Have you ever received hate messages on here?

[Natasha25]

I just received my first hate message because I didn’t reply to someone. It felt silly and immature to me but, who am I to judge?

 

[rudrakshpathak]

I just received my first hate message because I didn’t reply to someone. It felt silly and immature to me but, who am I to judge?

I did. It seemed like a juvenile response to a situation.

I'm sorry that you received the message.

 

[Xerxes82]

Yep. I have indeed.

 

[Natasha25]

I did. It seemed like a juvenile response to a situation.

I'm sorry that you received the message.

That’s how it seemed to me as well. And thank you.

 

[TunnelKing089]

Lot of hate on here.

 

[Natasha25]

Lot of hate on here.

That’s sad. I hadn’t had a bad experience before today.

 

[wallstreetguy]

Not hate, necessarily.

A couple of weird encounters. I had a couple of women PM me, asking for communication. I was happy to oblige.
One got angry when I got flirty. It was like we were work colleagues and she wanted to report me to HR. She accused me of wanting to get off.
Uh, well, yeah.... It was like she was shocked and I did not even use the F word or anything truly dirty.
Two different women wanted to RP, so I wrote what I had in mind. Each (separately) were upset that I did not write what they wanted (we had not yet communicated). one was furious that I could not read her mind.
I would say each of these three got really angry. Not hateful, but upset I did not know what they wanted in the first two PMs. And all three treated me like the husband who just does not care enough to try for his long-suffering wife's sake.
Bizarre.

 

[Chillygirl]

Yep. Had a couple guys cuss me out and call me names because I turned them down.
A couple from women who didn’t like me flirting with their man.

Overall, screw them I don’t care. People are going to hate...they get a little brave being behind a computer.

 

[Cyberbella]

Yep. Had a couple guys cuss me out and call me names because I turned them down.
A couple from women who didn’t like me flirting with their man.

Overall, screw them I don’t care. People are going to hate...they get a little brave being behind a computer.

Amen sister! They also like bullying others and sticking their nose in where it doesn’t belong. This isn’t a safe haven Im sorry to say.

 

[jasonmason]

I can’t say that I have. But then I really don’t get hardly any PMs.

 

[Chillygirl]

Here’s what pissed me off about the women....i only ask guys if they’re married. I don’t ask if they have a “lit” girlfriend. I always assume they’re talking to multiple women. I never assume I’m the only one. So these women who get mad....maybe you should take it up with him. Clarify YOUR relationship.

 

[Cyberbella]

It wouldn’t matter anyway. Most of the guys I’ve came into contact with have one, but say theirs doesn’t mind because she fools around with other men anyway. I just assume they’re all lying. lol

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Amen sister! They also like bullying others and sticking their nose in where it doesn’t belong. This isn’t a safe haven Im sorry to say.

This has been my experience as well. I have only received one hate message though which was from a woman. I put the haters on ignore and move on.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

I haven’t directly. Some friends of mine were advised not to chat with me on the stories side in their messages anonymously. They also spread lies about me. One person who used to be here didn’t like me at all and spread lies about me here too. All that kinda hurt.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

That is almost the ONLY kind of PM I ever get. I've had people with ALTS threaten me and my loved ones. They are no longer with us, alas.

 

[SugarSpiceAndLace]

Yes. The worst was the one who offered to cut off my tits before slicing open my throat.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Yes. The worst was the one who offered to cut off my tits before slicing open my throat.

That’s horrible.

 

[SugarSpiceAndLace]

That’s horrible.

Yeah. He's since been banned, though I've found out from someone that he's back under a new profile. I have him on ignore now though.

 

[Orchidea73]

No, I haven't.

And all three treated me like the husband who just does not care enough to try for his long-suffering wife's sake.
Bizarre.

LOL!

 

[Orchidea73]

Here’s what pissed me off about the women....i only ask guys if they’re married. I don’t ask if they have a “lit” girlfriend. I always assume they’re talking to multiple women. I never assume I’m the only one. So these women who get mad....maybe you should take it up with him. Clarify YOUR relationship.

I assume the same. Also, because I talk with more than one person. I find that perfectly normal. However, if I am interested in the guy for more than just talking and/or innocent flirting. Meaning, I am very attracted to him and I want more than just a friendship online, I do ask them if they are seriously "engaged" with someone else here. The reason for that is simple, I do not like sharing and I would like to make that clear, and not lose my time and energy with that person. Sure, he could lie to me. And if they are that good to not get caught (Breaking news: they are not ) more power to them. But I do prefer to make things clear from the start.

But, I fully agree with you on women, or men, who get mad with the "third" person. That's childish. The only person you should be talking to (get mad or whatever) is the person you are having the relationship with. Unless, the person involved is your friend. But that's a whole different discussion.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I've had a few apparently jealous men write me "defending their women" from perceived slights from me. They were adamant that I was vile and a menace. I wrote to their "women" to find out how big an asshole I had been. They claimed nothing I had done or said to them was worrying them. When I mentioned I had been "contacted" on their behalf, they knew who the guys were and would deal with it themselves. I never heard back from the gents again.

 

[yournaivelittletoy]

I wouldn't say I've gotten hate messages, but definitely some angry ones. Usually after chatting with a guy for a bit, they either realize I'm not a sub or I realize they're a "dom" and point out what I'm not, then some will send me angry messages after. Which I feel like is ironic, but whatever.

 

[hairball18]

I have never received hate messages. I have gotten some that hurt a little but mostly positive.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Here’s what pissed me off about the women....i only ask guys if they’re married. I don’t ask if they have a “lit” girlfriend. I always assume they’re talking to multiple women. I never assume I’m the only one. So these women who get mad....maybe you should take it up with him. Clarify YOUR relationship.

This. And also why I don't talk to men who I'm aware are in a lit relationship any longer. I learned my lesson after a few messages from the women telling me to "back off"
So now I avoid coupled up people.

 

[Deleted member 5521640]

I just received my first hate message because I didn’t reply to someone. It felt silly and immature to me but, who am I to judge?

I have, but not recently. I would just give it back to them with a little added volume and vitriol. Most haters aren't prepared for someone who will piss back at them.