Hi Kristy,
Is your husband okay with the idea of you being with someone else without him?
It's so important you have an open and honest conversation with him before you explore your curiosity too much. My husband knew I was bi when he married me (I was very honest about a LTR I had with another woman) and seemed okay with it. But I found out later that he wasn't exactly.
Six years into our marriage when I started hinting that I would be open to the idea of a threesome with him and another woman of his choice, he was actually resistant to the idea. I kept bringing it up and eventually I discovered that he was afraid that I might "revert" to being a lesbian so he didn't want to risk it.
I thought I was giving him the okay for every guy's fantasy right? But he saw it as a possible threat to our marriage. We did eventually manage to talk through it and when he "caught" me in our hot tub with a gorgeous blonde on his birthday he was surprised in a good way, not a bad way.
We've had many very enjoyable threesomes since then, always with another woman so far (unfortunately), and he's even agreed that if I meet someone, as long as I introduce him to her first, I can be with her without him. (I've only taken him up on that twice so far)
So my advice is your first step should be to talk it out first with him. Establish some ground rules that you're BOTH comfortable with. Guys can sometimes be more complicated than we think! LOL
I'm NOT trying to discourage you in any way though. You've never truly been kissed until you've been kissed by another woman. So I say, make some ground rules with your partner and then go for it!
Is there someone you already know that you like and might be interested too?
The look on the girl's face on the left pretty much says what you've been missing all these years btw
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