Intercourse is sex.

[Jada59]

A woman just said that to me. And yes, it is. But she also went on to say that intercourse is the only thing that is sex, and if my guy doesn't do that, he's not into me. I'm not sure what she would think anal sex, oral sex, hand jobs/fingering, sex toys, etc. are.

What says you? I think anything that is done with the intent of bringing the other person to orgasm is sex.

 

[RatherAbsurdOne]

I agree . they are all sex

 

[Jada59]

I agree . they are all sex

Thanks!

 

[Bigspurt]

A woman just said that to me. And yes, it is. But she also went on to say that intercourse is the only thing that is sex, and if my guy doesn't do that, he's not into me. I'm not sure what she would think anal sex, oral sex, hand jobs/fingering, sex toys, etc. are.

What says you? I think anything that is done with the intent of bringing the other person to orgasm is sex.

All of them for sure, but there is some relativity. Remember Bill? He did not have sex with Monica, but he cummed all over her blue dress.

 

[Veeweewee]

It's like - all toads are frogs, but not all frogs are toads (sorry my science background is showing through)

IE intercourse = sex, but sex <> intercourse

Mind you, I favour intercourse as an inclusion

 

[Runbow]

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[Justfantasies]

Sex is difficult to define, but you'll know it if you see it. For example, if a naked man and woman grind together until one of them cums, this is presumably sex. After all, this is presumably sex. After all this isn't exactly what two "just friends" do.

On the other hand if a young man or young woman does this, it may be sex, but one never loses one's virginity that way. Curious.

 

[MarionsLover]

IMO fondling someone else's genitalia is sex.
But the "only intercourse is sex" argument is often used by Bible Thumpers to excuse assorted sexual activities pre-marriage.

 

[Benzboy]

Masturbation

Masturbation is having sex with someone you love. -Woody Allen

 

[FGB]

Danger Will Robinson!

Danger!

Why date someone that doesn't satisfy you?

It only gets worse as time goes on...

 

[Erosfan]

A woman just said that to me. And yes, it is. But she also went on to say that intercourse is the only thing that is sex, and if my guy doesn't do that, he's not into me. I'm not sure what she would think anal sex, oral sex, hand jobs/fingering, sex toys, etc. are.

What says you? I think anything that is done with the intent of bringing the other person to orgasm is sex.

I wholeheartedly agree with you.

 

[candysweet81]

Intercourse is sex Really! When I indulge in social intercourse at the dinner table I'm offering you nothing more than an opinion Now sexual intercourse that involves the insertion of a man's penis into a woman's vagina but plain sex, even when it's fancy, can include allsorts After all to have sex all you need is to be a boy or a girl, you don't have to do anything Bloody semantics

 

[Justfantasies]

Intercourse is sex Really! When I indulge in social intercourse at the dinner table I'm offering you nothing more than an opinion Now sexual intercourse that involves the insertion of a man's penis into a woman's vagina but plain sex, even when it's fancy, can include allsorts After all to have sex all you need is to be a boy or a girl, you don't have to do anything Bloody semantics

Yes but doing something is fun too. LOL

 

[HoldYouDown]

A woman just said that to me. And yes, it is. But she also went on to say that intercourse is the only thing that is sex, and if my guy doesn't do that, he's not into me. I'm not sure what she would think anal sex, oral sex, hand jobs/fingering, sex toys, etc. are.

What says you? I think anything that is done with the intent of bringing the other person to orgasm is sex.

I think you are spinning your hamster wheel over third party speculation when you could just talk to the man himself. She doesn't know if he's into you or not.

 

[DennisB]

So if this woman is correct that intercourse is the only thing that is sex and "intercourse" is a penis going back and forth inside a vagina. 2 men together are not having sex. 2 women together are not having sex. All the chemistry...all the emotions....all the lust is what? I wonder what she calls that?

 

[LadyJS]

What says you? I think anything that is done with the intent of bringing the other person to orgasm is sex.

This right here! This is truth!

If I'm sucking a guy off, I'm not out collecting for the Semen Donation Society, we're having sex, even if one of us is giving and the other receiving. Same as if he's eating my pussy. It's all sex. If doing it simultaneously constitutes an accurate definition of sex (and I don't believe it does), then we can 69 each other until morning.

Plus, they don't call masturbation self-love for nothing! That's sex, too, albeit with a party of one.

 

[Justfantasies]

This right here! This is truth!

If I'm sucking a guy off, I'm not out collecting for the Semen Donation Society, we're having sex, even if one of us is giving and the other receiving. Same as if he's eating my pussy. It's all sex. If doing it simultaneously constitutes an accurate definition of sex (and I don't believe it does), then we can 69 each other until morning.

Plus, they don't call masturbation self-love for nothing! That's sex, too, albeit with a party of one.

Yes it certainly -- just think of all the young people who play around and go almost all the way. Surely that is sex

 

[LupusDei]

So if this woman is correct that intercourse is the only thing that is sex and "intercourse" is a penis going back and forth inside a vagina. 2 men together are not having sex. 2 women together are not having sex. All the chemistry...all the emotions....all the lust is what? I wonder what she calls that?

Simple, she calls all that "sin". For her, likely, all those are God forbidden unnatural abominations that shouldn't even exist, or at least she willingly denies herself even a chance to comprehend it. And, no, for that mindset sex is not about lust, but *should* be exclusively for creating children. Lust is unconditionally sinful. But then, virgins are sometimes allowed to have anal sex before marriage and still count as virgins at the altar...

Well, it may not be true in the mentioned case, but that's how I understand where the very strict distinction comes from.

 

[HoldYouDown]

So if this woman is correct that intercourse is the only thing that is sex and "intercourse" is a penis going back and forth inside a vagina. 2 men together are not having sex. 2 women together are not having sex. All the chemistry...all the emotions....all the lust is what? I wonder what she calls that?

Yeah and lesbians with no penis experience are all virgins?

 

[Bigaug]

In my opinion, anytime you and a partner (or partners) get together in bed, on the couch, in the pool, the backyard, car, anywhere and cum together, that is having sex

 

[fac401]

In my not so professional opinion, I’d have to say that sex is whenever there’s some form of penetration or oral copulation. Is fingering a woman sex? Perhaps it is for a bi or lesbian couple. But sex is definitely when there’s oral, anal, or vaginal penetration. Not like a guy I knew in HS who said that if he used a condom, it wasn’t sex. Where he came up with that idea, I’ll never know.

 

[Jada59]

If those things are not sex, then my sex droughts are even longer than I've whined about.

Yes, I would agree that the intent to bring your partner to orgasm is sex.

Thanks!

 

[Jada59]

All of them for sure, but there is some relativity. Remember Bill? He did not have sex with Monica, but he cummed all over her blue dress.

True.

 

[Jada59]

Sex isn’t necessarily about orgasm though. If a woman rubs me without the intent to orgasm, does that count as sex? I think most people would agree it does.

I think the distinction is kind of meaningless. And anyone who is policing other people’s sex strikes me as someone who needs to get a different hobby.

I think so too!

 

[Jada59]

IMO fondling someone else's genitalia is sex.
But the "only intercourse is sex" argument is often used by Bible Thumpers to excuse assorted sexual activities pre-marriage.

Ahhhh... Thanks!