Closet CD recently joined. Talk appreciated.

[Hkaylabean]

I love getting dressed like a girl and doing other things... 28 very passable..scared of hormones, just a phase? Not necessarily attracted to "men." Craving like thoughts. Help!

 

[Escierto]

I love getting dressed like a girl and doing other things... 28 very passable..scared of hormones, just a phase? Not necessarily attracted to "men." Craving like thoughts. Help!

You don’t have to take hormones or get surgery if you are naturally feminine. My girlfriend has never had surgery nor has she ever taken hormones. Also many transgender women are lesbians or pansexual so being with men is not a requirement either.

 

[SissySalina]

Welcome! How do you like to dress?

 

[ChrissyCD64]

If you love dressing like a girl and doing things and you're passable, why are you still in the closet? Come on out of there!

 

[TheWhiteBull]

Welcome. I advise you to stay away from hormones if you have any hesitation with regards to them. They’re right for some people and not for others. If you’re already happy with how you look without them then don’t worry about it.

As far as it being a phase...there’s no telling. Everybody seems to go through sexual phases where certain things attract them more, less, or not at all. Cross dressing seems to be one that most kinksters are either into for life or very long-term so I doubt that it’s a phase you’ll have end anytime soon. But who knows?

And who cares? Do what makes you happy for as long as it makes you happy and then stop when it no longer does.

 

[Escierto]

You don’t have to take hormones or get surgery if you are naturally feminine. My girlfriend has never had surgery nor has she ever taken hormones. Also many transgender women are lesbians or pansexual so being with men is not a requirement either.

I just reread my post and it made it sound as though only naturally feminine people could skip surgery or hormones. No one should feel obligated to meet anyone else’s standards of femininity.