Share a time when you were (or nearly) fetish or closet outed/caught.

[CuckedbyBBC]

My transsexual/cross-dresser hook-up days are over, but I have three stomach-dropping, nerve racking stories of my love for cock getting (or nearly getting) outed.

The first one was in 2005, about 7 or 8 years into my transsexual hook-up days. My go-to was CL’s Casual Encounters and I must have emailed every Asian girl on the site for about five years (and hooked up with many). I of course had an alias and ghost email account. Well one time I responded to an add and the response came back shortly. The angry response included my real name as well as my long-term girlfriend’s name - capitalized, which was a very unique Asian name (even today I won’t identify her exact nationality!) The message was something to the effect of maybe she should forward her the email.

My stomach dropped. It was on my mind for days and in my thoughts for weeks. Who could it have been? I considered if my girlfriend possibly had a trans friend? Unlikely. Did a friend of mine post the add to catch me? Also unlikely (I know it wasn’t my girlfriend, she would have confronted me directly.) it was probably a girl I hooked up with who somehow found our names when we were at my place (or maybe did some fancy web searching?) I blew/got blown and fucked/got fucked by quite a few girls at my apartment. I wasn’t going to respond, I didn’t want to poke the hornets nest. To this day I have no idea who it was or if they shared it with anyone!

The second was on a work trip in 2010 (again - won’t say the city!) I was searching CL at work and left the phone down. My co-worker came over and saw an add with a picture of an Asian t-girl with the cutest little bulge (a bulge she shoved up my ass very late that night). That was just straight up getting caught. It was awkward for a bit, luckily he didn’t mention after it happened. I still remember him saying when he came over what the fuck, and I responded I was looking for a girl to hook with and he said something like ‘that girl’. But he dropped it after that. I don’t think he ever told anyone, but who knows, he probably did tell the story to a few of my co-workers. It’s also one of those situations where you hope transsexuals do not come up when you’re around him, but they occasionally do!

The third was in 2013 when a recent ex-girlfriend was over (we continued to fuck for a bit) and she was using my iPad. She saw the add I posted to Craigslist - looking for an Asian transsexual, cross-dresser or even fem Asian. It described how I have a big dick and am very masculine but prefer to get fucked. This seems like the one that would scare me the most, but it was cool. She was shocked, but as I recall, I played it off awkwardly and we changed the subject. It may have turned her in a bit. She was mostly out of my life at that point, I probably should have asked her to engage in some bi-threesomes. And she was BBC lover! But I didn’t. Soon after, I met my wife and never spoke to her or fucked anyone else (but my wife) ever again.

The last one is a funny story and it was my wife that caught me. We rented a house and were having a cocktail hour. I was playing music through my Bluetooth on a speaker. I went to the bathroom and decided to watch some interracial porn. She knocked on the door and informed me it was playing through the speaker! My wife is cool with my porn. At first it was awkward because she definitely new it was a BBC video, but I’m good with that. I think she knows more about my fucked up (but very legal) fetishes and tastes. She’s made a comment or two about how she doesn’t mind if I watch black guys fucking white or Asian girls and other things to that effect. She respects my phone privacy, I think she inadvertently sees some of my Google search history (which is again, leagal but fucking weird and kinky.) I do all my porn on the phone but if I’m signed in on the computer she can see what I searched.

Any good near misses or scares of other fetishist, tranny chasers or closeted guys?

 

[daytr1pper]

It's not quite a fetish or closeted out story - just an "almost got caught" story.

When I was a teen, my buddies had found their dad's porn stash so we'd look at the magazine/catalogs, get horned up, and jack each other off. Both their parents worked so during the summer months, it was a frequent occurrence.

We did lots of summery stuff - baseball, football, fishing, hiking, and then we'd get bored, go back to their house and out came the porn.

One time I went back to their house and it was just one buddy and me. It would've probably led there shortly, but we were just laying on their beds, looking at the ceiling and talking.

Not sure if the dad got done early or what, but unbeknownst to use, he came home and snuck upstairs (maybe he suspected?) and surprised us. Thankfully we were just talking about train sets. But we were a little bit more careful after that.

 

[Wildfly11]

It's not quite a fetish or closeted out story - just an "almost got caught" story.

When I was a teen, my buddies had found their dad's porn stash so we'd look at the magazine/catalogs, get horned up, and jack each other off. Both their parents worked so during the summer months, it was a frequent occurrence.

We did lots of summery stuff - baseball, football, fishing, hiking, and then we'd get bored, go back to their house and out came the porn.

One time I went back to their house and it was just one buddy and me. It would've probably led there shortly, but we were just laying on their beds, looking at the ceiling and talking.

Not sure if the dad got done early or what, but unbeknownst to use, he came home and snuck upstairs (maybe he suspected?) and surprised us. Thankfully we were just talking about train sets. But we were a little bit more careful after that.

