Am I Doing Something Wrong?

[redheadfantasy]

Hi all,

Long story short, I (early 20s Female) am dating a former professor of mine (mid 50s Male). We had our first weekend away recently and had a lovely time - hardly left the hotel room. That being said, I noticed when we had sex he came pretty fast.

Does this mean I’m doing something wrong? I wasn’t bothered by it at all, I’m just concerned I’m not pleasing him. I tend to moan/scream/squirm quite a bit when he’s inside me. Should I try to minimize any of this?

Thank you in advance!

 

[SueVanDouser]

By the sounds of it you're pleasing him too much!
Try toning things down a bit or take things slower and see what happens.

 

[redheadfantasy]

This is helpful, thank you!

There was a time this last weekend where I sat in his lap in some lingerie he bought me, and started kissing and teasing him. He actually lasted a while that way, but again, the second he was inside me, he was done in under a minute.

Still though, as long as it doesn’t mean he’s unsatisfied, that’s fine with me!

 

[john_johnson]

If he gets that excited and turned on, maybe he can get going a second time. Round 2 should be longer.

 

[redheadfantasy]

We went for round 2 a couple times, but he’d still cum within a minute or two. Maybe I need to tease him more? Am I doing something wrong?

 

[john_johnson]

He needs just to take it slow. He has to pace himself.

 

[Champakian]

He needs to get whisky-dicked...




:nods:

 

[redheadfantasy]

You think him getting some alcohol in him will help him enjoy me longer?

 

[Champakian]

Always worked for me.

I also think that you are likely a performance alt.

 

[redheadfantasy]

What’s a performance alt?

 

[Champakian]

Usually a guy pretending to be a woman
to discuss his sexual inadequacies...

 

[redheadfantasy]

Wow, I learn something new every day here, lol! Definitely a young lady though, last time I checked.

Than you for the alcohol advice, next time him and I get together, I’ll see if an extra bottle of wine makes a difference. He seems to be enjoying himself either way, at least.

 

[Champakian]

Hard liquor.

 

[redheadfantasy]

Oh, that’s different than us drinking wine? Okay, I’ll try to mix him a hard drink I guess. Thanks for the advice!

 

[Champakian]

One? You're going to get he same result...

 

[redheadfantasy]

Um, 3 or 4? I’m a lightweight, one glass of wine and I’m giggling. I don’t think I’ve ever even had liquor. I think he drinks somewhat regularly though, so he can probably handle more?

 

[lovetoread]

oh bless your heart i too am having issues with my professor

see he likes to make me wear really short skirts in class and then leans me over his desk so that he can spank me for showing my naughty bits

i cant help but beg Daddy to fuck me after that, but he only pounds me long enough for me to moan out a few times and then its over

there should be some sort of pill to keep him going for longer, dont cha think?

 

[Champakian]

Wicked.

Someone should be spanked.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

oh bless your heart i too am having issues with my professor

see he likes to make me wear really short skirts in class and then leans me over his desk so that he can spank me for showing my naughty bits

i cant help but beg Daddy to fuck me after that, but he only pounds me long enough for me to moan out a few times and then its over

there should be some sort of pill to keep him going for longer, dont cha think?

these oughtta do the trick:

https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/facebook/000/033/215/flintstones.jpg

 

[luverof69]

As an older male, I find that I don't last as long as I did in my younger days. Try slowing things down, taking your time with foreplay. Have him go down on you or satisfy you before letting him in. Some men just cum quickly.
If he's cumming that fast, I'd say you're doing a lot fo things right

 

[Dribble]

If you get the grades you are after...does it really matter?

 

[doowdniw]

What does he profess?

 

[TarnishedPenny]

RHF, I would suggest that you two hold off thoughts of pills or creams for right now and instead google self-treatment for premature ejaculation. It doesn't sound like he has classic PE, but there are things he (and you! ) can do to help him learn to slow down. They're basically ways for him to learn his own body's responses, how to enjoy the journey instead of the destination (not that that isn't fun, of course) and how to control his reflexes. They work for the majority of men.

If you try those for a while and they don't help, then it's time to talk to a doctor. But check it out first.

Good luck.

 

[stickygirl]

Early 20s and only discovered the interwebs

Stay fit, stick to healthy diet. Don't stress about coming too fast ( not the same as premature ejaculation fgs ) and enjoy round two with her.

 

[mwmGAbusytravellingflirt]

For me a drink or two can help but too much can be a bad thing. A few things to help: Get him to do some hard physical activity- lift weights, hard work outside, etc. Also when he masturbates, don’t edge as much; it isn’t the same as most real sex. Have him put a little firmer grip and make sure he masturbates to completion. Next is breathing, if he breathes in deep during intercourse and counts to three and breathes out slowly, it should help too. This will improve slowly but surely. Stay at it, and don’t deny him sex. Finally, and this takes an open mind, find an object he can essentially fuck to get off and have him use some of the videos on xhamster like the ones that you find when you search stamina. I just posted a longer version of this, I think in playground, may have been darkroom. Really hope it helps.