peter49parker
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Where do you find these FWBs?
There is a starting point for everything, if you "really" want it. There are chat sites for men that cater to those looking for a FWB. Squirt and silverdaddies are the two that I am familiar with, and have had very good results. Other sites are out there, but I can't vouch for them. First off, you need to know 'who' and 'what' you are looking for. Do you want to find a younger guy, older, or the same age? Do you want to suck, get sucked, or both? Do you like certain fetishes or kinks? If I may suggest, you should keep it simple to begin with. Chat about what you want, and be honest. There are a lot of flakes out there, be careful. Only agree to do what you are comfortable with. When you make a commitment to carry it further than chat, make sure it is what you want and who you want it with. There is no such thing as a 'risk free' buddy. Sooner or later, you will have to take a leap of faith, just as you do with any 'major' decision in life. And believe me, deciding to suck a cock is a major decision, especially if you are married and want to keep it that way. One other thing, is to always insist on a 'face to face' meeting in a public place, such as having coffee somewhere. This should be with no expectation of anything sexual. If you click, good. If not, keep looking. If you are waiting for something 'magical' to happen, without risk or effort on your behalf, perhaps you are not really trying hard enough. Just suggestions here.. no guarantees.