and he had a hand on one of my breasts. At some point, I was sound asleep and he was awake. From what I learned later, he very slowly and gently began to stimulate the nipple he had access to. The nipple hardened in response, and he pulled and twisted and squeezed it more aggressively but not too much to wake me up. I was oblivious to this happening, but I do know that this affected my dreams dramatically. I found myself having very vivid sex dreams. He told me that he could tell that I was still asleep but that my breathing changed and almost became moans. He also said that he could feel my hips subtly rocking in rhythm. He said that after about twenty minutes of this, he felt a distinct thud-thud-thud of muscle contractions within me, soon followed by my waking up with a deep inhalation of breath.

At this point, I was awake and aware that I just had an orgasm. I felt confused because I knew I hadn't been masturbating and that I hadn't been having sex. I knew I had been having sex dreams, so I assumed it was a sort of wet dream. I probably would have kept it to myself, but my friend soon asked if I was awake and said that he thought I just had an orgasm. I will admit that I felt embarrassed, but I told him that I did just have one. That's when he explained that he had been teasing my nipple for the past twenty minutes. My nipples are very sensitive, but I have never had an orgasm just from nipple play. This tells me that at least some part of my having an orgasm was in response to the things happening in the dream.
 
It has always been a thing in our relationship. Not that we have always done a lot of it, but it has always been ok. Never slept all through it though and I sleep like a log.
A practical issue I had with it was getting enough sleep when needed, but I’m told I can snarl rather frighteningly in my sleep, so I guess I somehow guard my sleep when really necessary.

I really like to point out that trust is very important, from both sides.
Legal issues aren’t fun either.
 
When my husband used to get off late and I had to work early morning I would tell him to come home shower and either fuck my face or my pussy. It would wake me up but it was amazing. I love being taken advantage of when I’m sleeping many times I would wake up and keep pretending to be asleep.
 
It has always been a thing in our relationship. Not that we have always done a lot of it, but it has always been ok. Never slept all through it though and I sleep like a log.
A practical issue I had with it was getting enough sleep when needed, but I’m told I can snarl rather frighteningly in my sleep, so I guess I somehow guard my sleep when really necessary.

I really like to point out that trust is very important, from both sides.
Legal issues aren’t fun either.

Hey! It's really good to see you back, I've missed your points of view!

Good that you bring up trust from both sides. Too often we fixate on thinking about the things that can go wrong for the pyl and forget the other side. (Not that it's only PYLs that can be/are the instigators of sleep sex.)
 
Hey! It's really good to see you back, I've missed your points of view!

Good that you bring up trust from both sides. Too often we fixate on thinking about the things that can go wrong for the pyl and forget the other side. (Not that it's only PYLs that can be/are the instigators of sleep sex.)

Oh, turnabout is definitely fair play!:D

I’ve missed you too!:rose:
 
similar...

....years ago, wife and I fucked like rabbits, and there were times, we would wake the next morning, and the question was, didn't we get a lil' late last nite, we had, but was almost like a dream. That was when we always spooned, hugged up all nite...:)
 
I once gave my now ex-wife an orgasm as she slept. She woke up soon after and I just pretended to be asleep so she thought it was just a dream. I had sex with my ex-fiancé as she slept, this was something we talked about many times before and she said she’d consent to it. It is CNC, but that’s one of my well known kinks in my relationships.
 
I have to admit, some years ago I had a slave who loved breath play. At her insistence I worked hard to perfect a method of making her pass out safely while we were having sex (bondage included some times) because she loved waking up to me still being inside her fucking her hard. There were more than a few times that she would go into subspace within five or ten minutes after waking up.

As always. Everything was well discussed and negotiated before hand.
 
sleeping & fucked

Wow - i love it - thank you for sharing all your stories...
and keep in mind - you always talk about it - before you do it
never try it without permission
 
I woke up once to find my wife riding me. I had a pillow over my face and it was my orgasm that woke me. She kept riding until she came which wasn't much longer. When she finished, she rolled off me and laid down, then went to sleep. I never said anything to her about it.

I may have had quite a bit to drink that night and I will say, I didn't mind her doing that one bit! I wish she'd do it again.
 
My name is Vanessa, based in Manhattan, NYC
These days i have couple of requests about sleeping / almots sleeping and getting fucked.
What is your big turn on about this Kind of kink?
I love to play that kind of role play...
What would you like to do when your Partner is drunk / sleeping / passed out?

Ok I didn't realize this is considered a kink. I get this all the time, in fact, take it for granted waking up with his dick in my pussy. No big deal. I've never done it to him though. Can a guy get hard if he's passed out or sleeping?

Let me find out and get back to you.
 
Can a guy get hard if he's passed out or sleeping?

Yes he can. It has happened to me on a few occasions. Some that I have woken up to and some that were told to me about later.

