The Slap

[SEVERUSMAX]

I would be curious to see if anyone else would picture themselves breaking up with a girl or guy just for slapping them. I would, but I don't know who else would or could envision it. To me, slapping is abuse unless part of a consensual BDSM type scenario. The classic "slap to the face" is one of a number of cliche, usually female behaviors that society seems to accept that I find unacceptable. Like burning your clothes, maxing out your cards, locking you out of your bedroom, kicking you out of a house that you jointly own or rent, throwing out your possessions, draining the bank account, putting you on the sofa, etc. Stuff that people seem to find normal or funny.

Anyway, it would be interesting to see those things have consequences, such as a breakup. I'm already thinking of one story where a guy gets kicked out of his own house and deals out some very harsh revenge for that. Not violent, but litigious and perhaps a bit more than that. It's funny how women get away with harsh retribution, but men are condemned for the same thing. But that's neither here nor there.

I would like to see stories where the man just fucking ends it with the crazy psycho bitch in a way that lets her know that some guys don't put up with that crap. It would be interesting to see the comments on that one. What do you think?

 

[Carnevil9]

Someone with passions deep enough to slap you could also be someone with passions deep enough to rock your world. As they said in my favorite movie, The Vikings (1958): "Love? Hate? Two horns on the same goat."

 

[bettiezyx]

Friend of mine left her boyfriend after he slapped her one night. They were both drunk. It wasn't sexy, & her ear still stung the next day not to mention the bruising. It was abuse. If she had excused that, he would have progressed to worse.

 

[astuffedshirt_perv]

People are strange and complex creatures that react in varying ways. But it sounds like what you are looking for is a BTB (Burn The Bitch) type of story, which is fairly common in the cesspool of the Loving Wives sections. However, I don't think a slap is ever the genesis of such a breakup, it is usually cheating.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

People are strange and complex creatures that react in varying ways. But it sounds like what you are looking for is a BTB (Burn The Bitch) type of story, which is fairly common in the cesspool of the Loving Wives sections. However, I don't think a slap is ever the genesis of such a breakup, it is usually cheating.

That's just the thing. I'm not interested in writing a response to cheating in this story, let alone a BTB story or a RAAC. This is just a flat-out breakup story. The idea of someone just refusing to put up with that kind of abuse, saying "no more," and dropping the slap-happy girlfriend like a bad habit.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Not exactly what you are seeking, and I think I've shared this scenario before, but:

Couple have a fight over some politically charged issue. She yells, he yells, she slaps him. Stunned, the guy just stares at her and kicks her out. She goes running to her best friend weeping. The best friend goes to the bf's to try and convince him not to breakup. They start arguing over the same issue, she gets mad and tosses something heavy at him.

Now he is pissed. he grabs her in one swoop, picking her up and placing her over his lap. Before she can even register what is going on he has pulled her skirt up and her panties down and is spanking her. She yells. He spanks harder. After a number of spanks he dumps her onto the ground. She lays there panting as he now stands over her. She doesn't bother pulling her panties back up or pulling her skirt down. He also notices that she is dripping wet...

 

[bettiezyx]

Slapping scene from Parks & Rec:
https://youtu.be/fbZCwEozxp8?t=32

 

[lovecraft68]

I would be curious to see if anyone else would picture themselves breaking up with a girl or guy just for slapping them. I would, but I don't know who else would or could envision it. To me, slapping is abuse unless part of a consensual BDSM type scenario. The classic "slap to the face" is one of a number of cliche, usually female behaviors that society seems to accept that I find unacceptable. Like burning your clothes, maxing out your cards, locking you out of your bedroom, kicking you out of a house that you jointly own or rent, throwing out your possessions, draining the bank account, putting you on the sofa, etc. Stuff that people seem to find normal or funny.

Anyway, it would be interesting to see those things have consequences, such as a breakup. I'm already thinking of one story where a guy gets kicked out of his own house and deals out some very harsh revenge for that. Not violent, but litigious and perhaps a bit more than that. It's funny how women get away with harsh retribution, but men are condemned for the same thing. But that's neither here nor there.

