The scorned woman

[mayfly13]

Heard all sorts of stories about women turning nasty / bullying /harassing their ex-es.

But are those perceptions entirely accurate?
Or are some of those women merely displaying an understandable distressed reaction to being duped by psychopaths?

This can extend from romantic relationships to friendship or work relations.

 

[rockcasbah]

No, you nailed it.

 

[Saint_Ann]

Heard all sorts of stories about women turning nasty / bullying /harassing their ex-es.

But are those perceptions entirely accurate?
Or are some of those women merely displaying an understandable distressed reaction to being duped by psychopaths?

This can extend from romantic relationships to friendship or work relations.

That's just the ones that are routinely beaten.

 

[FGB]

Well let's see.

A friendship (actually two)

One screen Door.

One window.

Two vehicles ran of the road.

Cleaned out bank account .

At least a dozen ass whoppings

A Divorce.

44 years of hatred

Her fucking just about everyone he would hear about.

THEN she got pissed!

An extreme example but I am going to go with ...YES!

 

[Saint_Ann]

Well let's see.

A friendship (actually two)

One screen Door.

One window.

Two vehicles ran of the road.

Cleaned out bank account .

At least a dozen ass whoppings

A Divorce.

44 years of hatred

Her fucking just about everyone he would hear about.

THEN she got pissed!

An extreme example but I am going to go with ...YES!

^
Didn't learn lesson the first time.

 

[dolf]

I'm just here to laugh.

Because it's definitely a woman thing, not just a shitty person thing. And we've never seen men act that way around here. And there's no statistics to show that women are most likely to be murdered if they leave, because a man scorned...

OP, you're a tool.

 

[rockcasbah]

There’s no such thing as a bad dog.

Just poor trainers.

 

[rockcasbah]

Right? All men need training. Women just need to start using more crate time outs and choke/shock collars. Our issue is us bitches are too compassionate resulting in ill mannered dogs.

Tell us about your childhood.

 

[dolf]

Right? All men need training. Women just need to start using more crate time outs and choke/shock collars. Our issue is us bitches are too compassionate resulting in ill mannered dogs.

I figured that one out, and I've never been happier

 

[rockcasbah]

I figured that one out, and I've never been happier

No, you tell us about your childhood!

http://beautyinfozone.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/aveeno-with-tissue1.jpg

 

[rockcasbah]

I'd rather hear about your imaginary romantic escapades. Your desperation amuses me.

I'll play along...any requests?

 

[rockcasbah]

I always enjoy the barely legal and their mom stories. The classic bend the interns over the office desk never gets old either. Your choice. Oh, and please don't forget to mention the new corvette. Thx.

I thought you wanted imaginary escapades....?

 

[rockcasbah]

Delusional is fine too.

Okay; what are you wearing right now?

 

[rockcasbah]

According to toesucker vomit and a chainsaw.

I like Silver Girl's ensemble du jour better, sorry.

https://images.firstwefeast.com/complex/image/upload/p8d1vjzjaup70cdwo5dh.gif

 

[Brains_N_Boobs]

There’s no such thing as a bad dog.

Just poor trainers.

https://i.imgur.com/lQbsFlN.gif

 

[Fermina_Daza]

I figured that one out, and I've never been happier

Lie with dogs, end up with fleas.

Lie with children, end up with lice.

-No wonder this thread makes my skin itch.

 

[rockcasbah]

Lie with dogs, end up with fleas.

Lie with children, end up with lice.

-No wonder this thread makes my skin itch.

Sounds like scorniitus.

 

[nowisthetime]

Not trying to turn this into a man vs woman thing. We're all tired of that.

However, we need to chill with this only women are over emotional, hysterical, etc., jazz.

I realize this board is full of a bunch of Baby Boom generation males who came from different times. Ok.

I can tell you, emotions are not a man or woman thing, but a human thing, some express it more than others.

That said, there are many men who are scorned and some become dangerous, as well. There are many men, including some in this very thread who are hurting on the inside and thus projecting their pain. You see them constantly posting negative threads about past exes or just holding a very low opinion of women, in general.

So please shove it with that "women scorned" BS, that's a tired and lazy generalization. Women can be very resilient and move on from past pain without going postal and shooting up the entire block because of a "bad breakup" like many male incels often do. I can tell you there are many women who are harassed or bullied by their exes or men they reject.

The truth of the matter, we have all had one or two failed relationships, however, if it's constantly occurring, then one must look at the common denominator...this goes for both men and women.

 

[rockcasbah]

I blame the Clintons.

 

[Saint_Ann]

Sounds like scorniitus.

Lukeitis.

 

[silver gurl]

I like Silver Girl's ensemble du jour better, sorry.

I am just a regular fashionista

 

[rockcasbah]

I think the "scorned woman" is a quantifiable reality, one we collectively as society try to not talk about as much as possible. Like religion and politics, simply best not discussed in polite company.

As a het male, if I choose a woman who winds up feeling scorned, I think of the failure as primarily mine by dint of not having chosen better.

As a logical egalitarian, it's always at least half her fault, regardless of the deets.

That delta between personal and societal responsibility is the one most often capitalized upon by poor choices of all genders.

 

[nowisthetime]

That brings me to another thing. Real talk here.

Humans, usually SOME men, want to punch above their league. If they don't get that "Stacey" they want with the long list of PHYSICAL qualifications boob size, booty size, hair length, etc, they go apeshit. These same types don't even want women within their league, nope, they are damn well entitled to the 10s.

So then, they keep chasing these Staceys who don't give a lick about them, perhaps end up with her. She uses him, saps his soul, and all of a sudden he's wondering why he's broke and devoid of life. But he won't blame himself, nope, all women are now demons to him.

There are some women called "pick-mes" (see I will criticize women, too) who settle for hell, any kind of dick, no job, no car, no future, just to say she has a man in her life, perhaps she feels society teaches her a woman is nothing without a man. She ends up scorned over and over again, wondering what's the problem thinking all men ain't shit. Typically, women turn their anger towards themselves or sadly, sometimes their children.

Again, common denominator. My point, scorned behavior knows no gender.

 

[rockcasbah]

Sounds like you've lost more than a few to the pretty girls.

Someday your Prince will come. Or Zumi.

That brings me to another thing. Real talk here.

Humans, usually SOME men, want to punch above their league. If they don't get that "Stacey" they want with the long list of PHYSICAL qualifications boob size, booty size, hair length, etc, they go apeshit. These same types don't even want women within their league, nope, they are damn well entitled to the 10s.

So then, they keep chasing these Staceys who don't give a lick about them, perhaps end up with her. She uses him, saps his soul, and all of a sudden he's wondering why he's broke and devoid of life. But he won't blame himself, nope, all women are now demons to him.

There are some women called "pick-mes" (see I will criticize women, too) who settle for hell, any kind of dick, no job, no car, no future, just to say she has a man in her life, perhaps she feels society teaches her a woman is nothing without a man. She ends up scorned over and over again, wondering what's the problem thinking all men ain't shit. Typically, women turn their anger towards themselves or sadly, sometimes their children.

Again, common denominator. My point, scorned behavior knows no gender.

 

[Saint Peter]

girls like that
don't sleep alone


How is a guy supposed to know what league to punch in? Please be aware I have a perfect ass.