Sleeping fetishes and thoughts…

Tempted4u

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Thought about this for a while. Types of sleeping fetishes… have done… wanted to do… thought about doing… what is the thrill you get from it if any… wanted done to you or wanted to do to another willing person… how much have you gotten away with before they woke up and joined in… and go…

Tempted4u
 
I'm intrigued by the idea of having sex with someone while they're asleep, with prior consent. However, I hate being woken up that way, so... eh.
 
I can respect that. Some people don’t like their sleep messed with. Also, with the consent, and discussion before hand of my partner.. For me it’s the thrill of getting away with something. Whether something leads to sex or just personal satisfaction and not waking up your partner. And sharing those experiences as a fantasy for some one that can’t get that experience.
 
I'm intrigued by the idea of having sex with someone while they're asleep, with prior consent. However, I hate being woken up that way, so... eh.
I guess the other question would be if it would be intriguing reading about the things someone has done? Has gotten away with or almost got caught doing? The different experiences.
 
For me it's not that interesting as a fantasy. There are a few stories around the internet of couples where one partner regularly uses the other while they sleep, and I think it's as much the mechanics of it as anything that fascinate me. Are they true accounts? Maybe. As Lit stories, I'd assume they weren't.

(That said, I have used the idea in at least one story on Lit: Ship's Whore Ch. 04: Doll.)
 
Thanks for the feed back. Mine are actual my experiences I want to share. First hand.

Off topic…. Writing. I’ve notice you out disclaimers before your story… is that preference, needed, or is that typical?
 
I find it to be kind of a sexy scenario, but anytime I've thought about trying to write it, I get caught up in how the hell can someone sleep through sex? If they're drunk, took too many sleeping pills, drugged...sure, but now that's not the same as just sleeping.

But I have done things like have a character jack off on someone while they're asleep because that I can find plausible
 
An intriguing, fairly tangential question, I will be curious what sorts of responses you get.

This very theme was central to one of my stories, (Don't) Let Sleeping Dicks Lie, I think the only one like it in the 'fetish' category here.
 
I prefer not to have disclaimers, but Literotica has various written and unwritten rules that make them advisable.

1. The obvious one is for character age. It's not always obvious in stories that characters are all adults, and Laurel is likely to reject if so. In some of these cases, the disclaimer acts as sufficient reassurance.
2. Incest outside of the Incest/Taboo or Mind Control categories usually requires a content warning.
3. Non-consensual sex outside of NonConsent/Reluctance or Mind Control categories usually requires a content warning.
4. Any Male-Male sexual contact outside of Gay Male can be weirdly controversial.
 
My sleeping fetish/fantasy - getting to sleep before midnight, not lying about, thinking (but this is when all the stories come!), and maybe sleeping for at least 8 hours :D
 
My sleeping fetish/fantasy - getting to sleep before midnight, not lying about, thinking (but this is when all the stories come!), and maybe sleeping for at least 8 hours :D
Hahaha… I like it. I’ll put it towards the top of the list.
 
I find it to be kind of a sexy scenario, but anytime I've thought about trying to write it, I get caught up in how the hell can someone sleep through sex? If they're drunk, took too many sleeping pills, drugged...sure, but now that's not the same as just sleeping.

But I have done things like have a character jack off on someone while they're asleep because that I can find plausible
I have a few experiences I’m wanting to write about, but haven’t got around to putting them on paper. But when I do I will certainly post.
 
When my wife was my girlfriend staying over in a dorm room, as foreplay, she would pretend to be so asleep that nothing could wake her up. My efforts to wake her would take a sexual turn and then she would "wake up" upon insertion. It was fun.

I often will give her backrubs when we go to bed, and it is not unusual for her to fall asleep. It is also not unusual for me to get handsy so that we both enjoy the backrub. One time I kept getting more and more bold and eventually started humping her in a spooning position and feeling her up. This went on for a very very long time and it felt good. So eventually I came, still rubbing up against her. At that point I found out she was fast asleep. Oops. I wiped her off and apologized in the morning. She just laughed.

I've asked her to someday wake me up by sitting on my face, but I'm not sure she's ever woken up before me. I wouldn't say the sleeping thing is a fetish for either of us, but forever is a long time and you've got to try some things every once in awhile.
 
