I'm so afraid to just let it out there, and tell a guy I'm a cock sucker wannabe. So how many of you guys that never did it before, would go for another guy sucking your cock? Or would you tell him to " get lost faggot." I think it would just be nice for guys like me, to get some idea how those other guys would react. I've jacked off so much thinking about sucking our neighbors (47yo) brother, I think of it every time we chat.
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Put yourself in a position to get to know the person of interest and ask the right kinds of questions....once comfortable you may may reveal more of yourself and gauge his reactions....not an easy thing to do but....no risk no reward.
Put yourself in a position to get to know the person of interest and ask the right kinds of questions....once comfortable you may may reveal more of yourself and gauge his reactions....not an easy thing to do but....no risk no reward.
I hear ya. I do take these quick peeks down at his crotch, when I see us not making eye contact. I know I need to look longer, and just let my neighbors brother catch me looking at his crotch. I just chicken out. I like to think, that if maybe he would turn me down, that then after thinking about it he would change his mind.
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hey...
when I was younger I used to hitch a ride up to the poolhall and just about every day, I would get picked up by one or the other of these two gay guys. They were always with the, Hey man, you want me to suck your dick man. Huh, come on man, let me suck you off.
This one day, I gotten into a big blow up with my little hillbilly girl, she cut me loose and no sooner I got off the phone and my Dad started in on me. My two younger brothers got between us broke it up and I walked out the door. I didn't even get a chance to stick out my thumb. I could hear the gravel crunching behind me as a car was pulling off the road. I flipped a backward glance and it was one of the gay guys. I walked up on the drivers side window and said, Hey you still wanna suck my dick? How about while I drive your car?
That was a red letter day for me, that was the day--
I learned how to drive,
learned that a gay guy gives better head than my girlfriend,
learned that just becuz ya get head from a gay guy it WON'T turn ya queer.
Yessir, a red letter day.
when I was younger I used to hitch a ride up to the poolhall and just about every day, I would get picked up by one or the other of these two gay guys. They were always with the, Hey man, you want me to suck your dick man. Huh, come on man, let me suck you off.
This one day, I gotten into a big blow up with my little hillbilly girl, she cut me loose and no sooner I got off the phone and my Dad started in on me. My two younger brothers got between us broke it up and I walked out the door. I didn't even get a chance to stick out my thumb. I could hear the gravel crunching behind me as a car was pulling off the road. I flipped a backward glance and it was one of the gay guys. I walked up on the drivers side window and said, Hey you still wanna suck my dick? How about while I drive your car?
That was a red letter day for me, that was the day--
I learned how to drive,
learned that a gay guy gives better head than my girlfriend,
learned that just becuz ya get head from a gay guy it WON'T turn ya queer.
Yessir, a red letter day.
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I think more straight guys would let another guy blow them. I believe it’s all a matter of the right element whether it’s alcohol or privacy with discretion who knowa
I really do wonder what guys think is the percentage, of straight guys that would let a faggot wannabe suck their cocks? I'd love to hear from those straight guys. When I was younger in my teens, and 20's I never thought of sucking a cock, It was NEVER! in my head. So back then I don't think I'd ever be into a guy sucking me.
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I definitely think there are a lot more that would be open to it when horned up or tipsy/stoned. But...I'd be cautious about any post orgasm guilt manifesting and then avoiding you or maybe even getting violent. The "gay panic defense" is still a thing in most states.
https://lgbtbar.org/programs/advocacy/gay-trans-panic-defense/
https://lgbtbar.org/programs/advocacy/gay-trans-panic-defense/
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Also possibilities. But life is about chances and who knows maybe they will like it? A blow job is a blowjob lol
Instead of attempting to cross that bridge with a neighbor, I’d search for a play friend online. That’s tough to do, given the current situation. But it won’t hurt to try.
I did so a number of years ago, starting with Craigslist, which didn’t turn out that well. Somewhere along the line, someone tipped me off to Silverdaddies, and a couple of other sites. I found some genuine guys on Silverdaddies, and after some communication, had some good adventures.
