1st pair of panties?

[Biskk2]

How do I go about shopping for my first pair of panties? Do I ask a salesperson for something that might fit me, then just take a few pair to the dressing room?
Do salespeople at erotic shops mind helping to fit a pair? Should I be taken by an expert to watch me slip some on over my cute balls and penis? North County San Diego.

 

[ThePhun1]

Cautious

How do I go about shopping for my first pair of panties? Do I ask a salesperson for something that might fit me, then just take a few pair to the dressing room?
Do salespeople at erotic shops mind helping to fit a pair? Should I be taken by an expert to watch me slip some on over my cute balls and penis? North County San Diego.

The sales people have seen a great deal certainly you can ask for assistance you might want to wear a pair of tidy whites in case there are restrictions on trying on merchandise if embarrassment excites you pick the moat embarrassing sales person to ask about the rules and sizing information
Have fun and enjoy your excursion

 

[Sigmund7]

When I began wearing panties, many years ago, I would trade with my wife. Then we took to sharing so, by the time I was looking for my own, I pretty much knew what sizes worked.

Do you have a friend who might help you in this discovery?

 

[cookiecat]

I'm gonna rain on the parade here. I'm these covid times, I doubt anyone is going to fit you. I doubt you can even try much on.

And, since you're probably already aware things are pretty easy to buy online, the element of being seen in semi public seems like part of this transaction.

It sounds like the you are interested in exhibitionism, judging from thr penis and ball description.

More power to you if you can find the salesperson of your dreams. However, as educated, sex positive and open as many of those working folks are, assisting you into a pair of panties might be going a mile too far.

Don't put your fantasy or desire onto a store worker who probably makes $15 an hour. Instead, seek out a pro domme who could assist you with this kind of experience. If, as someone else suggested, you have a partner or friend who could help, all the better.

 

[wildwest76]

About a year ago I decided to buy myself panties and while I wanted to do it in person, I decided online would be best. I went to Soma's website and a link came up asking if I would like to chat or leave a message for a sales rep at a nearby store and I clicked on it.
I left a message saying I wanted to buy panties for myself (a guy) but wasn't sure about sizing. I gave my waist measurement, pants size, etc. and figured I wouldn't hear from anyone. I was wrong.
A few hours later I had a message saying I would probably wear an XL and to please let her know if she could help with styles. I couldn't pass that up and asked if she would be kind enough to pull some different styles for me and I would come to the store to pick them up. She agreed and the next day I went to the store, thinking she'd have everything bagged and ready to go. Instead, when I got to the counter she held each pair up, asking if I liked them and explaining how different styles would fit.
It was arousing and a bit humiliating at the same time, just perfect! I gave her a nice tip and went on my way.
I've been back twice, each time emailing the young lady first with my requests. I have not been over there in the last several months because of Covid, but I highly recommend trying this.

 

[Ginlover]

Don't put your fantasy or desire onto a store worker who probably makes $15 an hour. Instead, seek out a pro domme who could assist you with this kind of experience. If, as someone else suggested, you have a partner or friend who could help, all the better.

This ^^^^^

Please never forget BDSM is about consent first and foremost. I'd go as far as to say enthusiastic consent is necessary. A shop worker needs to tell you they consent to being part of your kink or it abuse to just embarrass them asking to be fitted

 

[cookiecat]

About a year ago I decided to buy myself panties and while I wanted to do it in person, I decided online would be best. I went to Soma's website and a link came up asking if I would like to chat or leave a message for a sales rep at a nearby store and I clicked on it.
I left a message saying I wanted to buy panties for myself (a guy) but wasn't sure about sizing. I gave my waist measurement, pants size, etc. and figured I wouldn't hear from anyone. I was wrong.
A few hours later I had a message saying I would probably wear an XL and to please let her know if she could help with styles. I couldn't pass that up and asked if she would be kind enough to pull some different styles for me and I would come to the store to pick them up. She agreed and the next day I went to the store, thinking she'd have everything bagged and ready to go. Instead, when I got to the counter she held each pair up, asking if I liked them and explaining how different styles would fit.
It was arousing and a bit humiliating at the same time, just perfect! I gave her a nice tip and went on my way.
I've been back twice, each time emailing the young lady first with my requests. I have not been over there in the last several months because of Covid, but I highly recommend trying this.

This sounds like a nice way to go about it, online first. That way, the sales associate knows when you'll be in the store.

I bet stores have seen it all! It's great you allowed her to decide if she could be of assistance. Glad to hear it worked out.

 

[ThePhun1]

How do I go about shopping for my first pair of panties? Do I ask a salesperson for something that might fit me, then just take a few pair to the dressing room?
Do salespeople at erotic shops mind helping to fit a pair? Should I be taken by an expert to watch me slip some on over my cute balls and penis? North County San Diego.

You should be able to ask for suggestions about size I doubt a clerk will go into the dressing room with you

 

[Biskk2]

Great replies. I need to find a dom in northern San Diego county who can help me.
I certainly don’t want to upset or offend, that is why I asked.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

You may get even more replies over in the fetish forum.
In any event, all the best.

 

[writerzblok92]

Great replies. I need to find a dom in northern San Diego county who can help me.
I certainly don’t want to upset or offend, that is why I asked.

I've been buying mine online for a few years now. There are also some good online size conversion charts that can help you with sizing.

I don't think you'll upset or offend anyone but it's always better to be safe than sorry.

 

[SissySalina]

You might try going to Amazon and look on line. You can check the sizes there for the panties and find what might work for you first. Then you could go to a store and pick something out.
Just a sissy idea.

 

[Deleted member 1405174]

You might try going to Amazon and look on line. You can check the sizes there for the panties and find what might work for you first. Then you could go to a store and pick something out.
Just a sissy idea.

I buy my bras and teddies on Amazon. A lot to choose from.

 

[lowcollar]

I did it on ebay.