Wandering hands in the night....true story

This story is true and is as was told to me by a past girlfriend who I had a nice long sexually fulfilling relationship with. Frequently we would wake up in the morning and she would tell me that during the night my hands wandered in the night and would make their way over to her pussy to start rubbing it. This was done slowly and methodically she said. I honestly never had any recollection of doing such a thing to her and found it rather interesting. She told me sometimes she would just brush my hand away and then I stopped. Other times she would let me go for awhile to see what would happen, enjoying this while mostly asleep. I told her I wished she would let me just keep going but she never did.

My own fantasy would be to get woken up with a nice hand-job in the middle of the night. Or being woken in the morning, a nice bright sunny morning with my woman sitting on my chest, totally naked staring down at me with her pussy nice and close to my face! Mmmmm....good!
 
Off topic…. Writing. I’ve notice you out disclaimers before your story… is that preference, needed, or is that typical?
Sometimes Laurel (the site editor) will put a content warning at the head of a story, if it's mixing categories.

I have a transgender story with a sibling incest sub-theme - I asked for it to go into Transgender rather than I&T, and she obliged, but added a note, "This story has incest themes."
 
I never thought anything odd about it before I saw this thread, but I included four waking sex scenes in my novel.

(TMI true story warning)

My wife is an insomniac and a somnambulist. She has always had these traits but the pain and nerve medications she has been taking for the last several years seem to exacerbate the issues. When she can't sleep she fidgets endlessly, which is nice for me because I like to be touched and groped endlessly, the kinkier the better. I am aware and have memories of some of it, but I tend to be able to sleep through all kinds of crazy stuff. She tells me about weird reactions I have and bizarre conversations we have on occasion. I've woken up in the middle of it before while she has been laughing over things I have slept through and things I have said while she has been messing with me for her own amusement. I've woken with her fingers in me and with my cock in her mouth. I've also waken up with her straddling me, but supposedly I've never managed to fuck her in my sleep.

We have had sex while she is 'sleep walking' on many occasions, where she is in a weird sort of trance state and has no memory of it in the morning whatsoever. Other times she 'comes to' in the middle of all sorts of acts. It's not always easy to tell whether she is awake or not, we're seriously afraid she may go out for a drive sometime. She once woke up down stairs in the middle of the night, having dished herself out a bowl of ice cream, only becoming aware of what she was doing the moment the cold hit her tongue. Our kids have all kinds of 'Mom sleepwalking stories'.

The one thing she can't do in her sleep is orgasm, she always wakes first. The funny thing is that she usually orgasms very easily when she's awake, but in her sleep she is more detached and able to handle more stimulation. We both have fun with it, it's usually a truly odd and enjoyable experience for both of us. I never thought about it being particularly unusual.
 
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I find it to be kind of a sexy scenario, but anytime I've thought about trying to write it, I get caught up in how the hell can someone sleep through sex? If they're drunk, took too many sleeping pills, drugged...sure, but now that's not the same as just sleeping.

But I have done things like have a character jack off on someone while they're asleep because that I can find plausible

Being too damn tired.
 
The drug Ambien/zolpidem has been reported to cause some people to perform bizarre activities while asleep. These include raiding the refrigerator, walking, driving (!) and, yes, even having sex. These activities are usually not remembered upon awakening. This is far worse when combined with alcohol.

I would be really bummed if I had sex while asleep and couldn’t even remember it.
 
Fuck that makes me hard. Tell me more about this "8 hours of sleep" concept! ;)
OMG, right?! The things I'd do to get 8 hours of restful, pure slumber again......
Would people read ‘sleep porn’?
Story idea – working couple with kids, power goes out early in the evening, no one had bothered to charge their phones, which are all on <5% power, so no sitting about on screens, there are no candles either and torch/flashlight batteries are found to be flat. After some whinging the kids get bored and go to bed by 8 or 9. So do mum and dad, who after a awhile lying there and chatting they get frisky, make love like they haven’t had time or energy for since they can’t even remember, then they both fall into a deep, deep slumber before 10 pm. Explicit descriptions of their bodies resting and repairing from tiredness ensue, and after 8 or more hours they wake the next morning, somewhat refreshed, glad it’s a weekend and the kids are all going off to friend’s houses for the day, so they don’t even bother getting out of bed till late.
Oh, perhaps the kids make the parents breakfast and coffee before they leave...well, this whole story concept is is a fantasy after all! :D
 
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