🧔In Daddy's Lap 👑

[Wild_Honey_66]

I noticed there were several older 'Daddy fetish' threads, but there wasn't an active one, so I started one up! I hope you'll join me here for deep discussion, chewing the fat, and more.

Here are links to the other threads on the same topic, if you care to have a read:

Daddy Fetish?
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=761456&highlight=Daddy+fetish
Daddy Fetish
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=788002&highlight=Daddy+fetish
Daddy Breeding Fetish
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=993783&highlight=Daddy+fetish
Daddy Fetish
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1088251&highlight=Daddy+fetish
Daddy Fetish (New)
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=956090&highlight=Daddy+fetish

And the thread that started it all for me:
Daddy's Little Girl
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1481549

**For the purposes of this thread, 'Daddy,' 'little girl,' etc., are terms of endearment referring to a partner or lover, not an actual blood relative. Incest is a separate fetish, sometimes combined with a Daddy/little girl fetish. However, that's not what we're talking about here.

Welcome!

 

[apSolitary1965]

Amazing posts. Thank you.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Oh, yayyy! I look forward to checking out those links in depth.

When I first arrived, there was a thread about the thrill of calling your SO Daddy. I wish I could find it again.

Cheers, Honey bunch!

 

[JK1979]

I’ll just hit the subscribe button here.....

 

[VivianVixen]

Yes!!
I love my Daddy and it turns me on so much to say that!!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I already adore this thread!!!!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Oh, yayyy! I look forward to checking out those links in depth.

When I first arrived, there was a thread about the thrill of calling your SO Daddy. I wish I could find it again.

Cheers, Honey bunch!

Hi, you!!

That sounds like a great thread! Maybe someone else will have it bookmarked or have a link to it.

I think I'm going to start reading through the older threads and sharing the good stuff here.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Amazing posts. Thank you.

I’ll just hit the subscribe button here.....

Yes!!
I love my Daddy and it turns me on so much to say that!!

I already adore this thread!!!!

Hi everybody!

Welcome to the thread!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

So my good friend bfg shared this thread with me:

What Is The Appeal Of A Daddy?
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1067570&highlight=Daddy

I'm reading through it right now. This statement from DeepGreenEyes really caught my eye:

One advantage of Daddy-Domdem is it's a big personality tent. It has plenty of room for one to be kind, supportive and understanding - and simultaneously be a demanding, aggressive and sadistic fuck.

It's a nice space that way.

I love what he says about it being a 'big personality tent,' and I think we can extend that to apply to kinks within 'Daddy'-driven relationships as well. Some examples might be:

1. Titles - not all Daddies are called Daddy. For some, using the term Daddy is a crucial part of why they do this, not so for others. At the end of the day, what makes them all Daddies isn't what they're called, but how they behave.

2. Bedroom only, or lifestyle? Ah, the eternal debate. Which approach is more valid, which approach is right?. The answer, of course, is that they're both valid. Whether your partner is a good girl because she put her panties in her mouth like you told her to, or because she had that difficult conversation with her mother-in-law, if you are providing her with warmth, encouragement and praise for a job well done, you are operating within Daddy territory.

3. To ageplay, or not to ageplay? Here's another possible characteristic that people tend to get worked up about. Does your little girl go into 'little space' in addition to sub space? If so, does she age regress, or does she only feel a greater sense of vulnerability?

As you can see, the possibilities are endless! The common link between all Daddy-led relationships is that tender, nurturing, guidance from Daddy, and the deeply trusting responsiveness from his girl.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on the matter! Have you ever had or been a Daddy? What did that look like for you? How was it different than other relationships? Were your expectations different going in? How was it a rewarding experience?

I'm excited to see what everyone has to say!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Really interesting points brought up by Deep Green. I guess for me, the appeal to being a daddy is really helping her find out who she really is; to be comfortable in her own skin. Mentoring, teaching, guiding, encouraging. And of course, disciplining.
I love exposing her to new things, Encouraging & pushing her, being the one she trust; keeper of her dark secrets. She needs me in a way that I have never been needed before, and I think it suits me. I feel like I am good at it. I don’t claim to be an expert, but it just seems to suit me. And I’m all honesty, I have never been loved more deeply.

 

[JK1979]

I’m excited to see other people’s thoughts and experiences with this. It seems like any time I’ve found myself in the position of ‘Daddy’ we just kind of found our way there by accident. And pretty much ‘bedroom only’ with a mix of tenderness, punishment and control.

That being said, I’m a supportive, protective guy so there has always been that aspect to any relationship.

 

[kc_sweetNsour]

One of my favorite role play topics

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Really interesting points brought up by Deep Green. I guess for me, the appeal to being a daddy is really helping her find out who she really is; to be comfortable in her own skin. Mentoring, teaching, guiding, encouraging. And of course, disciplining.
I love exposing her to new things, Encouraging & pushing her, being the one she trust; keeper of her dark secrets. She needs me in a way that I have never been needed before, and I think it suits me. I feel like I am good at it. I don’t claim to be an expert, but it just seems to suit me. And I’m all honesty, I have never been loved more deeply.

I think this is a wonderful description. I'm so glad you're happy.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I’m excited to see other people’s thoughts and experiences with this. It seems like any time I’ve found myself in the position of ‘Daddy’ we just kind of found our way there by accident. And pretty much ‘bedroom only’ with a mix of tenderness, punishment and control.

That being said, I’m a supportive, protective guy so there has always been that aspect to any relationship.

