Am I Doing Something Wrong?

[stickygirl]

Last night, I did a little experimenting. I've got a few anti-pain gels like Aspercreme and some lidocaine gels, all over-the-counter stuff. The Aspercreme seemed to be doing a good job of reducing sensation and retarding the orgasm. I wouldn't put it on a cock and then fuck it, since it would probably do a pretty good job of deadening sensation in the vagina as well, not to mention that it's tagged "for external use only." But putting it on a cock and then sheathing the cock in a condom would solve that problem.

!!!!!
Do keep in mind that condoms are susceptible to damage by chemicals and may perforate unexpectedly

 

[FGB]

And i say this Laughing and Grinning...

WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG ?

 

[lovetoread]

https://64.media.tumblr.com/bf3d706bd605e6a2713a652fac85048d/9729b5a7ca588e78-93/s540x810/a02ccec0619753638a0d826f11bfeb4bab9ae23a.gifv

I beg to differ

indeed

 

[jehoram]

!!!!!
Do keep in mind that condoms are susceptible to damage by chemicals and may perforate unexpectedly

In which case you use the thick, industrial strength condoms, because the lack of sensation isn't really an issue here, right?

 

[stickygirl]

In which case you use the thick, industrial strength condoms, because the lack of sensation isn't really an issue here, right?

I wasn't being snarky. This happened to friends of mine - he used a local anaesthetic, like lignocaine and after they'd had sex discovered the condom was perforated like a colander. She had to go get a morning after pill, which are a shitty thing to take. So just a PSA.

Alternatively, use one of those glow in the dark condoms: bullet proof rubber and very very funny

 

[pantalaimonlyra]

Hi all,

Long story short, I (early 20s Female) am dating a former professor of mine (mid 50s Male). We had our first weekend away recently and had a lovely time - hardly left the hotel room. That being said, I noticed when we had sex he came pretty fast.

Does this mean I’m doing something wrong? I wasn’t bothered by it at all, I’m just concerned I’m not pleasing him. I tend to moan/scream/squirm quite a bit when he’s inside me. Should I try to minimize any of this?

Thank you in advance!

Have you tried turning him off and then turning him back on again?

 

[jehoram]

I wasn't being snarky. This happened to friends of mine - he used a local anaesthetic, like lignocaine and after they'd had sex discovered the condom was perforated like a colander. She had to go get a morning after pill, which are a shitty thing to take. So just a PSA.

Yeow! I'll have to try the experiment again, this time with a condom. In the meantime, let's be careful out there.

 

[Crownvic]

We went for round 2 a couple times, but he’d still cum within a minute or two. Maybe I need to tease him more? Am I doing something wrong?

Tease me some more..see what you get!

 

[Saint Peter]

tight pussy makes you do some crazy shit.

frog pussy tight

 

[neci]

frog pussy tight

that'll make you go ape shit.

 

[MorpheusLunar]

Hi all,

Long story short, I (early 20s Female) am dating a former professor of mine (mid 50s Male). We had our first weekend away recently and had a lovely time - hardly left the hotel room. That being said, I noticed when we had sex he came pretty fast.

Does this mean I’m doing something wrong? I wasn’t bothered by it at all, I’m just concerned I’m not pleasing him. I tend to moan/scream/squirm quite a bit when he’s inside me. Should I try to minimize any of this?

Thank you in advance!

Hmmmm, Let me now contemplate your inquiry.

a.) Was his cum sticky and gooey
b.) Did he groan and moan
c.) Did you writhe like a worm on a hook
d.) Did you moan groan and say "oh fuck"
e.) Did you let him strip you naked one thread at a time.
f.) Did your lips touch his trembling cock
g.) Were you on top
h.) Did his lips touch your cunt
i.) Is your cute little pussy shaved
j.) Did you let his cum run down his shriveling cock after you finished
k. ) Did he finger your asshole
l.) Did you finger his asshole
m.) Did he suck on your nipples
n.) Did he lick your ass
o.) Did you play with his balls
p.) Did you french kiss
q.) Did he pull your hair
r.) Did he spank your ass
s.) Did he shove your mouth down his shaft
t.) Did you swallow
w.) Did you bite him
x.) Did he take pictures of you face fucking him
y.) Did he offer you a Benjamin and then smile
z.) Did you ask him if he would be your daddy?

Any of the above might make him last for say..... another couple minutes - but - he would have to do it all again just to make sure the constraints worked. You know .. .kind of an experiment kind of thing.

 

[BluegrassBelle]

For what it's worth ( and it has already been mentioned) he may want to try wearing a condom to dull sensations a bit if him climaxing to quickly is problematic. A man I am friends with has said that while he prefers the sensations of being bare he lasts longer when he has a condom on.
That being said, if both of you are enjoying yourselves it doesn't always have to be a marathon porno session.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

https://64.media.tumblr.com/bf3d706bd605e6a2713a652fac85048d/9729b5a7ca588e78-93/s540x810/a02ccec0619753638a0d826f11bfeb4bab9ae23a.gifv

I beg to differ

can't stop gazing at this damn .gif.

see, it's the camera tracking to the left with a slight pull away as the top gal leans in that sets it off. A static shot would've been boring. This is why cinematography is an art form and not just an aside you don't think about when using a camera.

frog pussy tight

https://cdn.boldomatic.com/content/post/x7d1eQ/YOU-KNOW-YOUR-CHEAP-WHEN-YOUR-TIGHT-AS-FROG-PUSSY?size=800

the bad grammar makes it even funnier, methinks

 

[Jannejnsn]

Hi! Unfortunately I have quite the experience as a man when it comes to reaching climax fast.

If you want we can talk about it, I can give you my side of the subject and also what seems to work for me, even though I'm younger than your man maybe there are some things you could put to use! Get back to me if you wish to, good luck!