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sweettalk4u

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Many men and women are stressed out over their sexual thoughts and fantasies about people of the same sex. They have many questions concerning their physical and mental state of mind. They want to know if they should act on it and if so how.
I believe that if you are experiencing bisexual thoughts you ARE bisexual.
Don’t dance around it, own it! Enjoy it! Don’t think of it as a problem. You are one of the lucky ones!
Now if you have come to grips with this, what’s next? Discuss here or pm me if you’d rather Or email me at dcstory70@aol.com
 
I think, you are correct

I know after being curious for some time I tried sex with a man I knew I had to do it again. I have other men tell me the same. There were a couple of guys who told me they decided they were gay.

I had come out to my wife before my first experience. She was very accepting and together we worked out how to accommodate my bisexuality in our marriage. My only regret was that I did not do it earlier.
 
I knew my choices of sex and desires for sex, unfortunately started young. Though it began with m/m first with a female present..subsequently, my sexual experiences from there on were with him. then one yr at school that all changed....the girls had changed over the summer...
I never EVER had any "Sexuality" struggles, never ever believed the, notion, narratives pushed by "Special interest". Personally I think that has ruined the experiences one or more can have.

If someone is confused...that's all because of the pressures by media, Special interest forcing doctrine, and 912 different categories of sexuality, for a human being that is; hold on to your buttz....two genders
 
I've explored this aspect of myself more as i've got older. It helps to address it, whether though fantasies, or conversation, it's a part of yourself that needs some form of healthy release...

I also find it just makes for a great means of self discovery, we're all so much more nuanced and complicated than we ever think, it can be scary, but also very exciting :)
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
I've explored this aspect of myself more as i've got older. It helps to address it, whether though fantasies, or conversation, it's a part of yourself that needs some form of healthy release...

I also find it just makes for a great means of self discovery, we're all so much more nuanced and complicated than we ever think, it can be scary, but also very exciting :)
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I can very much identify with this post. Just recently I have become almost obsessed with having some sort of sexual encounter with another guy, and to be honest, I can't wait to do so.
 
Wageslave said:
I can very much identify with this post. Just recently I have become almost obsessed with having some sort of sexual encounter with another guy, and to be honest, I can't wait to do so.
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same here, now it's more difficult than ever, i realise how much i need it. it's something that's going to happen, that NEEDS to happen...!
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
It's interesting, how all this has helped clear things for me, it's not just a curiosity or a desire, it's something deeper. Like it'll make me more complete in some way...
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It's a very strong curiosity for me, but I feel that I have to scratch the itch. I like looking at cocks I love cum shots and I like seeing men in women's underwear as well as wearing it myself when I can.
Some sort of sexual encounter with a guy would add the final element to this picture
 
Wageslave said:
It's a very strong curiosity for me, but I feel that I have to scratch the itch. I like looking at cocks I love cum shots and I like seeing men in women's underwear as well as wearing it myself when I can.
Some sort of sexual encounter with a guy would add the final element to this picture
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I've been pegged, felt intense anal pleasure. i've always been a little submissive, so the idea of sucking, or being penetrated, serving someone else, being told what to do by them, kind of makes my brain go dizzy....
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
I've been pegged, felt intense anal pleasure. i've always been a little submissive, so the idea of sucking, or being penetrated, serving someone else, being told what to do by them, kind of makes my brain go dizzy....
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I have those pleasures to cum - hopefully
 
When I see a thread like this I always wonder what is bi? Obviously sex with a man. What about sex with a transgender woman? Bi or not bi?
 
Escierto said:
When I see a thread like this I always wonder what is bi? Obviously sex with a man. What about sex with a transgender woman? Bi or not bi?
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can't speak for others, but im attracted to women men and trans, personally.
 
Escierto said:
When I see a thread like this I always wonder what is bi? Obviously sex with a man. What about sex with a transgender woman? Bi or not bi?
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As far as I'm concerned, if you're interested in having a long term committed emotional and sexual relationship with any sex or gender, then you're bisexual. If you'd only like to give or get sexual pleasure from them then you just like pleasure so you're most likely a hedonist. If you pretend to want an emotional relationship with someone just to get pleasure, then you're just an asshole.
 
sweettalk4u said:
Many men and women are stressed out over their sexual thoughts and fantasies about people of the same sex. They have many questions concerning their physical and mental state of mind. They want to know if they should act on it and if so how.
I believe that if you are experiencing bisexual thoughts you ARE bisexual.
Don’t dance around it, own it! Enjoy it! Don’t think of it as a problem. You are one of the lucky ones!
Now if you have come to grips with this, what’s next? Discuss here or pm me if you’d rather Or email me at dcstory70@aol.com
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this has been on my mind for years. A ton of thoughts and a taste when I was younger.
 
Traveler99921 said:
I know after being curious for some time I tried sex with a man I knew I had to do it again. I have other men tell me the same. There were a couple of guys who told me they decided they were gay.

I had come out to my wife before my first experience. She was very accepting and together we worked out how to accommodate my bisexuality in our marriage. My only regret was that I did not do it earlier.
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mandylovesolder said:
This is a rather simplistic view. Long before pressures from media and such there was discrimination which has been a theme for the GBLT community for centuries. That's important to not forget.
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Good point Mandy. We all have our special stories about how we came to understand ourselves but society plays a role whether we realize it or not
 
rncforthree said:
As far as I'm concerned, if you're interested in having a long term committed emotional and sexual relationship with any sex or gender, then you're bisexual. If you'd only like to give or get sexual pleasure from them then you just like pleasure so you're most likely a hedonist. If you pretend to want an emotional relationship with someone just to get pleasure, then you're just an asshole.
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I can’t argue with those definitions😁
 
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