I would like to see stories where the man just fucking ends it with the crazy psycho bitch in a way that lets her know that some guys don't put up with that crap. It would be interesting to see the comments on that one. What do you think?

I know those horrible women!
Too bad there wasn't that much outrage about domestic abuse and rape...instead we get thread after thread of whiny men playing victims and demonizing women.

Ever occur to you that there are POS men out there that did something to deserve all those things you listed? Nah, of course not, Men do no wrong, women need to shut up and take their shit.

While you're at it why not complete the image and start crying about mothers usually getting custody of the kids and the unfairness of paying child support?

You should join one of those Incel groups, you'd fit right in.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I know those horrible women!
Too bad there wasn't that much outrage about domestic abuse and rape...instead we get thread after thread of whiny men playing victims and demonizing women.

Ever occur to you that there are POS men out there that did something to deserve all those things you listed? Nah, of course not, Men do no wrong, women need to shut up and take their shit.

While you're at it why not complete the image and start crying about mothers usually getting custody of the kids and the unfairness of paying child support?

You should join one of those Incel groups, you'd fit right in.

Dude, I'm well-aware of the abuse that women take. That is rightfully discussed ad nauseum, but again rightfully so.

Doesn't justify slapping, kicking out of shared property such as houses or bedrooms, destruction of property, or draining accounts. Which is sadly condoned in our society and is just as evil as the other.

You can talk and chew bubble gum at once. You can also disapprove of the abuse of men and still disapprove of the abuse of women. The two aren't mutually exclusive. Part of equality is accepting that BOTH sexes can do wrong, not just one or the other. You seem to think that women can do no wrong. I think that both sexes can do wrong, and slapping is one of the wrongs that women get away with, just as they often literally get away with murder.

 

[bettiezyx]

Redefining masculinity

Seems like it's time to start reconsidering what exactly is "masculine". Saw an article on that in GQ recently:
https://www.gq.com/story/pharrell-new-masculinity-cover-interview

 

[Threeeightnine]

I absolutely would break up with someone on the spot if they hit or slapped me. No relationship is worth putting up with any kind of abuse. I admit, as a guy, I have been reluctant to seek a relationship for fear of winding up with someone who thinks its ok to treat me that way or smash my things.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I absolutely would break up with someone on the spot if they hit or slapped me. No relationship is worth putting up with any kind of abuse. I admit, as a guy, I have been reluctant to seek a relationship for fear of winding up with someone who thinks its ok to treat me that way or smash my things.

And sadly, our culture has a double standard favoring women in that respect, just as it does on the issue of female-on-male rape.

 

[lovecraft68]

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I don't blame everything on women. I know that there is plenty of blame for both sides to share. And no form of physical violence is justified except in self-defense or something of that sort. Ever. No exceptions. No justification for theft and destruction of property. Either women are adults and as such responsible for their own actions, facing the same exact consequences as men, or else they are a dependent set, immature like children. You can't have it both ways. Equal rights mean equal obligations.

Whereas you blame everything on men and women are plaster saints who can do no wrong. I gotcha.

 

[Enchantment_of_Nyx]

I don't blame everything on women. I know that there is plenty of blame for both sides to share. And no form of physical violence is justified except in self-defense or something of that sort. Ever. No exceptions. No justification for theft and destruction of property. Either women are adults and as such responsible for their own actions, facing the same exact consequences as men, or else they are a dependent set, immature like children. You can't have it both ways. Equal rights mean equal obligations.

Whereas you blame everything on men and women are plaster saints who can do no wrong. I gotcha.

You're not self-aware enough to realize how obvious your actual attitudes are. You can paper over it with statements about being fair to all, but all your animus is directed in one direction. All the actual feeling in what you've written here is in the parts where you express your feelings of masculine victimization. Then you add, "both sides," like a fig leaf. It's not just this thread, either. It's consistent. You present a consistent victim mentality. Then, when someone calls you on it, you get pissy.

Nobody has suggested women shouldn't face legal consequences for illegal behavior. That's a counterargument to a point nobody is making. The reason you keep hitting it is because it's your only justification for the rest of what you're saying.

