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HighEndOfLow
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There were a couple kinks that were huge fantasies for me, had been for years, but they've went from major turn-ons to major turn-offs, literally overnight. Has anyone experienced anything like this?
ErickTheRed
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Opposite for me. What was turning me on years ago still turn me on today. And some stuff I wasn’t into before appeal me now
Bigboobbabe
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I have several kinks now, that were turn offs before.
One serious turn off that uses to be a turn on is my husband's cross dressing.
He is considerably more excited when he is femme than not.
I am no longer the basis for his excitement, and that turns me off.
One serious turn off that uses to be a turn on is my husband's cross dressing.
He is considerably more excited when he is femme than not.
I am no longer the basis for his excitement, and that turns me off.
O geez, sorry to hear that.
I have heard that happens quite a bit when the man starts that.
What are your other kinks?
OldFred65
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I'm more like you. A lot of things are turn-ons for me now that never were before. I never even though about anything but straight, one on one sex with women until after my early 40's when my wife turned my on to home nudity, then to swinging and swapping, and then to bi sex. Then we we found out that our kids had been having sex with each other for years and that got us into incest as well. Another thing that was a turn-ff for me i the past was big women, but now I find them (and big men) as sexy as anyone else.
I think it changes. Being in a sexless marriage , there are days that I'm crazed for something but then it can go away. My sexual desires are my demon at times and would look at different porn and would be excited. I guess your not alone in how things can turn you off and on. Hope more excites you than being turned off
Carnevil9
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Same for me. I find that my turn-ons tend to increase with my age, and my turn-offs tend to decrease. Win-win!!
Just the opposite for me. Things that used to turn me on still do, even more than before and many things that were turn-offs, now excite me.
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sally_sparrow
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I think that certain kinks which used to turn me off that now excite me are because I took the time to learn more about them over judging them without any basis behind it other than "I don't think I like that". Changing my perspective has opened me to trying more than I ever thought I would.
Bigaug
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I used to like pornstar porn but now find it boring, I enjoy real amateur type porn, preferrably the hidden cam porn where the wife is caught masturbating or the real mother teaching the over 18 kids how to have sex. Really get turned on by my wife masturbating
Bigboobbabe
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Dirty chatting to you until we both cum!
.Love it..
Texastuffbbc
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I am with you on this one. Amateur homemade with real people is far more a turn on than performances.
