Unsolicited perving.

[Jada59]

I don't mean here or on a dating app/site. That's to be expected.

But once again, I got this on FB. Guy with many mutual friends. I checked out his pics. Seahawks fan, fat, dumb looking. I accepted the friend request. I know, I know... Stop laughing!

He immediately started messaging me.

How was I?

And then?

Can we flirt? Baby... Sweetie... Stuff like that.

He's in another state. Nope. Don't do that. Only interested in guys I can meet. Oh but he can fly out here! Alaska to Washington state. I don't think so! Not into that.

From there he kept repeating the words, "Want you" over and over.

I told him that wasn't possible as he didn't know me.

He asked me what my favorite position was. I told him... Getting up from this chair and walking into the kitchen for a drink.

His reply was... What?

Bright boy. Yeah.

So I guess this guy was sort of a quasi-perv as he didn't really say any truly dirty stuff, but it was certainly unappealing.

When I told him I was unfriending him, he told me I was mean.

I then discovered that his page was no longer. I think others complained and FB took it down. Either that or he blocked me.

So... Why do guys do this? I can't imagine that they get any takers. I can imagine them thinking they are frightening us and getting off on that. I just get annoyed and think it's a big waste of my time!

 

[PaxNurgle]

Sounds like a creep with poor social skills, who is clearly lonely and desperate, and kind of sad because he probably doesn't realize that the REASON he is lonely and desperate is because of his poor social skills and creepy behavior.

Plus he is a Seahawks fan. That, alone, would be a deal breaker for me (go 49ers!) ha ha.

 

[Jada59]

Sounds like a creep with poor social skills, who is clearly lonely and desperate, and kind of sad because he probably doesn't realize that the REASON he is lonely and desperate is because of his poor social skills and creepy behavior.

Plus he is a Seahawks fan. That, alone, would be a deal breaker for me (go 49ers!) ha ha.

Thanks! I don't do sports. I don't hold that against anyone unless they try to get me involved.

 

[PFWilly]

To clarify...you’re okay with solicited perving?

Just a Hood Canal guy, poking a little fun!

Have a good night.

 

[Modern_drunkard]

Dont know.
-guy who hates FB.

 

[JJA122]

I did that once. Accepting a friend request like that.

He guessed I was gay for some reason and messaged me "You are really cute."

So I messaged back "Thanks dude." Then he sent a thumbs up emoji, and that was it. lol.

 

[Jada59]

I did that once. Accepting a friend request like that.

He guessed I was gay for some reason and messaged me "You are really cute."

So I messaged back "Thanks dude." Then he sent a thumbs up emoji, and that was it. lol.

Hehe.

 

[Funinkilts]

Law of averages

I knew of a guy who had Tourette’s Syndrome and asked every woman he saw point blank, “Do you want to f**k?” I asked him why he was doing such, as he was clearly annoying the ladies in our class. His response amazed me for sure. He said, “Out of every 10 woman he asked, he got anywhere from 1-3 women who accepted. Just my $0.02 worth

 

[Jada59]

I knew of a guy who had Tourette’s Syndrome and asked every woman he saw point blank, “Do you want to f**k?” I asked him why he was doing such, as he was clearly annoying the ladies in our class. His response amazed me for sure. He said, “Out of every 10 woman he asked, he got anywhere from 1-3 women who accepted. Just my $0.02 worth

Holy wow!

 

[yourhornyfriend]

They're not always odd looking people. I know of a good looking guy who wouldn't take no for an answer, even after the police spoke to him.

I think some people can't read social situations and others are just plain mad.

 

[HampshireBoy]

My facebook photo is a photo of my wife and myself, on the day we got engaged.

I've twice had friend requests from blokes that I don't know, friends of a friend on FB, which I accepted without really engaging brain. They then messaged me with variants of "Hi babe, how are you doing?" which gave me a good laugh before blocking them.

 

[Jada59]

They're not always odd looking people. I know of a good looking guy who wouldn't take no for an answer, even after the police spoke to him.

I think some people can't read social situations and others are just plain mad.

That could be. I kept getting messages from a guy on POF. He was very good looking but I suspect the pic was not of him. He lived nearby. Wanted to meet in as public place at 3 am while on lockdown so he could eat my pussy.

When I said I wasn't into that, he suggested again meeting in a public place at 3 am to make out so he could jack off.

When I asked him where he thought we could meet (because nothing was open), he said he didn't know.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

That could be. I kept getting messages from a guy on POF. He was very good looking but I suspect the pic was not of him. He lived nearby. Wanted to meet in as public place at 3 am while on lockdown so he could eat my pussy.

When I said I wasn't into that, he suggested again meeting in a public place at 3 am to make out so he could jack off.

When I asked him where he thought we could meet (because nothing was open), he said he didn't know.

That doesn't sound very safe. It's all a bit forward. You'd think he'd offer to meet for a coffee first. Also, if you're both single. Why would you need to meet at 3am?

I meet the guy I was talking about, he was good looking and smartly dressed. You never know who you're dealing with.

 

[Jada59]

That doesn't sound very safe. It's all a bit forward. You'd think he'd offer to meet for a coffee first. Also, if you're both single. Why would you need to meet at 3am?

I meet the guy I was talking about, he was good looking and smartly dressed. You never know who you're dealing with.

We were on lockdown so meeting for a coffee anything else was not allowed. I guess his schedule is like mine. I'm always up at 3 am. But still unsafe. Yes.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

We were on lockdown so meeting for a coffee anything else was not allowed. I guess his schedule is like mine. I'm always up at 3 am. But still unsafe. Yes.

I'd get up a 3am for some naughtiness, but I'd prefer it at a normal hour.

 

[Jada59]

I'd get up a 3am for some naughtiness, but I'd prefer it at a normal hour.

Yeah. My BF once wanted me to come over then. But he wanted me there right then and normally it's about an hour's drive. A 10 minute drive? Sure. But then, we already know each other.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

Yeah. My BF once wanted me to come over then. But he wanted me there right then and normally it's about an hour's drive. A 10 minute drive? Sure. But then, we already know each other.

I'd drive an hour for a promise. It would give the other person time to warm up and get both minds racing with sexy thoughts.

 

[Jada59]

I'd drive an hour for a promise. It would give the other person time to warm up and get both minds racing with sexy thoughts.

He doesn't live in a safe area so I wouldn't go there at night. I once ran a light trying to get there. Heh. All I can think about is what we'll do once I get there.

 

[yourhornyfriend]

He doesn't live in a safe area so I wouldn't go there at night. I once ran a light trying to get there. Heh. All I can think about is what we'll do once I get there.

Having an hour in the car to plan what you were going to do to him sounds like a great lead up to sex.

 

[FL30]

Sounds like a creep with poor social skills, who is clearly lonely and desperate, and kind of sad because he probably doesn't realize that the REASON he is lonely and desperate is because of his poor social skills and creepy behavior.

This.

But also, online they can be a lot more bravado than they can be in person because the fear of rejection is lessened than if they were in public. (no one can see you fail online)

Just like people ranting on social/political boards online - they say/write stuff that they would never say/do in public because of the anonymosity of the internet.