Biracial Indian girl has questions for white men?

[Hazelnut_latte69]

I am a mixed-race girl (white and indian/south Asian) but look ethnic/exotic.

When it comes to dating/relationships and sex I'm crazy about white guys.

I need advice on

1) whats the best way to hint/allude that I'm one of those typical self-hating ethnic girls who worships white guys and im accessible

2) when meeting initially whats the best way to flirt and engage a white guy (even if I have to initiate/lead)?

3) from when we meet to after sex, how can I make white guys feel like a king? what should I say/do, how should I act to boost his ego

 

[HoldYouDown]

I am a mixed-race girl (white and indian/south Asian) but look ethnic/exotic.

When it comes to dating/relationships and sex I'm crazy about white guys.

I need advice on

1) whats the best way to hint/allude that I'm one of those typical self-hating ethnic girls who worships white guys and im accessible

2) when meeting initially whats the best way to flirt and engage a white guy (even if I have to initiate/lead)?

3) from when we meet to after sex, how can I make white guys feel like a king? what should I say/do, how should I act to boost his ego

Men are pretty much all the same, regardless of skin color. Just make the guy feel special. If you want to drop a hint, just say something like "I love fair skinned men, I guess we often want the opposite of what we are" or "I think white guys are sexy."

To flirt more directly, just tell him things about him you've noticed that you like. It can be about how he looks or how he acts. If you've JUST met him (introduction) just compliment him on something, laugh at his jokes etc.

You don't need to "try" to boost his ego...if you like him and are attracted, you'll probably do these things anyway. He'll feel special and if he's cool he'll return in kind.

PS please don't self-hate...Indian women are super sexy, some of my favorites! Be proud.

 

[TheShez]

I am a mixed-race girl (white and indian/south Asian) but look ethnic/exotic.

When it comes to dating/relationships and sex I'm crazy about white guys.

I need advice on

1) whats the best way to hint/allude that I'm one of those typical self-hating ethnic girls who worships white guys and im accessible

2) when meeting initially whats the best way to flirt and engage a white guy (even if I have to initiate/lead)?

3) from when we meet to after sex, how can I make white guys feel like a king? what should I say/do, how should I act to boost his ego

As a 39 year old 6ft 1in strong white man. Let me give you some advice.
If you truly want what you say, you will find nothing more than disrespect and be so unappreciation.
Find someone who wants nothing but you for you. Someone who makes you laugh and smile. Someone who will do whatever it takes to make you the centre of your world.
Then worship them. And never take them for granted.

As far as attracting a white man. I'm sure that you already are.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

I am a mixed-race girl (white and indian/south Asian) but look ethnic/exotic.

When it comes to dating/relationships and sex I'm crazy about white guys.

I need advice on

1) whats the best way to hint/allude that I'm one of those typical self-hating ethnic girls who worships white guys and im accessible

2) when meeting initially whats the best way to flirt and engage a white guy (even if I have to initiate/lead)?

3) from when we meet to after sex, how can I make white guys feel like a king? what should I say/do, how should I act to boost his ego

When he comes to pick you up for your date already have your face done, cuz most guys hate watching the magic in progress. Answer the door completely naked, BUT_,
Don't let him touch you.
Have him sit on the couch and let him watch you get dressed and all the while explaining to him what you expect of him and his level of behavior, or that the only thing he can ever expect to receive from you is the show he got coming in the door.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Keep in mind that you can be openly sexual without needing to diminish yourself. You just need to own it and make sure the guy knows that your sexuality is yours and you don't owe it to anybody to let society tell you that wanting what you want makes you subject to negative judgment.

The stereotype is of slutty women automatically being denigrated by men. But I can tell you that there are lots of guys who love and revere slutty women.

 

[Longhairsmile]

I am a mixed-race girl (white and indian/south Asian) but look ethnic/exotic.

When it comes to dating/relationships and sex I'm crazy about white guys.

I need advice on

1) whats the best way to hint/allude that I'm one of those typical self-hating ethnic girls who worships white guys and im accessible

2) when meeting initially whats the best way to flirt and engage a white guy (even if I have to initiate/lead)?

