Litiquette VII

My ability to provide high quality sex to my partner is:

  • I am without a doubt the highest quality sex partner there is. I will make you cum and I will cum, a

    Votes: 54 25.2%
  • I have more kinks than most, nothing inappropriate but you’ll be shocked at what I like

    Votes: 107 50.0%
  • I’m good. I get the job done, not much flair but there’ll be no need for masturbation after

    Votes: 46 21.5%
  • I mostly provide sex as a service. I’ve never really enjoyed it so I won’t seek it out, but when ask

    Votes: 1 0.5%
  • I’m as vanilla as it gets. I hope you have a great imagination, you’ll likely need it to keep things

    Votes: 6 2.8%

  • Total voters
    214
I took my then-husband’s last name when we got married. I kept it when we got divorced because (1) it’s my kiddo’s last name and that whole tribalism thing and (2) it’s a huge pain in the ass to change your name. I told my significant other that if I should ever change my stance on marriage and so it again, I still would not change my last name.

We should all just have one name like Prince, Cher, Madonna, Satan.
 
That's incredible privilege if you think about it. The fact that I can trace my ancestors back 8 generations is more than most of my friends could claim. Some are the grandchildren of enslaved, others were intentionally bred out by government agencies, others refugees and then there's those in foster care. I guess I never thought about this before but wow... I got some reflection to do here.

I'm not sure what you're referring to as privilege? But I've always found it fascinating how within one hereditary line you can find slaves, abolitionists, business owners, farm laborers and all manner of other folks.
 
I'm not sure what you're referring to as privilege? But I've always found it fascinating how within one hereditary line you can find slaves, abolitionists, business owners, farm laborers and all manner of other folks.

Oh, just that we can. That's all. It doesn't occur to me until yesterday that some people don't have that luxury. I feel incredibly lucky to be able to know what I know about my family. And you're right, it's fascinating stuff!

I was just musing aloud about a blind spot I held. I can be a self centered oaf sometimes. That's why I love these discussions. It forces me to remember there are millions of lives and experiences out there just as valid as mine.
 
I’d like to see a new trend started. When a couple gets married, instead of keeping their own last names or assuming the last name of their partner, I think couples should take a brand new last name. It would become the most anticipated part of the wedding ceremony, the officiant says “it is my honor to introduce, for the first time, Mr & Mrs.............”

It’s counterculture right now but would you do it? Or are you to mainstream to consider it?

The women in my family have quite a longstanding tradition of keeping our birth names (a.k.a. maiden name). This simple act causes quite enough consternation for some outsiders, so I don't think the general public is ready for this new trend of choosing an entirely new last name.
 
A late in the day question of great importance:

Nuts in your brownies/cookies/banana bread?
Or
Do nuts have no business being located inside of a baked good?
 
A late in the day question of great importance:

Nuts in your brownies/cookies/banana bread?
Or
Do nuts have no business being located inside of a baked good?


Yep. I'm cool with nuts in brownies, cookies, and banana bread, just as long as they're not peanuts. I've had cookies with peanuts in them before and wasn't a big fan of the experience.
 
The women in my family have quite a longstanding tradition of keeping our birth names (a.k.a. maiden name). This simple act causes quite enough consternation for some outsiders, so I don't think the general public is ready for this new trend of choosing an entirely new last name.

Does this trend come with a pair of Birkenstock’s? :D
 
A late in the day question of great importance:

Nuts in your brownies/cookies/banana bread?
Or
Do nuts have no business being located inside of a baked good?

Bring them on. I'm a bigger fan of them in banana bread than brownies though.

I'm not exactly discerning though...*looks down at his tummy sheepishly* :rolleyes:
 
A late in the day question of great importance:

Nuts in your brownies/cookies/banana bread?
Or
Do nuts have no business being located inside of a baked good?

Not a fan of nuts in food (Besides peanut butter and Hersheys)

Banana bread is okay with nuts. But I don't add it if I am making it.
 
A late in the day question of great importance:

Nuts in your brownies/cookies/banana bread?
Or
Do nuts have no business being located inside of a baked good?

Walnuts in anything baked that adds bananas. Wouldn't turn them away in brownies or cookies, but not likely to add them when I bake myself. This is indeed an important question!
 
Did you mean penis butter? ;)


I love all kinds of nuts - big nuts, small nuts, salty or no...you get the idea.

But not in my baked goods.

See? I don’t get this!

Why not?!

I tried a new recipe today for banana nut chocolate chip muffins and holy hell... the nuts were optional. I opted in.

Also... Suz... small nuts? I’m calling bullshit :cool:
 
Nuts are awesome. Yes to everything -- brownies, cookies, my daily breakfast smoothie has raw almonds.
 
*guilty of running for the shelter of her Mother’s Little Helper*
 
*guilty of rollin down the street smokin indo, sippin on gin and juice*
 
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