Hotwife hotline - ask away......

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Hi all,

In this crazy world I feel as if more and more men and women are wanting more from their lives and so are exploring the hotwife phenomenon.

I'm in my early 50's now, and have been what I now realise is a hotwife for about 20 years since we realized he was a voyeur and I loved cock more than my hubby could provide.

So...…..if you have any questions, or are contemplating taking the lunge, on either side, post your thoughts or questions, and I'll try to provide some opinion, answers r suggestions.

Let's have fun and explore together...….:devil::devil::devil:
 
If your wife is hot, you should get them to a cooler environment and make sure they get plenty of fluids. Water is the best one. Stay away from beverages with caffeine as those act as a diuretic and can exacerbate symtoms.
 
Dear Hotwife,

What's your favorite beach town to vacation at?
 
Dear Hotwife:
Has your husband ever seen you make love to another man?
Curious Colby
 
Dear Hotwife:

A full meal or just snacks at a small group banging?

Trying to be a good host.
 
Hi all,

In this crazy world I feel as if more and more men and women are wanting more from their lives and so are exploring the hotwife phenomenon.

I'm in my early 50's now, and have been what I now realise is a hotwife for about 20 years since we realized he was a voyeur and I loved cock more than my hubby could provide.

So...…..if you have any questions, or are contemplating taking the lunge, on either side, post your thoughts or questions, and I'll try to provide some opinion, answers r suggestions.

Let's have fun and explore together...….:devil::devil::devil:


Dear Hot Wife,

What do you talk about when you get together with other hot wives?

Oh, and yeah, what is your favorite beach town to vaca at? (asking for a friend :rolleyes: )

:rose: :kiss:
 
If your wife is hot, you should get them to a cooler environment and make sure they get plenty of fluids. Water is the best one. Stay away from beverages with caffeine as those act as a diuretic and can exacerbate symtoms.

I am the hot wife.

Dear Hotwife,

What's your favorite beach town to vacation at?

Seth, Gold Coast in Australia. Plenty of action there.....

Dear Hotwife:
Has your husband ever seen you make love to another man?
Curious Colby

Hi Colby, many, many times over 20 years.

How can i convince my wife to try another cock?

Guns444, she needs to want to do it and to believe that you will be cool with it. It takes a while so build up slow....

Dear Hotwife, how do I convince my hotwife to allow pictures and/or vids when I’m watching her hook up with her lover?

Hmmm.....you need to earn her trust by showing her the pics and editing them until she is ok with it. Is it her face she doesn’t want shown???

Dear Hotwife:

A full meal or just snacks at a small group banging?

Trying to be a good host.

I have eaten at many of these type of restaurants. Depends on the occasion and the hormones level, Hogjack.

Dear Hotwife,

Does your husband prefer banana or chocolate cream pie bro?

Stew

He just loves to watch.....so me playing is his thing. Not fussed about the flavours.

Dear Hot Wife,

What do you talk about when you get together with other hot wives?

Oh, and yeah, what is your favorite beach town to vaca at? (asking for a friend :rolleyes: )

:rose: :kiss:

LizVegas, you’re naughty! We talk about fashion, flirting and fucking usually.

Dear Hotwife:

What does herpes taste like?

No idea, big sly. Safe sex is good sex......
 
LizVegas, you’re naughty! We talk about fashion, flirting and fucking usually.


So far we've mostly talked about how much our husbands enjoyed it, how much we enjoyed being with each other :heart: , Tiger King, making homemade facemasks and when/where/who we might want to invite to our next party.

But, I asked this on another thread AND I'm totally serious. Just because my husband and I both participated in our first swingers/couples swap party a couple of weekends ago, does that automatically make me a hotwife or not? He never watched me with any other guys (although he certainly heard me from down the hall LOL) and I kind of get the impression that the husband watching and enjoying watching is a key part of being in the hotwife club.

Is that the definition of being a hotwife, Dee? Your husband has to be into watching?

(again, totally serious question - of course I'd love to be in the hotwife club natch, but I'm not sure I am yet based on everything you and others have told me! :( )

:rose: :kiss: :heart:
 
By definition - yes

So far we've mostly talked about how much our husbands enjoyed it, how much we enjoyed being with each other :heart: , Tiger King, making homemade facemasks and when/where/who we might want to invite to our next party.

But, I asked this on another thread AND I'm totally serious. Just because my husband and I both participated in our first swingers/couples swap party a couple of weekends ago, does that automatically make me a hotwife or not? He never watched me with any other guys (although he certainly heard me from down the hall LOL) and I kind of get the impression that the husband watching and enjoying watching is a key part of being in the hotwife club.

Is that the definition of being a hotwife, Dee? Your husband has to be into watching?

(again, totally serious question - of course I'd love to be in the hotwife club natch, but I'm not sure I am yet based on everything you and others have told me! :( )

:rose: :kiss: :heart:

HI again Liz,

My earlier response was sent while sweating my arse off on my spin bike in the home gym hubby has set up for us. This pandemic has sadly stopped me from one of my favourite things in the world to unwind - the gym!

So - simply from Googling the 'definition' of hotwife, you will find something like this: A hotwife is an attractive married woman who has sexual relationships with other men, typically with the consent of her husband.

Now, you and I knowing each other, then I say yes, we are both hotwifes.
I guess what needs to certain in your mind is this - have your present exploration sex episodes made you a 'hotwife' or were they just an experiment?