That would have been a bid suprise if you weren't just talking lol

 

[daytr1pper]

That would have been a bid suprise if you weren't just talking lol

Their dad would've kicked my ass, if not killed me (no joke)

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Oh man, where should I start when I caught “borrowing“ playboys from the family I was babysitting for? Or, perhaps more importantly, caught fucking like cousin? On the other hand, I think, probably the most scandalous, one of all, and one which causes problems for me to this day would be when my past I’ll be a brief as a porn actor, was discovered by my students who were projecting films. I was in at parties.. :ˆ/

In all honesty, it didn’t bother me that much, but it bothers the hell out of my girlfriend, and still does…

 

[CurtGiles46]

One year, when I came home for the holidays during college, one afternoon when my parents weren’t home, I went into my parents basement and found a box of my sister’s old clothes. I had gotten heavily into crossdressing fantasies and stories online so this situation was too good to resist.

I immediately took off all my clothes and started putting on items of my sister’s old clothes. My favorite was a gorgeous red bra. I played with my nipples first and then put on the bra. I also found a pair of white pantyhose and put them on.

I began masturbating fantasizing that I was a girl being fucked by a man.

Suddenly, I heard footsteps on the basement ceiling. Shit, my dad had gotten home early. My crossdressing fun had to end. I would invent an excuse for him of why I was in the basement and hope my facial expression didn’t give away my actual motives. Luckily, he looked distracted when I walked up the basement stairs and nothing more was mentioned of it.

 

[haventdonethat]

Wife sort of alluded to me sucking my own cock when we were in a group setting with friends.
The talk was already raunchy and loud so she was able to babel on about some other thing.

 

[Tayloroc]

One year, when I came home for the holidays during college, one afternoon when my parents weren’t home, I went into my parents basement and found a box of my sister’s old clothes. I had gotten heavily into crossdressing fantasies and stories online so this situation was too good to resist.

I immediately took off all my clothes and started putting on items of my sister’s old clothes. My favorite was a gorgeous red bra. I played with my nipples first and then put on the bra. I also found a pair of white pantyhose and put them on.

I began masturbating fantasizing that I was a girl being fucked by a man.

Suddenly, I heard footsteps on the basement ceiling. Shit, my dad had gotten home early. My crossdressing fun had to end. I would invent an excuse for him of why I was in the basement and hope my facial expression didn’t give away my actual motives. Luckily, he looked distracted when I walked up the basement stairs and nothing more was mentioned of it.

Mmmm. I’d love to find a box of clothes like that!

 

[Richelieujuniour]

I will never forget being invited to a party by some of my students and seeing porn I was in projected on the wall.

I wasn't just caught-- the secret was OUT! :-/

 

[BiDrew42]

Back in the early 80's, I was a frequent visitor to an Adult Bookstore in North Miami Beach. I went there specifically to suck as many cocks as possible through the gloryholes in the video booths. Everyone knew it was a hangout for anonymous gay sex. There was a parking lot in the back, which is where I usually parked, but when it was busy, I had to park in front. One Saturday night, the back lot was full so I parked in front. The road out front was a major artery from the mainland onto North Miami Beach. At the time, I drove a pretty recognizable car, but I was usually too horny to worry about it. After a really good evening sucking numerous anonymous cocks and getting my ass plowed through the gloryholes, I went home full of cum and feeling very content. Monday morning when I went to work, one of my coworkers was waiting outside as I pulled in to the car park. I parked and said hello as I walked up to him and after some chit-chat, he told me he had seen my car at the bookstore. At first I thought of saying it wasn't my car, but everyone knew my shiny red convertible. I mumbled something about stopping in to rent some porn videos and he gave me a knowing smile and we never talked about it again. I know he told at least one of my other coworkers because she asked me about it one day. At the time, I was still deep in the closet, so it was embarrassing. But it didn't stop me from spending as much time as possible at my favorite ABS - I was just more careful.

 

[CuckedbyBBC]

Wife sort of alluded to me sucking my own cock when we were in a group setting with friends.
The talk was already raunchy and loud so she was able to babel on about some other thing.

The best part about this one is that ur able to blow urself! What do they say about that…that u basically have no reason to even leave your house!

 

[Tayloroc]

Lol! Good point!

 

[haventdonethat]

The best part about this one is that ur able to blow urself! What do they say about that…that u basically have no reason to even leave your house!

My regret about the sucking yourself thing was that I never shared the experience with anybody. Too scared of the public reaction at that time. By the time I found someone I was comfortable with sharing, it was too late and I could no longer do it.
If it was now, there would be no hesitation at all . . . "look at me, look at me!!!!"i

 

[CuckedbyBBC]

My regret about the sucking yourself thing was that I never shared the experience with anybody. Too scared of the public reaction at that time. By the time I found someone I was comfortable with sharing, it was too late and I could no longer do it.
If it was now, there would be no hesitation at all . . . "look at me, look at me!!!!"i

Isn’t that always the case! If only the then-you was as confident you would be a huge hit at a party!!