I think it's nice when it happens as a natural extension of who you already are. I wonder how many others have come to this accidentally?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

One of my favorite role play topics

Hello! Welcome to the thread!

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Thanks Wild Honey for starting a new thread to discuss, share, learn, engage on this issue that is so often misunderstood - even by those who identify as being within the dynamic. Be it a large tent or a spectrum of possibilities, there is so much that fits within this dynamic it is hard to really give it definition. For me there are different aspects that I find comfort in, that draw me to such a relationship - but they also change over time. But I think the consistent ideas are:

Trust
Mentorship/Guidance
Transformation/Growth
Giving/Caring for

The foundation to such a dynamic though, what distinguishes it from other kinds of D/s relationships, is that it is driven by the sub/bg/little. As a Daddy, it is always about what I can give to her, how I can help her - sometimes just verbal support, sometimes guidance, sometimes commands, sometimes punishment - but it is always about what she needs. Giving to her is the thrill, turns me on - and particularly when she likes to thank me!

My own personal experiences have always been with much younger women, but I don't think that is an essential component. It adds a different dynamic to the relationship.

Ultimately, it is a huge responsibility and not just a roleplay - though I certainly appreciate that some prefer just that.

It's all about finding where on the spectrum you fit and of course finding the perfect match!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Thanks Wild Honey for starting a new thread...

Ultimately, it is a huge responsibility and not just a roleplay - though I certainly appreciate that some prefer just that.

It's all about finding where on the spectrum you fit and of course finding the perfect match!

Agreed! And it's good to see you!

You're welcome, of course.

 

[JK1979]

Interested in hearing from women who have had successful Daddy relationships. What was one of the things they always got right?

(Always wanting to be a better daddy)

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Interested in hearing from women who have had successful Daddy relationships. What was one of the things they always got right?

(Always wanting to be a better daddy)

Hi!

Knowing how to correct me and offer advice without being heavy-handed about it is important to me.

I guess, since this is the fetish board, I should say that letting me lick his butt is good, too.

 

[JK1979]

Hi!

Knowing how to correct me and offer advice without being heavy-handed about it is important to me.

I guess that’s true. I don’t want to be constantly correcting and punishing, though that can be fun.

Also:

I guess, since this is the fetish board, I should say that letting me lick his butt is good, too.

Mmm. Aren’t you a delight.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I guess that’s true. I don’t want to be constantly correcting and punishing, though that can be fun.

Also:




Mmm. Aren’t you a delight.

I mean correction more in the sense of teaching. It has to be something that comes naturally to them, otherwise it's going to feel like work. And I don't really do punishment, I tend to be too hard on myself already.

I am a delight! I'm a pleaser and I'm fairly open-minded in the bedroom.

 

[JK1979]

I mean correction more in the sense of teaching. It has to be something that comes naturally to them, otherwise it's going to feel like work. And I don't really do punishment, I tend to be too hard on myself already.

I am a delight! I'm a pleaser and I'm fairly open-minded in the bedroom.

Ah makes sense. I do like to teach.


And I like that you can see that in yourself.

 

[DarkPleasures]

My boyfriend is my Daddy Dom and I his babygirl. (Among other titles since we're switches.) It's not an "incest role play" or incest fetish thing. Glad to see a thread that's finally not about incest!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

My boyfriend is my Daddy Dom and I his babygirl. (Among other titles since we're switches.) It's not an "incest role play" or incest fetish thing. Glad to see a thread that's finally not about incest!

Right? There's so much confusion over that, it's frustrating.

That's exactly what I look for in man. You put it so well

He did, didn't he?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Good morning everyone! How's your Monday coming along?

Below are a few comments from one of the threads listed in the OP that I found relatable. What do you think?

I have a Daddy fetish. For me, it is not about an incest fantasy, or wanting an older man. I actually prefer men my age or younger. It is about the attitude they possess, and how they carry themselves.

A lot of women share this with you.

There are many Daddy/pyl relationships. Most of the pyl's are mature (read as experienced) women who have observed a man being a daddy to her children, or the children of others, and learned to appreciate Daddy qualities in a man.

I love being called daddy.. I'm dominant by nature, to me it isn't about the incest aspect or anything like that, it's that I am in control and providing her what she needs

There is a distinct line between Daddy/daughter and Daddy/little girl.

Dad/dau is incest play. Some crave it, some find it repugnant. It takes all kinds.

Daddy/little girl is not incest. In my experience, it appeals to mature (read that as "experienced") women who have learned to appreciate Daddy qualities in a man. She has observed a man be a Daddy to her children, or the children of other women and sees the value of a strong, wise and protective man. This kind of Daddy would see incest as a violation of his basic responsibilities.

Being a "daddy" was something that never interested me because of my perception that there was an incestuous connotation and the fact that i was attracted to women closer to my own age. However, after speaking to a number of women in here who are interested in finding a "daddy" I am rethinking and wondering if the definition is not what I thought. So I was asking, to you is it more a term of respect and looking for someone who will offer comfort, guidance and confidence? More of a mature role model than actually a Father?

Well I'm probably the wrong girl to ask because my Daddy stuff is different than most. Its not incestious at all. But I like older demanding Daddys who can make me be a good girl, obey their instructions. But I think most girls into Daddys want the comfort and gudance.

I have always had the urge to find a "Daddy" but more in the sense of someone who protects, nurtures. To me the fantasy has nothing to do with incest but only to do with the love/respect of the person who is giving me the experience...