I don't know and don't care what your problem with women is or why you feel threatened or victimized by them, but if you're going to trot that stuff out, at least own it for what it is. It's transparent. You want to write stories to punish imaginary women because you feel victimized? Knock yourself out. But don't expect everyone to buy your BS when you pretend that's not what it is.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Always amused when people on my ignore list respond to my posts and expect me to read their replies.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Fascinating. Most, sensible people took my idea at face value and looked at facets or twists on it. That would be Carnevil, Lost Yonder, folks like that. Others, however, just have to question why I would have such an imagination. Maybe because I think outside of the box? Could that be it? I don't like to clip my wings. I like to explore what Q called "the uncharted frontiers of possibility."

Evidently, that bothers some folks. Tough shit. I don't give a fuck.

As Tywin Lannister said, "The lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of sheep."

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Not exactly what you are seeking, and I think I've shared this scenario before, but:

Couple have a fight over some politically charged issue. She yells, he yells, she slaps him. Stunned, the guy just stares at her and kicks her out. She goes running to her best friend weeping. The best friend goes to the bf's to try and convince him not to breakup. They start arguing over the same issue, she gets mad and tosses something heavy at him.

Now he is pissed. he grabs her in one swoop, picking her up and placing her over his lap. Before she can even register what is going on he has pulled her skirt up and her panties down and is spanking her. She yells. He spanks harder. After a number of spanks he dumps her onto the ground. She lays there panting as he now stands over her. She doesn't bother pulling her panties back up or pulling her skirt down. He also notices that she is dripping wet...

Thanks for actually discussing matters germane to the topic instead of venturing into amateur Freud territory. If I wanted psychoanalysis, I would go to a shrink. LOL. You were good enough to discuss the topic and keep to Story Ideas. Some folks must think that this is the GB or AH or whatever.

That is an intriguing twist on my plot bunny to be sure.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Someone with passions deep enough to slap you could also be someone with passions deep enough to rock your world. As they said in my favorite movie, The Vikings (1958): "Love? Hate? Two horns on the same goat."

That, at least, is an unorthodox answer and viewpoint. And I do recall that film. I even own it at home.

 

[lovecraft68]

Fascinating. Most, sensible people took my idea at face value and looked at facets or twists on it. That would be Carnevil, Lost Yonder, folks like that. Others, however, just have to question why I would have such an imagination. Maybe because I think outside of the box? Could that be it? I don't like to clip my wings. I like to explore what Q called "the uncharted frontiers of possibility."

Evidently, that bothers some folks. Tough shit. I don't give a fuck.

As Tywin Lannister said, "The lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of sheep."

You and your sickening agenda and Bullshit...and your last post?

Tywin Lannister was a disgusting piece of crap. Fitting you quote him, and also fitting you quote a show which was nothing short of a rape fest filled with the degradation and abuse of women at every turn

Which is exactly what you like. Pushing an incel manifesto about 'abusive women' and pushing it off as a story idea. You even got what you wanted in a sorry excuse for a person claiming "I'm afraid of women."

What bothers folks is your claims of being a Dom when all you are is an abusive incel with a deep ceded hatred of women that you try to play off as story ideas.

You are the reason BDSM has a bad name. The classic 'cyber dom' looking for that one woman naive enough to let you hurt her.

You're a poster boy for sexism and the incel movemnet.

Want analysis? Get better at trying to mask your intents because they're transparent to anyone smarter than your target audience. Which means pretty much everyone.

"Men" like you are why I bought my daughters guns and why I teach women's self defense classes.

I know what you are, I've seen your shit for years. On a forum with any consideration for its female members you'd be banned.

There's a lot of people who feel this way about you over the years, most ignore you, but the expression they're not worth it was created by the people who aren't worth figuring no one will waste time with them.

I know your kind you all reek of the same arrogance you use to mask your cold male insecurity.

Keep thinking your fooling people and thinking you're funny.

Because trust me, no one else does.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

So he continues his completely ungermane replies despite being on ignore. Fascinating. I have neither the time nor the energy to waste on his sorry ilk.

 

[SimonDoom]

Fascinating. Most, sensible people took my idea at face value and looked at facets or twists on it. That would be Carnevil, Lost Yonder, folks like that. Others, however, just have to question why I would have such an imagination.