3) from when we meet to after sex, how can I make white guys feel like a king? what should I say/do, how should I act to boost his ego

You just need to be you.
When you have a one on one connection, you can guide a talk to likes and dislikes...
but trying to tell someone "i want to treat you like a king" prior to a connection won't really make sense.

unless it's a kink site/meet up... which is possible to explore
but it's more likely after the first date, or a few times hanging out... and there is a mutual feeling of things going well..

then pile on, "i want you to feel like a king" ...and embrace his likes... he'll feel special ... but as white guy, we are all different. just like any other race of people... intimacy and a connection will open the door to most things

 

[Vman55]

Just be yourself. If he is a good guy then everything else will fall in place. If you develop a relationship you can tell him those things later.

 

[kissedcherry]

Wana fuck?

I true slut should know that there is no need for any clever lines. Men want to fuck. So if you just want to fuck you don't need to jump through any hoops. Just go up to the targeted male with your cleavage on display and say: "Wana fuck." There is a near zero chance that the answer will be no.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

As others have said - be yourself, guys will find you attractive, there is nothing special a white guy will value any different than any other guy. As for flirting - light touching, showing interest and curiosity in him (asking questions, chatting, willingness to spend time together), and of course cleavage!

 

[policywank]

I don't know enough to compare the different cultures but I would say that in Western culture there is still a general expectation that men take the initiative when it comes to sex and relationships. Women aren't expected to be wall flowers and it isn't uncommon for us to initiate a conversation but there are some norms that are easy to use to your advantage. By that I mean that by defying those norms you can make it abundantly clear that you are interested without needing to outright proposition him (unless of course you want to).

Initiate conversation and ask him about himself.

Touch him - a hand on his forearm or if you want to go somewhere grab his arm and pull him into you (chest against his tricep if possible).

Take any opportunity to NOT let other people take your attention from him or if they must, be apologetic and explicitly ask him to wait for you to come back to him. You want him to feel as though the opportunity to be near him is something you value and will not give up easily.

Don't pull back an inch to project modesty to others. Be clear that your desire for him supersedes your need to avoid the judgment of others. All those little micro compromises we make so that the other girls won't judge us....the ones we think are so subtle the guys don't notice? They do notice them. Big time. If you are not firmly and unapologetically with him then you aren't with him at all. Make your choice now if you find that you can't project what you want towards him and keep all your gfs happy too.

Ask him to do something with you. Anything at all. You just need to make clear that you want to be in his company.

Push the envelope with what you wear. Dress to appeal to a man not to be accepted by women. Chances are that a good portion of your female friends don't know what sexy looks like to a man. It isn't all bimbo and boob tubes. I suggest a 3 1/2" rule. Heel height, exposed thigh and exposed cleavage - make sure you have 3 1/2" of at least two of those things. Again those little micro things that we think guys don't notice - they do. Throw in another little feature or two - maybe no bra or make the skirt leather or wear a choker necklace - to set yourself apart as bold.

Find ways to let him smell your hair or your breath (and makes sure it is sweet).

You are after as many senses as you can appeal to. Visual, touch, smell....and eventually taste.

If you get the chance to be close be the first to kiss him and the first to touch him more intimately.

Unless you want to be with a douchebag I would say focus on demonstrating your interest in him individually. Maybe comment on how attractive you find white guys. But avoid denigrating yourself or your race.

Making him feel like a king isn't about worshipping him. Most good guys don't want you to put yourself beneath them. They just want to feel as though you have genuine desire for them, really want to know what they like and will not judge their sexuality. Being accepting, bold and confident will go a lot farther than being subservient or obsequious.

You want to be what other women are not. The two easiest areas to differentiate yourself are by putting him first and being fully accepting of him.

 

[HampshireBoy]

As a 39 year old 6ft 1in strong white man. Let me give you some advice.
If you truly want what you say, you will find nothing more than disrespect and be so unappreciation.
Find someone who wants nothing but you for you. Someone who makes you laugh and smile. Someone who will do whatever it takes to make you the centre of your world.
Then worship them. And never take them for granted.

As far as attracting a white man. I'm sure that you already are.

I have to second this, men (of any colour) will love and respect a woman who respects herself.

If you debase yourself the men you meet will mistreat and abuse you - though some women seek this.

As to attracting men, just let them know that they interest you - lots of eye contact and flatter them by letting them know that you want to hear they're opinions.

 

[Sexstory61]

Be dominating to them I really enjoy that when a darker woman is domineering towards me