I’d be a bit leery of hitting up a neighbor if you want to keep things on the down low. One of the gents I hooked up with has played golf with my wife and I a few times, she has no idea what he and I have done.
hey...
back when I was a kid and didn't really understand what being queer was--, (i was YOUNG) around the campfire there was always this saying--,
"6 beers can make a queer outta anybody..."
When I started coming of age and understood what was being said and why --, it became my mission to be able to drink those six beers and see what happened as well as being able to enjoy whatever it became.
back when I was a kid and didn't really understand what being queer was--, (i was YOUNG) around the campfire there was always this saying--,
"6 beers can make a queer outta anybody..."
When I started coming of age and understood what was being said and why --, it became my mission to be able to drink those six beers and see what happened as well as being able to enjoy whatever it became.
Of course, risk mitigation not elimination. Some feeler questions about how they feel about some newsworthy lgbt issue is a good screener.
Or ya know just go to a bathhouse/swing club/glory hole/etc
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Tough question - proximity could be a disaster or a great thing. I'd have no clue how to safely start that conversation
All I've got right now is to be checking out his crotch, maybe lucky enough to see a cock bulge. Then as we chat have him catching me looking down at his crotch. Or maybe hope he would make some kind of sexual comment, like talk about getting laid or something. Then get into a conversation about sex, and hint about my fantasies, about cuckold video's and guys that clean up. I'd have to get him talking about sex.
hey...
this guy you talking about it seems you know him pretty well?
Does he seem like he would be prone to violence...? If yes then why would you want to do him? If the answer is 'no', I don't get the problem.
But anyway, sometime when you're sitting around the garage and having a beer, while you're talking to him let your gaze go from his eyes to his crotch, then back to his eyes. If you see a slightly confused looked or a blush, then just hold his gaze for a second until he says, "what-?" Look him in the eye and say, "I was just thinking of something to shock you---"
Then reach out and unzip his jeans and pull his cock out and start jacking it and ask if he minds. I bet you a hundred bucks he doesn't stop you or punch you.
this guy you talking about it seems you know him pretty well?
Does he seem like he would be prone to violence...? If yes then why would you want to do him? If the answer is 'no', I don't get the problem.
But anyway, sometime when you're sitting around the garage and having a beer, while you're talking to him let your gaze go from his eyes to his crotch, then back to his eyes. If you see a slightly confused looked or a blush, then just hold his gaze for a second until he says, "what-?" Look him in the eye and say, "I was just thinking of something to shock you---"
Then reach out and unzip his jeans and pull his cock out and start jacking it and ask if he minds. I bet you a hundred bucks he doesn't stop you or punch you.
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With all the acknowledgement if sex during restrictions and being single, I've started to wonder what it'd be like to suck a cock or have a guy suck mine
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This. I would be afraid of crossing lines in existing relationships(platonic).
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Going back to the original question my answer would be yes. I mean who wouldn’t help a friend out that just wanted to suck your cock.
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Would you let him blow you?
Like so many of us older guys here. In my younger days, 20's, early thirty's, maybe. I never even thought about sucking a cock. But as my sex life started to change."The lack there of". And with the idea of wanting to see my then wife, "now ex wife", being fucked by other men. The thought of playing with and sucking a beautiful cock has become stronger. Haven't taken that final step yet. But definitely very curious!!! I have always considered myself to be straight!! But I have a huge fascination with beautiful cocks!! Seems so darn crazy at times!! But I would never have the nerve to just ask another guy about doing it!! Guess to much taboo tied to it!!
Like so many of us older guys here. In my younger days, 20's, early thirty's, maybe. I never even thought about sucking a cock. But as my sex life started to change."The lack there of". And with the idea of wanting to see my then wife, "now ex wife", being fucked by other men. The thought of playing with and sucking a beautiful cock has become stronger. Haven't taken that final step yet. But definitely very curious!!! I have always considered myself to be straight!! But I have a huge fascination with beautiful cocks!! Seems so darn crazy at times!! But I would never have the nerve to just ask another guy about doing it!! Guess to much taboo tied to it!!
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As a hetero-flexible man (hetero-romantic, but will top and get sucked by guys), I've had many guys ask to suck my dick (living in San Francisco in my younger years made things easier). Here are my thoughts.