I think the reason is this sentence in your original post:

"It's funny how women get away with harsh retribution, but men are condemned for the same thing."


This is a perception, and it may happen sometimes, but it is not the norm.

The reality is that men get away with much more than women. The statistics bear this out, over and over and over. Men beat women, and many of those men get off scot-free. Far fewer women beat men, and perhaps some get off, but the total number is far less than the number of women beaters who roam the streets free and clear.

There is a perception among some that the divorce laws in the US, for example, favor women. What the statistics show is that the average man after divorce is much better off financially than the average woman. That's not to deny a particular person's experience that is different. Some men are screwed in divorce. But on average, women are screwed more than men.

So when you make a generalization like that, it makes people wonder why you make it and what are the assumptions that underlie you making it. I'm not going to speculate and judge because I have no idea. I'm just saying, that's why some people react to your original post.

To answer your question:

Yes, I would break up with a girlfriend that slapped me. I have never physically abused any woman, have never been physically abused by any woman, and I would not for one second tolerate that behavior against me. I would know immediately that this person is not the right person for me.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

I think the reason is this sentence in your original post:

"It's funny how women get away with harsh retribution, but men are condemned for the same thing."


This is a perception, and it may happen sometimes, but it is not the norm.

The reality is that men get away with much more than women. The statistics bear this out, over and over and over. Men beat women, and many of those men get off scot-free. Far fewer women beat men, and perhaps some get off, but the total number is far less than the number of women beaters who roam the streets free and clear.

There is a perception among some that the divorce laws in the US, for example, favor women. What the statistics show is that the average man after divorce is much better off financially than the average woman. That's not to deny a particular person's experience that is different. Some men are screwed in divorce. But on average, women are screwed more than men.

So when you make a generalization like that, it makes people wonder why you make it and what are the assumptions that underlie you making it. I'm not going to speculate and judge because I have no idea. I'm just saying, that's why some people react to your original post.

To answer your question:

Yes, I would break up with a girlfriend that slapped me. I have never physically abused any woman, have never been physically abused by any woman, and I would not for one second tolerate that behavior against me. I would know immediately that this person is not the right person for me.

Okay, so now you're presenting things from an articulate, well-reasoned point of view. I would have to research to confirm that, but at least you're presenting things more or less lucidly without any accusation, while at the same time speculating plausibly as to why the accusations were made.

I can appreciate a counterpunch that is based upon data and reality, rather than simple denunciation. That's much easier to stomach. Now, perhaps, cooler heads can prevail.

 

[lovecraft68]

Okay, so now you're presenting things from an articulate, well-reasoned point of view. I would have to research to confirm that, but at least you're presenting things more or less lucidly without any accusation, while at the same time speculating plausibly as to why the accusations were made.

I can appreciate a counterpunch that is based upon data and reality, rather than simple denunciation. That's much easier to stomach. Now, perhaps, cooler heads can prevail.

Simon doesn't know you that well. He's also a fairly polite individual, and goes out of his way to frame his posts in a well spoken manner.

I know that you don't deserve that. I know that all your little ideas really are is poorly masked hate threads because this act has been going on a long time.

Unlike you I don't mask anything. There is no reasoning with you, your response to Simon is pandering and an attempt to make you look like you're something you're not...human. Because nothing will change your malice toward women.

I don't buy taking the high road, being the better person, 'they're not worth it' or any other axiom stressing tolerance of shitty behavior. Where I come from hate is hate and its to be met with the same, I'll go as low as the person on the other side.

You're not worth decency, courtesy or anything resembling respect.

In other words I feel the same way towards you that you do about women.

 

[davion2308]

Maybe there's something

I'd try this:

Girl is going nuts on a guy and she is hitting him repeatedly. He finally grabs her arm and pins her down and holds her. She goes nuts but something is triggered because she's always been the one in charge. Now she's held down, she gets turned on, and ... ?

Take it any direction you want: S&M, Control, Forced, whatever. That could be fun.

Slapping, though? Slapping or hitting immediately ends a relationship for me. I'd read that in a story and probably pass on the rest of it.