Sexting while at work?

[ShaneoD]

This might seem like an odd question, but I have a few female friends who like to do this, knowing full well I can't do anything back, maybe the odd picture of a bulge, that's about it. I guess I'm asking why do they do it?

I work night so generally they're in work when I get some alone time, and occasionally one will ask to see the results. Is it a control thing, are women into denial or is it a being wanted thing?

 

[jaF0]

This might seem like an odd opinion, but why not WORK while you're at work? If something comes to your phone while you're at work that isn't work, ignore it.

 

[Spinner69]

Its the tease. I have a friend at work that loves to tease me knowing full well neither of us would do anything about it.

 

[PEAKER44]

I’d be happy to do it ANY time. My wife couldn’t be anymore uptight. Funny thing is we just had this discussion. She wouldn’t send a picture if her life depended on it. Slightly off topic but damn dude be thankful you get them.

 

[Creamcupcake]

It's absolutely the teasing. In my opinion, it's right there with edging.

 

[ShaneoD]

It's absolutely the teasing. In my opinion, it's right there with edging.

That's definitely true for some, I know one girl who like to see pics of various stages of arousal at various times, you'd think you could get back to what you were doing then you'd get a spicy text or pic, or voice notes, those voice notes

 

[ShaneoD]

I’d be happy to do it ANY time. My wife couldn’t be anymore uptight. Funny thing is we just had this discussion. She wouldn’t send a picture if her life depended on it. Slightly off topic but damn dude be thankful you get them.

I was very late to it myself it was a girl who initiated it, she took great pride knowing she was the first person to get me to send a dick pic.

 

[Crapshoot1999]

I was very late to it myself it was a girl who initiated it, she took great pride knowing she was the first person to get me to send a dick pic.

Same. Felt guilty for 1 minute lol

 

[Jaytwopoint0]

It is all about the tease. I have a few friends who love to do that to me while I’m at work. They know I’ll be imagining them all day

 

[PEAKER44]

I was very late to it myself it was a girl who initiated it, she took great pride knowing she was the first person to get me to send a dick pic.

I would gladly welcome the sext while at work... how tough is it to go to the bathroom and reciprocate???

 

[ShaneoD]

I would gladly welcome the sext while at work... how tough is it to go to the bathroom and reciprocate???

I was thinking more about the mood you're in for the rest of the shift, and hiding the evidence when you come back from the bathroom. At best there's a lot of stopping and starting.

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

Not the same thing, but just as much fun

I had an ex-gf who I used to send explicit emails during work, and she'd respond right back. More than once I had to go take some "private" time! ;-)

 

[Crownvic]

Its the tease. I have a friend at work that loves to tease me knowing full well neither of us would do anything about it.

The tease and hope for the please....:

 

[Funnbrandy]

Teasing

This might seem like an odd question, but I have a few female friends who like to do this, knowing full well I can't do anything back, maybe the odd picture of a bulge, that's about it. I guess I'm asking why do they do it?

I work night so generally they're in work when I get some alone time, and occasionally one will ask to see the results. Is it a control thing, are women into denial or is it a being wanted thing?

Well when I do it with my boyfriend its with full intentions of getting him excited to be with me that night....sex with lots of anticipation is always the best in my opinion.....and to be honest if hes busy then literotica has gotten me excited and built the anticipation to be with him.

 

[IsItBad]

all for it

its been a while since i had any good sexting partners but i have had many over the years.....

it was always especially fun at work.....in a few cases even a coworker....who might be sitting right across the table in a conference or meeting.....sending texts.....about her throbbing clit.....or such......

ive had many a girl who sent me pics of her panties or her boobs or told me how horny she was or how she had just gotten herself off at her desk etc.....

i miss it and always enjoyed it alot

 

[HoneyBrunette]

I agree... it's the tease... and a little bit of ego inflation for me that I got a reaction out of him (just through sexting).

 

[maxlow999]

I have had a few over the past few years. One girl would send me detailed fantasies/roleplay ideas that she was into.. Sometimes she would also send pictures of her dressed up ready to play.

 

[ShaneoD]

I have had a few over the past few years. One girl would send me detailed fantasies/roleplay ideas that she was into.. Sometimes she would also send pictures of her dressed up ready to play.

But what do you do when you get to that rigidly hard point where your face is warm and you really don't care about work anymore....... I may have overshared

 

[Clem99]

My wife had a guy she was sexting with briefly. They were at work exchanging some hot texts; my wife went to the bathroom and took a tit pic to send to him. That got him hot so he had to go to the bathroom and sent her a dick pic and had to jerk off.

I loved seeing the texts after.

 

[ShaneoD]

My wife had a guy she was sexting with briefly. They were at work exchanging some hot texts; my wife went to the bathroom and took a tit pic to send to him. That got him hot so he had to go to the bathroom and sent her a dick pic and had to jerk off.

I loved seeing the texts after.

I've only been in that state once, you know when you absolutely have to, that feeling where you're so erect that your throbbing, I had my phone set to vibrate and she kept texting which didn't help, and I made the mistake of telling her so she took advantage of it.

 

[mikendel]

I have found sexting a coworker or boss after work hours makes the sexual tension higher during work hours. Coming into the office the next day and exchanging smiles with my sexting partner from the day before. Maybe wearing an outfit the sexted that they love seeing me wear. It has led to many sexual great times.

 

[ShaneoD]

I have found sexting a coworker or boss after work hours makes the sexual tension higher during work hours. Coming into the office the next day and exchanging smiles with my sexting partner from the day before. Maybe wearing an outfit the sexted that they love seeing me wear. It has led to many sexual great times.

That's just unadulterated power right there. You're in complete control, you probably know his next move before he does.

 

[Nikkikps]

Sexting at work is fun, more exciting if you are sexting with a coworker. It opens up so many possibilities of fun and games and can make work more interesting. Yes it presents its own risks but are we scared of taking risks? Not me!

 

[ShaneoD]

Sexting at work is fun, more exciting if you are sexting with a coworker. It opens up so many possibilities of fun and games and can make work more interesting. Yes it presents its own risks but are we scared of taking risks? Not me!

The deck is definitely stacked in your favour, women tend to be smarter, more subtle, it's a little less physically obvious when you're arouses, why am I kidding myself, you're completely in control.

 

[maxlow999]

But what do you do when you get to that rigidly hard point where your face is warm and you really don't care about work anymore....... I may have overshared

I am self-employed so from time to time I have been known to take care of the deed with my own hands. Regardless tho, it really gets both of us excited. We look forward to repeating performances.