Shemales

[subserviant]

I consider myself to be 100 % hetro ,I love the female sex in every way .However I find myself looking at the transgender ,male to female quit often ,wondering what it would be like to hook up .One in particular,that iKeep returning to is an escort in the Netherlands ,She is absolutely gorgeous,a beatiful penis .So now I wonder does that make me a latent homosexual ,I have on occasion fantasied being with another guy ,always the submissive to a Dom .And so continue to wonder

 

[Escierto]

Have you ever tried to make your fantasy a reality?

 

[subserviant]

I have not tried getting in touch with a shemale as of yet .The escorts I have checked out locally do nothing for me .I am particularly attracted to asian ladyboys but as I stated in my first post ,the beauty that is an escort in Amsterdam is I believe from One of the Arabian country’s.I continue to check out Leolist and other sites

 

[subserviant]

Its like Craiglist

 

[subserviant]

One of my fantasies is when or if I hook up with a tranny is where I’m on my knees blowing her when she pulls back ,says I’m going to fuck you ,then when I’m ready to cum I’m gonna puul out of your ass and your gonna suck my cock until I cum in your mouth .If you don’t swallow every drop ,your gonna be one sorry bitch ,now bend over the arm of the couch and spread the cheeks of your ass bitch .
Of course I don’t swallow it all and she full files her promise

 

[SissySalina]

What is a homosexual? What do you consider a homosexual?
Is it someone that has sex with someone the same sax?
Is it someone that falls in love with someone the same sex?
What is it to you?

 

[adlon]

of course

it would be helpful not to use the term "shemale". it is outdated and considered offensive by the trans community,

The “shemale” slur is regarded as degrading by the trans community because it denies the gender identity of trans women.

it is not a term a trams woman would use, they refer to themself as a woman,


just saying

 

[SissySalina]

A male who is exclusively attracted sexually and romantically to a male. Homo: latin for 'man'.

Then according to your definition the OP would not be a homosexual. But what is the OP's definition?

 

[SissySalina]

it would be helpful not to use the term "shemale". it is outdated and considered offensive by the trans community,

The “shemale” slur is regarded as degrading by the trans community because it denies the gender identity of trans women.

it is not a term a trams woman would use, they refer to themself as a woman,


just saying

As a sissy this is of interest, when is a "shemale" a she and when is the "shemale" a male?
In an inclusive society when is it polite to tell someone that your opinion matters and theirs does not?
If you wish others to consider your feelings and thoughts should you not consider theirs?
A sissy just asking to have a better understanding of this fine new would order.

 

[Escierto]

There are many many sites using the term 'shemale'. I like it and I like free speech. We are free to refer to others as we see fit.

Sure you can use it. Just remember that nearly all transgender women will want nothing to do with you as a result. I have a beautiful transgender woman as a girlfriend. Do you?

 

[subserviant]

When I think of homosexuals ,I generally think of the sexual aspect,My bad ,perhaps because I am heterosexual,some might consider me to be bi but I do not consider myself to be so .I know there are men in relationships with the same sex that are life long but in my mind I think of the porn versions ,a sub with a dom . As for calling transsexuals shemales ,I do not in any way do so to degrade anyone ,its my way of distinguishing between male to female not female to male .When I fantasize about being with a male its alawys me being the submissive ,the other guy being the Dom ,my fantasy usualy involves forced sex ,leading to degradation ,humiliation ,severe pain .It is the same with a transgender woman whom I consider to be all woman

 

[Escierto]

Have you spoken to nearly all transgender women? THAT would be something to write home about.

Obviously not but I have probably chatted with over 500. Treating them with respect goes a long way.

 

[Escierto]

Well obviously if I had a shemale friend who wanted me to call her Transgender Carol I wouldn't call her Shemale Carol but to my other friends I would refer to her as a shemale. Treating my freedom of choice with respect goes a long way.

You’ve been watching too much porn. Transgender women are people not carnival rides.

 

[CuriousGuy62]

Well obviously if I had a shemale friend who wanted me to call her Transgender Carol I wouldn't call her Shemale Carol but to my other friends I would refer to her as a shemale. Treating my freedom of choice with respect goes a long way.

Treating your freedom of choice with respect is very important. Everyone should have freedom of choice.

Treating your *choice* with respect, however, depends on what your choice is.

Calling someone a term that most people would find offensive is certainly a choice that you could make, but that doesn't mean it should be respected.

 

[naughtymind]

There are many many sites using the term 'shemale'. I like it and I like free speech. We are free to refer to others as we see fit.

Free speech doesn’t mean that you aren’t free to learn to be more respectful of others. Just because you have a right to be an asshole doesn’t mean you need to be one. Free speech also means other people are well within their rights to let you know when your speech is rude or offensive. How you take such feedback says nothing of your rights, just your maturity and self confidence.
Fwiw, I have no dog in the fight here, since I’ve not polled any numbers within the trans community. I do however think it’s appropriate to listen to those who are part of the community when they say something is offensive or derogatory.

 

[naughtymind]

I’m just pointing out that someone gave you a rather polite bit of critique, and that the free speech line kind of misses the point. I’m a big proponent of the first amendment, but people get it way wrong so often imo. There are many things we may choose to do, or not, simply because they are the right thing to do.