Wife Fantasy

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

Hi

New here so not sure if this is he right place to post, apologies if not.

Like many guys it seems, I have a long time fantasy of wanting to watch my wife fuck another guy.

I did tell her once while we were having sex, she didn't say much, just asked why but at least she didn't flip out.

She is very flirty after a few drinks and has joked about sleeping with guys when we've been on a night out.

She is attractive and gets male attention when she's out and about. She's 45, brown hair, blue eyes, curvy, 40d boobs.

Would love to find a guy that could "bump" in to her while she's on a night out and chat to her and see what happens. We're in Dorset.

I'm aware that it's unlikely anything ever will but I always live in hope.

Happy to talk to anyone or role-play and scenes or scenarios anyone may have.

Thanks

J

 

[missyunderstanding]

Playing with fire

My husband brought up similar fantasies. But when I showed a potential interest in making it happen he seemed to put the brakes on. That can be frustrating for a wife. So my advice is don't light the fuse if you don't want the fireworks.

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

That's a shame for you.

It's definitely not something that I would take lightly and not just a flash in the pan thought. It's something I've been thinking about for a long time.

If my wife ever showed the interest to do it then I'd definitely let her.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

I'd love it to happen me and do drop hints during dirty talk.

Im sure you could plan something with someone on here.

 

[screwher]

My husband brought up similar fantasies. But when I showed a potential interest in making it happen he seemed to put the brakes on. That can be frustrating for a wife. So my advice is don't light the fuse if you don't want the fireworks.

That’s not surprising. I’m sure a lot of men have this fantasy. But when it’s ready to happen they soon realize some fantasies are best left as such. My advice: be 110% this is what you really want. I had these fantasies and desires for years. So I was on-board (and aroused) when it happened.

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

I'd love it to happen me and do drop hints during dirty talk.

Im sure you could plan something with someone on here.

I hope so

And hope you are able to sort something for your wife.

 

[Mtnmike]

My husband brought up similar fantasies. But when I showed a potential interest in making it happen he seemed to put the brakes on. That can be frustrating for a wife. So my advice is don't light the fuse if you don't want the fireworks.

Very good advice, always talk about it 1st then talk a lot more!!!!

 

[Franglais71]

You might have to be patient about this while Covid rages on all over the place, but you could always talk about it with and even role play with her when she is feeling flirty and maybe a little intoxicated and loosing some of her inhibitions, good luck!
Dorset beaches will have a lot of potential in the summer, maybe Studland nudist beach?

 

[Bigaug]

I definitely have the fantasy of watching my wife with either a guy or a girl or multiple guys and girls....she seems to share that fantasy as well

 

[dz2681]

That's a shame for you.

It's definitely not something that I would take lightly and not just a flash in the pan thought. It's something I've been thinking about for a long time.

If my wife ever showed the interest to do it then I'd definitely let her.

Have you brought it up again to see if she indulges you a bit more? Took a few tries with my wife for her to open up and talk about her thoughts on the matter. She also would flirt a bit when out and it was very hot watching it progress further as time went along. Does you wife enjoy showing off or teasing?

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

Have you brought it up again to see if she indulges you a bit more? Took a few tries with my wife for her to open up and talk about her thoughts on the matter. She also would flirt a bit when out and it was very hot watching it progress further as time went along. Does you wife enjoy showing off or teasing?

No, not brought it up again but definitely need too. Going to take her out to the pubs when we're allowed and let her have a few drinks. Then say something along the lins of "that guys looking at you" that sort of thing, tell her she can go and chat with him, see what happens.

 

[dz2681]

No, not brought it up again but definitely need too. Going to take her out to the pubs when we're allowed and let her have a few drinks. Then say something along the lins of "that guys looking at you" that sort of thing, tell her she can go and chat with him, see what happens.

Yeah not the easiest of times to go out and explore. Can always try some role playing or using toys in the meantime, some hot fun there too to ease her into the idea.

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

Yeah not the easiest of times to go out and explore. Can always try some role playing or using toys in the meantime, some hot fun there too to ease her into the idea.

Yeh, good ideas

 

[screwher]

Take it slow is my best advice. You both need time to get used to the idea and process the implications on your own relationship. Remember, you can't put the toothpaste back in the tube. Good luck.