1. Friends to FWB: I've had gay or bisexual friends ask to suck my dick. I don't let them any more as I found that the majority of the time, it changed the dynamic of our relationships. It is difficult to go back to being strictly platonic friends once that line has been crossed. Can it be done? Absolutely, but it's a tightrope to navigate, at least at first. I never looked at a friend the same way again after knowing that my load was in him.
2. Randos: I've been in gay bars and had random guys (randos) come up to me and flat out tell me they want to suck my dick. I have always taken it as a compliment due to the context of the interaction, and have had no problem taking them up on there offer usually. I mean, c'mon, we all know that even a newbie male cocksucker still sucks better than the average female.
3. Newbies: I've had guys (gay and bi-curious) tell me that they have never sucked dick before and ask if I'd be interested in being their first. I always feel honored when this happens and have treated the session in a way that will be a positive memory/experience for them. I would recommend finding someone with a similar mindset for your first time if you're nervous (unless you want your first time to be some random dick at a gloryhole, but that's completely different).
4. Coercion vs Encouragement: Don't try to convince someone who isn't "game" to try and "play" with you. In the post-orgasmic clarity that happens, some guys will react negatively and that's where your potential for danger occurs. Make sure you both know what you're getting yourself into BEFORE anything even comes close to happening. Sex should always be a positive and mutually consensual experience.
5. Apps: Grindr has a lot of variety, but a lot of flakes. Scruff has a lot of guys who seem to be more supportive of varying looks, interests, levels of experience. Tindr is where str8 guys hang out, but I don't know how responsive they are to offers of head since I don't look for that sort of thing.
Be safe. Be smart. Be certain. Good luck.
As a hetero-flexible man (hetero-romantic, but will top and get sucked by guys), I've had many guys ask to suck my dick (living in San Francisco in my younger years made things easier). Here are my thoughts.
1. Friends to FWB: I've had gay or bisexual friends ask to suck my dick. I don't let them any more as I found that the majority of the time, it changed the dynamic of our relationships. It is difficult to go back to being strictly platonic friends once that line has been crossed. Can it be done? Absolutely, but it's a tightrope to navigate, at least at first. I never looked at a friend the same way again after knowing that my load was in him.
2. Randos: I've been in gay bars and had random guys (randos) come up to me and flat out tell me they want to suck my dick. I have always taken it as a compliment due to the context of the interaction, and have had no problem taking them up on there offer usually. I mean, c'mon, we all know that even a newbie male cocksucker still sucks better than the average female.
3. Newbies: I've had guys (gay and bi-curious) tell me that they have never sucked dick before and ask if I'd be interested in being their first. I always feel honored when this happens and have treated the session in a way that will be a positive memory/experience for them. I would recommend finding someone with a similar mindset for your first time if you're nervous (unless you want your first time to be some random dick at a gloryhole, but that's completely different).
4. Coercion vs Encouragement: Don't try to convince someone who isn't "game" to try and "play" with you. In the post-orgasmic clarity that happens, some guys will react negatively and that's where your potential for danger occurs. Make sure you both know what you're getting yourself into BEFORE anything even comes close to happening. Sex should always be a positive and mutually consensual experience.
5. Apps: Grindr has a lot of variety, but a lot of flakes. Scruff has a lot of guys who seem to be more supportive of varying looks, interests, levels of experience. Tindr is where str8 guys hang out, but I don't know how responsive they are to offers of head since I don't look for that sort of thing.
Be safe. Be smart. Be certain. Good luck.
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No wonder I got no replies. Lol. Only noticed that the autocorrect changed my entire sentence lol. It should say: with all the lack of sex during restrictions and being single during them, I've started to wonder what it'd be like to suck a cock or have a guy suck mine
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Tell him to close his eyes and imagine it's Miley Cyrus sucking him off, or the checkout-girl at his local supermart, or his neighbors big-titted daughter, he can dream all he wants as you gorge yourself on his stiff cock to your heart's content.
Tell him to close his eyes and imagine it's Miley Cyrus sucking him off, or the checkout-girl at his local supermart, or his neighbors big-titted daughter, he can dream all he wants as you gorge yourself on his stiff cock to your heart's content.
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