Modesty

[Lodichuck1]

Wondering why most women are highly embarassed to be seen in their underwear but think nothing about going to the beach in a bikini

 

[littlecordelera]

Because it is not appropriate for me to be seen in public in my underwear.

 

[FGB]

As soon as you realize females are crackers the better off you will be.

They run on emotion filled logic and men run on logic filled emotion...or is it the other way around?

The same woman might go to a nude beach and think nothing of it, while you take Advil for your headache trying to figure them out. If they decode to let you in on it.

Each on are as they are and there are a whole bunch of crazy combinations out there and they change without notice and it's alright because THEY do it.

If it's not just killing you enjoy the ride.

 

[SissySalina]

Panties are selected for yourself or special other where a bikini is selicted mainly to make you look good in public.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

Panties are selected for yourself or special other where a bikini is selicted mainly to make you look good in public.

While not wrong, it begs the question of why the (essentially) same garment is or isn’t suitable for public wear. (And, I would mention, in certain locations in public. One wears a bikini on a beach, but would be deeply embarrassed to be caught wearing one in, say, a supermarket.)

I think it comes down to common agreement. Using another example, why is gold valuable? OK, it has some useful physical and chemical properties, but nowhere near what would make everybody crave it. Gold is valuable almost entirely, IMHO, because everybody agrees that it is. And diamonds aren’t a girl’s best friend because they’re useful industrially. From those, panties aren’t acceptable in public mainly because that’s the opinion of the muddled hasses.

 

[uncle easy]

Huh!!!

I think we are living in a time when there is no such thing as modesty. My sons wife works in a post office in a large city and she said that a woman came in one day in bra and panties. She tried to get to her phone and make a vid but was not able to.

 

[FL30]

Wondering why most women are highly embarassed to be seen in their underwear but think nothing about going to the beach in a bikini

It's called conditional training.

Such as what you are taught while you're growing up.

Same as what you're taught as to what to eat and tastes good. Two kids brought up on the same street but with different backgrounds will invariably like different foods and have different likes/dislikes.

 

[jehoram]

Because it is not appropriate for me to be seen in public in my underwear.

And bikinis are not likely to be transparent when wet, whereas most underwear is.

 

[trevorness]

In the park near my home I have noticed young women sunbathing in bras, playing tennis with just a sports bra for a top. Maybe this conditioning is changing.

 

[Islander55]

At 62, I can see significant changes from my youth to now. I still wear a one piece bathing suit but that is because my body does not present well in a bikini. I think a sports bra is not really consider an undergarment these days and many women would not worry about being seen in a regular bra. I am a bit of an exhibitionist so do not mind being seen inappropriately attired as long as it is not offensive or liable to get me arrested. As one gentleman above mentioned, women are individuals and we are entitled to our various perspectives.