 

[GikiceGikice69]

At a pre wedding party back in the nineties,it was the ultimate dangerous liaison

 

[SurferBoy9044]

When I was a teenager my Dad had remarried and bought a new house and on one of our weekend visitation visits I was left alone while they went shopping. I was snooping around in their bedroom and looking for the playboy magazines that my dad always keep beside his side of the bed. I found the latest copy and opened the fold out I was so turned on I drop my pants and and put the centerfold picture on the bed and started jerking off. I was just about ready to come when my new stepmother stepped into the bedroom said "what the hell are you doing". I didn't have a chance to pull up my pants before she came over and took me by the hand and pulled me over to the sink in their bathroom. She lay open the center fold and said if your going to jack off then do it over the sink and wash up after you have come. She then left but to this day I think she watched me jerk off. Years later a couple of months before my dad died I visited him in the hospital

 

[BiDrew42]

My best friend and I were lovers all through high school and for several months after we graduated. During the summer after our junior year, his family went out of town for a week and he and I had his house to ourselves. It was an amazing week of what seemed like non-stop sex. A couple of days before his family was due to come home, we were in the basement and I was bent over the pool table while he pounded my asshole from behind. Just as he started to cum his female cousin walked in. It was a rather intense scene with lots of shouting and threats from her about outing us. She and I had been together a few times with lots of groping but the farthest we had progressed was her giving me a couple of handjobs and me fingering her. We got her settled down and I ended up fucking her for the first time later that day, and the next day we had a threesome. Over the next year, we had several threesomes and she and I fucked on a regular basis.

 

[CuckedbyBBC]

When I was a teenager my Dad had remarried and bought a new house and on one of our weekend visitation visits I was left alone while they went shopping. I was snooping around in their bedroom and looking for the playboy magazines that my dad always keep beside his side of the bed. I found the latest copy and opened the fold out I was so turned on I drop my pants and and put the centerfold picture on the bed and started jerking off. I was just about ready to come when my new stepmother stepped into the bedroom said "what the hell are you doing". I didn't have a chance to pull up my pants before she came over and took me by the hand and pulled me over to the sink in their bathroom. She lay open the center fold and said if your going to jack off then do it over the sink and wash up after you have come. She then left but to this day I think she watched me jerk off. Years later a couple of months before my dad died I visited him in the hospital

It seems like there’s more to this story…

 

[CurtGiles46]

Wife sort of alluded to me sucking my own cock when we were in a group setting with friends.
The talk was already raunchy and loud so she was able to babel on about some other thing.

It’s interesting to me how your wife’s comment is interpreted by others. A wife saying the husband sucks his own dick feels aggressive and emasculating. She’s sharing your personal sexual behavior with others without asking for your permission to share it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

So this person already knows but it could have easily been someone who didn’t. My wife like to take pictures or video clips of me in submissive sex acts with her. One day she sent me one of those pictures from her iPad. Then she erases the text. Her friend was over for dinner and they were waiting for me to get there. My wife had he4 phone on the table and asked her friend to text me from my wife’s phone for me to pick up French bread on my way home. Well if you have a iPhone and a iPad on the same Apple ID your sent text show up on both devices but if you erase the text it only erases the text on the device you erase it from not the other device. My wife had texted and erased from her iPad but the text was still on her phone. So when her friend opened my wife’s iPhone and texted me there was the video. In the video My wive is pegging me missionary, now you can’t see anything except me from the belly button up. So her friend just sees me in nipple clamp, but it’s the audio that embarrassed. And how I found out was in the middle of dinner the friend looks at me and says how do you like those nipple clamps, I like them I have the same ones.

 

[vibes]

I guess the juicy bit stayed in your pc @SurferBoy9044

 

[badonkadoku]

Monday morning when I went to work, one of my coworkers was waiting outside as I pulled in to the car park. I parked and said hello as I walked up to him and after some chit-chat, he told me he had seen my car at the bookstore.

Did you explore why your co-worker was "near" the bookstore to see you, in the first place?

 

[CuckGuy89]

Gf saw the pornhub searches and hotwife and cuck videos that I watched. She acted like it was no big deal and now we both watch

 

[BiDrew42]

Did you explore why your co-worker was "near" the bookstore to see you, in the first place?

No, we never discussed it again. And I wasn't interested in him sexually.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I was caught with my joy of very young men.
My ex wore women's clothes and I knew it back to pre-engagement. Something was changing and in hindsight I realize with the world being more accepting, he wanted to stop relying on prothstetic breasts and grow natural ones.
I only knew that our sex life changed.

I met a guy here who was 22 yrs younger than me. Everything opposite of my ex. Hairy, beard, taller, bigger and girthier, uncut cock.
We had a 4 month or so affair.

He had sent me a text on Saturday and it asked something like are you free.
Hubby saw it. I wrote it off as a vendor and responded, thanks for getting back to me. Let's talk Monday during business hours.
Hubby was suspicious, but OK.

Sunday morning, I told my boy toy not to text me until he hears from me.

He responded shortly after.
It just happened my husband was in my car, backing it out of the garage to get something off a shelf over it.

He was the text come through on the vehicle and read it

It said. Ok babe. Let me know when you can talk. I worry about you when I can't reach you. xoxo

Oops! Vendors don't call me babe or sign messages with hugs and kisses.