This is a fantastic point too. When/if it happens, you can’t unfuck someone. When the deed is done, it will be forever a part of your lives. As well, when that time comes and she’s ready to get naked with another man, be prepared to not be present the first time. She’ll need to be comfortable when she “breaks the ice”. She might not be with her husband in the room.

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

This is a fantastic point too. When/if it happens, you can’t unfuck someone. When the deed is done, it will be forever a part of your lives. As well, when that time comes and she’s ready to get naked with another man, be prepared to not be present the first time. She’ll need to be comfortable when she “breaks the ice”. She might not be with her husband in the room.

Possibly. I’d be more than happy not to be there if she didn’t want.

As long as she told me all about it afterwards.

 

[cuck72]

If you know of any guys you'd think about, I would start with sharing a fantasy about one of them with your wife. Maybe just get her hot, then mention some guy you both know that she might like. There for you can get her started by picturing this other guy, and you both think of him. I would think you'd both want to think of a guy you know of, so you have a picture of him in your mind.

I have like 8 different guys that I take turns thinking about fucking my wife all the time. I'll mention one in bed and she can picture him as we fool around. My wife will be sucking me, and I'll say his name, like "oh yeah, suck Brad, He'd be so hard wanting to fuck you."

 

[phil1955]

Make sure you are totally comfortable with her fucking another guy. Also I think if you want her to do this, she needs to be totally in charge. Her choice of guys and her choice whether or not she wants you there. If you are Ok with that, then encourage her to do some activities where she might meet some guys. My wife joined a hiking group of mostly men doing fairly serious hikes. She ended up meeting a guy that was interesting to her. Eventually she ended up fucking him and is still doing so today. Sometimes I am there and sometimes I just get to hear about it. All good to me. I know I am a pervert but I absolutely love watching her fuck another guy.

 

[Katieb_38]

I agree with the advice that you both have to be completely on board with this, it is a big step and trust and honesty is a big part of it. Me and my ex husband enjoyed the swinging scene but I also saw people who got involved that were mainly doing it for their other half rather than themselves.

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

Thanks again for all your comments and suggestions.

I agree with most of them.

This is something I would not push my wife into doing if she didn't want to. She's not that sort of person anyway, if she said no then I know she'd mean it.

I do want to do this for her to though. I want her to feel good, sexy and confident about herself.

I know a few guys that fancy her and have said so to her. She is attractive and does get male attention when she goes out so it should be quite easy for her to find someone if she wants.

She is part of a rowing club so does get to meet guys in a sporty environment.

 

[Justfantasies]

My husband brought up similar fantasies. But when I showed a potential interest in making it happen he seemed to put the brakes on. That can be frustrating for a wife. So my advice is don't light the fuse if you don't want the fireworks.

I did this and more with my first and second wives and far from shying away at the last moment, couldn't wait to make it happen

 

[NikiVien]

I think you've received some great advice.

I would add, keep it fun and light, making her laugh about it will only add positivity to the situation and remove any feelings of pressure.

 

[Justfantasies]

I think you've received some great advice.

I would add, keep it fun and light, making her laugh about it will only add positivity to the situation and remove any feelings of pressure.

We should always think of these little adventures with a giggle

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

I think you've received some great advice.

I would add, keep it fun and light, making her laugh about it will only add positivity to the situation and remove any feelings of pressure.

I like that too.

Make sure it's fun and hearted, will hopefully make her feel a lot more relaxed about it during and afterwards.

 

[Huff76]

Hi

Would love to find a guy that could "bump" in to her while she's on a night out and chat to her and see what happens. We're in Dorset.


J

Hello fellow Dorset resident! Depending on whereabouts you are, or if you're willing to travel, there is a swingers club in Bournemouth. Closed at the moment of course, but something to think about when this shitshow is over

 

[Wife_Fantasy_uk]

Hello fellow Dorset resident! Depending on whereabouts you are, or if you're willing to travel, there is a swingers club in Bournemouth. Closed at the moment of course, but something to think about when this shitshow is over

Hi Huff

Thanks for that.

Something to bear in mind if I manage to get my wife into this