What are you attracted to in a same sex partner ?

[Hitchiker69]

I look for a guy who's clean, fit and pleasant company. Not overly aggressive or forceful.

I like smaller cute feminine guys who are well groomed, too. Love to fuck them. I'm OK with larger guys, but no fatties.

I'm versatile, I'll let a guy fuck me if he wants to, and he's not forcing himself on me. I love to submit to a larger guy, and let him take me any way he wants to. The desire has to be mutual.



I rarely do a 'blow and go'...I usually spend the night, but that's all. Never had a repeat, or a long term relationship.

So as long as he's clean I'm ready to play.

And I prefer cut cocks.

 

[Iwant2be]

I also like nice young feminine guys that enjoy hanging out with me and would do anything to make me happy. He would have to like doing mutual stroking and oral and him getting fucked too

 

[Taster2]

A man in charge.

A masculine guy my my size or taller, Im 6,1. Confident and assertive. Not afraid to ask for what he wants...needs.

 

[PariahKing]

For me it depends on my mood. Sometimes I want something relaxed, sometimes I want something hard and aggressive. The attraction always has to be mutual for me. For some reason most of my encounters have been with black power bottoms who have at least above average cocks and sexy bubble butts. When I was a younger I had some friends with benefits relationships that started off experimenting with mutual oral and jacking off, but definitely led to more.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

I really have not found anything attractive about them except for the fact that they like it when i suck their cocks. I have only experienced older men, i would like to find a guy mid 20’s early 30’s to suck off once.

 

[muycurioso]

no offense to anyone

I look for a guy who's clean, fit and pleasant company. Not overly aggressive or forceful.

I like smaller cute feminine guys who are well groomed, too. Love to fuck them. I'm OK with larger guys, but no fatties.

I'm versatile, I'll let a guy fuck me if he wants to, and he's not forcing himself on me. I love to submit to a larger guy, and let him take me any way he wants to. The desire has to be mutual.



I rarely do a 'blow and go'...I usually spend the night, but that's all. Never had a repeat, or a long term relationship.

So as long as he's clean I'm ready to play.

And I prefer cut cocks.

but I love that fatties line

 

[muycurioso]

I'd want

a good looking guy in shape, like me, with a great attitude and a cock like mine, a Lil bit above avg

 

[muycurioso]

is it because

I really have not found anything attractive about them except for the fact that they like it when i suck their cocks. I have only experienced older men, i would like to find a guy mid 20’s early 30’s to suck off once.

staying power and more cum?

 

[supercollider00]

For me it's always been more about character in a way. It has to be someone that has authority in the way they are, that makes me want to submit to them and abuse me. That has generally been people older than me as well to be honest but not necessarily.

 

[stickygirl]

Someone who

• I don't have to explain everything to
• has clothes we can swap
• has unlimited AA batteries
• can ensure clothes stay the right colour after washing
• is tall enough to allow simultaneous licking
• won't question tears after orgasm

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

For me

I find intelligence, education, and being able to articulate his thoughts as powerful aphrodisiacs. Someone who I can identify as a friend outside the bedroom.

Physically, someone with similar height and weight.

Sexually, a man that can be subtly dominant, but also aware when I need to fully express and embrace my gay feelings.

 

[Traveler99921]

I find intelligence, education, and being able to articulate his thoughts as powerful aphrodisiacs. Someone who I can identify as a friend outside the bedroom.

Physically, someone with similar height and weight.

Sexually, a man that can be subtly dominant, but also aware when I need to fully express and embrace my gay feelings.

I agree with this plus I would like to add a few things.

A cock a bit larger than mine

He wants to have a mind blowing orgasm and is willing to give me the time to make sure he has such an orgasm.

 

[2wayroad]

A confident alpha man who is physically larger than me. One who calmly and confidently takes the lead and sometimes pushes me beyond my comfort zone. He never asks, just does.

I have met too many guys who either have no experience or have been ruined by todays society to believe that they must ask before anything is done. If you just go for it, I may go along with it. If you ask and my rationale kicks in, I may think better of it, or it just ruins the mood.