If you think, like me all those years ago, you have turned a corner you will enjoy for many years, and your hubby is fine with it too, then I would call you a hotwife, yes.
If, on the other hand, you feel the recent adventures were a on-'off, or just a taster, and you won't go there again, then no - I'd say you're not a hotwife.

Make sense?

Now........how are you coping with this virus shit????
 
Couple of questions


That's a hot pic. Couple of questions:

1) Do you segregate your real life from hotwife life, or do your normal friends and family know, is it a challenge to keep it separate?

2) Is there a criteria of men you enjoy, and how do you solicit? Do you have regular boyfriends or is it more about the quantity?
 
HI again Liz,

My earlier response was sent while sweating my arse off on my spin bike in the home gym hubby has set up for us. This pandemic has sadly stopped me from one of my favourite things in the world to unwind - the gym!

So - simply from Googling the 'definition' of hotwife, you will find something like this: A hotwife is an attractive married woman who has sexual relationships with other men, typically with the consent of her husband.

Now, you and I knowing each other, then I say yes, we are both hotwifes.
I guess what needs to certain in your mind is this - have your present exploration sex episodes made you a 'hotwife' or were they just an experiment?

If you think, like me all those years ago, you have turned a corner you will enjoy for many years, and your hubby is fine with it too, then I would call you a hotwife, yes.
If, on the other hand, you feel the recent adventures were a on-'off, or just a taster, and you won't go there again, then no - I'd say you're not a hotwife.

Make sense?

Now........how are you coping with this virus shit????

Oh we're definitely probably (lol) going to do it again. It's just a matter of when and where and I guess with who. He enjoyed the heck out of it. I enjoyed the heck out of it. We've known these other couples for several years. We're all basically in the same boat as far as keeping it discreet because of our jobs (assuming we all still have them). The only thing is, he's getting his fun on as much as I am and from what I've read about the hotwife "scene" usually the husband doesn't have quite as much fun as the wife. Hope I'm mistaken about that though! :devil:

Hot husbands? :)

Yep. That's exactly the boat I'm in.

My friends want to get with my hubby as much as I want to get with their hubby's so in a way it's a weird sexual tie.

But up until now I always counted on winning sexual ties because, well, I'm a woman!

But now, in a swing club, I'm not competing against guys, I'm competing against other women!!

THIS SUCKS!!!! lol
 
Hi Saint_Ann,

Yes - absolutely honey!!! Is yours??? Mine prefers to watch and join in when I am at the height of my arousal with lovers............taking photos and stroking his lovely cock.




Hugh_Essay - LOL....

Like most of the occasionally funny things that RobbedDownSouth posts he didn't author it, he plagiarized that for his latest dedicate trolling alt. Credit goes to Old_Journo's signature line for the name.
 
HW Dee

Lol omg no, she's the ice berg that sank the Titanic. :(:(

Oh I see!! I misunderstood at first, then? Thanks for the 'heads-up'.

That's a hot pic. Thanks - it is 20 years ago now! Still remember it perfectly.......started a whole new world for me/us.


Couple of questions:

1) Do you segregate your real life from hotwife life, or do your normal friends and family know, is it a challenge to keep it separate? - It's a challenge. Some know. Some have found out over the years. We don't mind. We try to keep it relatively private, but hey, if someone finds out we are open and honest. We don't judge others and we don't ask to be judged either.

2) Is there a criteria of men you enjoy, and how do you solicit? Do you have regular boyfriends or is it more about the quantity?

LOL - there's no formula, but a sense of humour and a respect for women is a must in my mind. I hate modern porn because the women are treated like holes, and all that spitting and stuff grosses me out. Apart from that - anything goes if the chemistry is there....

Like most of the occasionally funny things that RobbedDownSouth posts he didn't author it, he plagiarized that for his latest dedicate trolling alt. Credit goes to Old_Journo's signature line for the name.

Ooooh, do I best ignore it then???? Thanks!
 
HW Dee to Liz

Oh we're definitely probably (lol) going to do it again. It's just a matter of when and where and I guess with who. He enjoyed the heck out of it. I enjoyed the heck out of it. We've known these other couples for several years. We're all basically in the same boat as far as keeping it discreet because of our jobs (assuming we all still have them). The only thing is, he's getting his fun on as much as I am and from what I've read about the hotwife "scene" usually the husband doesn't have quite as much fun as the wife. Hope I'm mistaken about that though! :devil:

I can't speak for Steve directly of course, but he seems to absolutely love watching and then being involved. He used to say he wished he had more cock for me because just as I was getting totally hot he was starting to need to cum, and we find that with others joining us, he can step in or away as he pleases, and needs to, to make his orgasms come later. This helps me cut loose and be fucked ragged........hope that makes sense?



Yep. That's exactly the boat I'm in.

My friends want to get with my hubby as much as I want to get with their hubby's so in a way it's a weird sexual tie.

Make sure you're ok with that before you let it happen.


But up until now I always counted on winning sexual ties because, well, I'm a woman!

LOL - I hear ya, girlfriend!!

But now, in a swing club, I'm not competing against guys, I'm competing against other women!!

THIS SUCKS!!!! lol

Yes, but are you necessarily 'competing' or can it just be co-existing'?????
 
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