Once, my wife and I had been drinking a lot on night. She handed me some "aspirin" for a hangover later but she told me later that it was some Viagra like pills. I passed out in bed later that night and she started playing with me. She told me that my cock got rock hard and she rode me for a while before I finally came. She said I never fully woke up but I was moaning a little bit. I didn't remember anything. She was apologizing to me but I told her it was totally ok with me and she could do that anytime she wanted.

I actually like the idea of being used like that. Just a piece of hard meat for to be played with.
 
This is one of those way off the beaten path fetishes that I have and cannot explain.

It started when a live-in GF in my early 20's brought up the idea of me using her while she was passed out, so we planned it, she got super drunk and passed out, I did it, it was fun :) We did it many times again. It was odd, but a huge turn on for us both for some reason.

Didn't really think much about it until after I was married. I told my wife about it and got her to play along.. somewhat. She preferred to change up to similar ideas, like me sucking her toes while she was passed out, wanking off on them and licking them clean. It's freaky, and humiliating, but it really gets me off. Her too.
 
This is one of those way off the beaten path fetishes that I have and cannot explain.

It started when a live-in GF in my early 20's brought up the idea of me using her while she was passed out, so we planned it, she got super drunk and passed out, I did it, it was fun :) We did it many times again. It was odd, but a huge turn on for us both for some reason.

Didn't really think much about it until after I was married. I told my wife about it and got her to play along.. somewhat. She preferred to change up to similar ideas, like me sucking her toes while she was passed out, wanking off on them and licking them clean. It's freaky, and humiliating, but it really gets me off. Her too.

I find this really hot and it can be great between consenting adults. My wife and I have an agreement that if one of us is super horny and the other happens to be sleeping or passed out, they can have their way with the other one.

She has done this to me in the past a few times. Sometimes I woke up and joined in and another times she told me about it later. One time I was pretty sure she did as my cock smelled of pussy but she never mentioned anything to me about it. That's OK with me.

I have tried this with her a few times also. Once I was able to ease up behind her while she was laying on her side facing away from me. I started with playing with her breasts and rubbed her pussy for a bit. She was really wet from my attention. I was easily able to slip my dick in her and I fucked her like that for a good 30 min until I came in her. Other times I have jacked off and cum on her tits and then sucked them clean. None of those times she woke up.

Problem is most of the time I try something, she wakes up and drunkenly pushes me away. Fine, she's not into it at the moment. Those times I just roll over and take care of my hard on myself.
 
Yes he can. It has happened to me on a few occasions. Some that I have woken up to and some that were told to me about later.

Once, my wife and I had been drinking a lot on night. She handed me some "aspirin" for a hangover later but she told me later that it was some Viagra like pills. I passed out in bed later that night and she started playing with me. She told me that my cock got rock hard and she rode me for a while before I finally came. She said I never fully woke up but I was moaning a little bit. I didn't remember anything. She was apologizing to me but I told her it was totally ok with me and she could do that anytime she wanted.

I actually like the idea of being used like that. Just a piece of hard meat for to be played with.

Interesting. Sleep fucking is great. BF fucked me when he's been drop dead tired like you described, he literally fell asleep rock hard dick inside me. By the time he's sleeping he's also gone limp too. What a great feeling! Next time that happens I'll grind him, see if I can keep him up. Yea women like to apologize.
 
Interesting. Sleep fucking is great. BF fucked me when he's been drop dead tired like you described, he literally fell asleep rock hard dick inside me. By the time he's sleeping he's also gone limp too. What a great feeling! Next time that happens I'll grind him, see if I can keep him up. Yea women like to apologize.

No apologies needed to me. She can use me anytime she wants to. Whether, I'm awake or not. I actually find it very hot to find out about it the next day.
 
I find this really hot and it can be great between consenting adults. My wife and I have an agreement that if one of us is super horny and the other happens to be sleeping or passed out, they can have their way with the other one.

My wife tried once on me while sleeping, she said she tried everything but I just didn't get hard. I encouraged her to try again and that I loved the idea, but I think she felt defeated about it and hasn't tried again. I guess that's fine, as I tend to prefer focusing on her needs over my own.
 
The discussion of consent ahead of time is interesting here. You’d have to negotiate some kind of blanket consent when one partner is more or less unable to protest at all. That would take a lot of trust.

I like my partner incapacitated, don’t get me wrong, but rope bondage is more my thing. The best part about that kind of play is her reaction, and if she were asleep, that would be diminished. To each their own I guess.
 
The discussion of consent ahead of time is interesting here. You’d have to negotiate some kind of blanket consent when one partner is more or less unable to protest at all. That would take a lot of trust.

We have a lot of trust in each other, married for 20 years, and yes, the consent was decided upon early and continues. That's kind of the point since the participant isn't awake to give immediate consent. Wife & I made this agreement many years ago.
 
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