Lesbian in male body...is that a thing?

You can be anything you want, just be nice. I'm not sure I quite get you thinking that taking anal from another man is the closest thing to a lesbian experience that you could get. I would think that giving a woman you cared about oral would be much closer. But, to answer your question... if you're a lesbian in a man's body, then be okay with it. I don't think that you'll convince another lesbian of that though.

Hi everyone, so I've got a question: I'm male, identify as straight (Im sexually attracted to women) but my biggest fantasy is to have F-F sex as a woman. The closest I've got was receiving in a MM scene with an understanding friend. Didn't really do it for me (I'm not into men) and I know enough biology to realise that anal won't feel the same to a woman as PIV, but hey it's the closest I could get. I'm happy with my sex (so not trans) and the only label I properly identify with is as al lesbian in a male body. Is that a 'thing'?
 
You can be anything you want, just be nice. I'm not sure I quite get you thinking that taking anal from another man is the closest thing to a lesbian experience that you could get. I would think that giving a woman you cared about oral would be much closer. But, to answer your question... if you're a lesbian in a man's body, then be okay with it. I don't think that you'll convince another lesbian of that though.
Love that response. When I referred to anal it was in order to experience sex from a woman's pov. I do love oral too
 
Love that response. When I referred to anal it was in order to experience sex from a woman's pov. I do love oral too

Ok well here is what you can do. Shave your body hair. All of it. Wax your balls and pubic area smooth. Put on a bralette, thong, leggings and a top and go to a gay bar. Find a guy that looks good to you and tell him you want to get fucked. Take him home, lube up your ass and wrap your legs around his back while he fucks you silly. Let him suck your nipples, pinch them and cum deep in your ass. Then you will know what it is like to be a woman.
 
Ok well here is what you can do. Shave your body hair. All of it. Wax your balls and pubic area smooth. Put on a bralette, thong, leggings and a top and go to a gay bar. Find a guy that looks good to you and tell him you want to get fucked. Take him home, lube up your ass and wrap your legs around his back while he fucks you silly. Let him suck your nipples, pinch them and cum deep in your ass. Then you will know what it is like to be a woman.
This is awesome!!! Nailed it! :D
 
Hi everyone, so I've got a question: I'm male, identify as straight (Im sexually attracted to women) but my biggest fantasy is to have F-F sex as a woman. The closest I've got was receiving in a MM scene with an understanding friend. Didn't really do it for me (I'm not into men) and I know enough biology to realise that anal won't feel the same to a woman as PIV, but hey it's the closest I could get. I'm happy with my sex (so not trans) and the only label I properly identify with is as al lesbian in a male body. Is that a 'thing'?

very simple

go have a sex change operation and then you'll know what's it's like to have sex as a woman
 
Other than being penetrated, I don't know that I could consider receiving anal sex to be sex from a womans point of view, unless you were on your back and had your legs in the air. I think that facing the wall with a dick in you is not the best way to think a woman feels when she's having sex. Especially if you're wanting to feel like a lesbian. Speaking from zero experience, I don't think that's what lesbians look for in a sexual relationship.
I'm obviously not a woman but knowing the women that I have known, they seemed to enjoy eye contact, passion, attention, and feeling both wanted and cherished. Or, at least, that's what I hoped to make them feel when we had sex. Me personally, the closest to feminine that I ever feel when having sex with my wife is me on top and once I'm inside her, I pull my legs up under me and on the outside of hers and ride her. I still get all of the eye contact, still pleasurable to both of us, no possible feelings of being violated. Occasionally I'll raise up and let her do the thrusting which is very intense for the both of us. I'm positive that the only reason this makes me feel "feminine" is because typically, it's the male laying there with the woman on top. It feels pretty great though.
After thinking about it. The best chance you have to feel like a lesbian is to have sex with another woman using a strap on. You get to do all the work with zero actual physical pleasure other than the skin contact. Your pleasure has to come from knowing how you're making your partner feel.



Love that response. When I referred to anal it was in order to experience sex from a woman's pov. I do love oral too
 
Ok well here is what you can do. Shave your body hair. All of it. Wax your balls and pubic area smooth. Put on a bralette, thong, leggings and a top and go to a gay bar. Find a guy that looks good to you and tell him you want to get fucked. Take him home, lube up your ass and wrap your legs around his back while he fucks you silly. Let him suck your nipples, pinch them and cum deep in your ass. Then you will know what it is like to be a woman.
Fuck, that sounds like a great time to me!
 
After thinking about it. The best chance you have to feel like a lesbian is to have sex with another woman using a strap on. You get to do all the work with zero actual physical pleasure other than the skin contact. Your pleasure has to come from knowing how you're making your partner feel.

I don’t think a man can ever really know what it’s like but you get some idea from being penetrated by a cock. Taking her cock inside me and helping her cum and then feeling her ejaculation as she inseminates me, I feel a little female with my transgender girlfriend. Afterwards I feel especially loving and romantic knowing her cum is inside me. Fucking is a much more intimate act for the one being penetrated, at least it feels that way for me. For my partner, she’s happy to cum lol.
 
Why do people always jump to the conclusion that lesbian sex is all about penetration, as though sex can't happen without a phallus? This such a male-centric view.

To the OP - it doesn't need a name, it's just imagination and there ain't nothing wrong with that :) Plenty of women wonder what having a dick must be like too but seldom suffer penis-envy, except when you need to take a pee against a tree :D
 
Some lesbian women that do not wish to enter into relationships with trans women, especially if the trans woman has a penis, are being made to feel as though they are bigots by some within the LGBT community. This issue is known as the "cotton ceiling".
 
Ok well here is what you can do. Shave your body hair. All of it. Wax your balls and pubic area smooth. Put on a bralette, thong, leggings and a top and go to a gay bar. Find a guy that looks good to you and tell him you want to get fucked. Take him home, lube up your ass and wrap your legs around his back while he fucks you silly. Let him suck your nipples, pinch them and cum deep in your ass. Then you will know what it is like to be a woman.

I think I'd like that :devil:
 
Why do people always jump to the conclusion that lesbian sex is all about penetration, as though sex can't happen without a phallus? This such a male-centric view.

I'm thinking the others completely missed the gist of this thread. By like a few miles.
 
First off, I just want to say how much I love Lit and the people on Lit. Where else can we have this kind of open discussion about our sexuality. I just want to say to the person who originally started this thread that I do feel like her.
Although I do enjoy attention from admiring males, I really long for is some sort of interaction, chat, exchange of views with a female. I guess what do desire is to have a female friend and possibly lover to talk with, share thoughts, feelings, and possibly erotic moments with. I have posted in the personals section only to have my thread sidetracked with some political correctness in wording used. My meaning and message was lost and I never found the person I wanted to. I’m still hopeful that I will find such a friend some day.
Just my two cents worth.

Kate

Good luck, Kate.
I hope you find the person you are looking for.😀
 
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