I like a guy who can get hard and stay hard. I don’t mind sucking a semi if he’s good sized, but it takes a rock hard cock to go any further with me. And I like a nice load of cum as my reward. The bigger the load the better. I like it when the load is so big that I wonder when it will stop or if I can take it all!

 

[Samsacks]

I like beefy, linebacker-type guys (think Michael Cudlitz and Will Sasso), country boys, blue collar. Prefer 40 and up, with some meat on them. Cut cocks. I don't much care about size. I've had from 2" to 10." 4-7" is just fine by me.

Confidence is key. I've had a few fellow married guys that were so nervous and guilty that they weren't any fun.

 

[klippert]

his mouth, cock and ass...

 

[KentuckyDom1971]

His wife

 

[anniebaby10]

His wife

I like someone that makes me laugh first of all. not speaking for all bisexual women but it is so much nice to have sex with someone who is a friend and makes you feel better about yourself. As far as physical attributes, I prefer athletic brunettes, love C cup or bigger boobs and a neatly trimmed dark bush.

 

[Always5]

Attitude. I once had a guy tell me to suck him and made me hum while I sucked. He also let somebody open the door and watch while I knelt, sucked and hummed. It was like an out of body experience. I swallowed every drop.

 

[Swuchmann]

It’s a combination of attitude and physical. I am turned on by men who are masculine and dominate. Selfish to use me for his sole pleasure.

I am small at 5’8” 155lbs. So besides attitude, I like a top that is +6ft and 200-279 lbs with at least 6 inches.

 

[tristantrotsky]

It’s a combination of attitude and physical. I am turned on by men who are masculine and dominate. Selfish to use me for his sole pleasure.

I am small at 5’8” 155lbs. So besides attitude, I like a top that is +6ft and 200-279 lbs with at least 6 inches.

A big relentless cock...

 

[BrokenQuill]

I have to click with my potential partner, its not just the physical side of things, but I need to be able to hold a conversation and have a level of trust built between us. In addition I expect and will give mutual respect. I would rather meet up for coffee or perhaps beers for a number of times before engaging in any sexual activity to be assureed that the person I am meeting is genuine enough to be trustworthy. I dont want to end up catching and potentially passing on any STD.

 

[Excitabletom]

I agree with BrokenQuill. I want a friend. Someone I can trust and do things outside of sex. I'm closeted bi and used to have a suck buddy; I would like to find another one. I'm deeply in love with my wife, but to have a friend with similar interests who can get sexy with me when the time is right is awesome. I crave sucking a cock, not having an emotional love with. I want someone about my age and build. Average cock size and maybe a bottom. (BTW, mid 50's, located in West Michigan!)

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Someone who's decent looking, intelligent, able to have a conversation. And after that, his cock is all I'm interested in. Not kissing, not cuddling, just sucking a beautiful cock.

 

[yukonnights]

I agree with BrokenQuill. I want a friend. Someone I can trust and do things outside of sex. I'm closeted bi and used to have a suck buddy; I would like to find another one. I'm deeply in love with my wife, but to have a friend with similar interests who can get sexy with me when the time is right is awesome. I crave sucking a cock, not having an emotional love with. I want someone about my age and build. Average cock size and maybe a bottom. (BTW, mid 50's, located in West Michigan!)

I was wondering as I read the comments if anyone would be similar to me. But both 'Excitabletom' &'BrokenQuill expressed my own requirements. For me, the connection is of primary importance. It's not the size of his cock that fuels the fire, or even his/her looks that matters — it's being connected on a broader / deeper level. I could never, and will never, engage intimately with anyone — male or female — if there is no true understanding of who they are. IMO, a kiss with the right person is in itself quite wonderful.

 

[Uncut1969]

I agree with BrokenQuill. I want a friend. Someone I can trust and do things outside of sex. I'm closeted bi and used to have a suck buddy; I would like to find another one. I'm deeply in love with my wife, but to have a friend with similar interests who can get sexy with me when the time is right is awesome. I crave sucking a cock, not having an emotional love with. I want someone about my age and build. Average cock size and maybe a bottom. (BTW, mid 50's, located in West Michigan!)

Sounds like exactly what I want!