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I want to write something else but I can't at the moment. What makes a good non con reluctance story?
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What makes a good reluctance story?
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Speaking for myself, what makes a good reluctance story is when the reluctant person secretly wants to try / do the thing they're reluctant about, but:
- Can't admit it to themselves
- Think it's forbidden / wrong
- Is worried about what it says about them as a person
- Is afraid of being judged or mocked
When done well, I think blackmail reluctance stories can also be good, if the reluctant party has harbored a secret desire in that direction, but would never have gone through with it on their own.
In other words, I like it best when committing whatever act leads to some sort of self-revelation.
- Can't admit it to themselves
- Think it's forbidden / wrong
- Is worried about what it says about them as a person
- Is afraid of being judged or mocked
When done well, I think blackmail reluctance stories can also be good, if the reluctant party has harbored a secret desire in that direction, but would never have gone through with it on their own.
In other words, I like it best when committing whatever act leads to some sort of self-revelation.
I like it when it's a male trying to resist female(s), and the guy, try as he might, cannot. By her(or their) choices and actions, any way he tries to get away fails.
It actually kinda happened to me while I was working on my undergrad degree. I was dating a fellow student when I found out she was only 18. (I was 26 at the time, and expected a junior to be older, but she'd skipped some grades) When I told her, "Maybe we shouldn't date.", her answer was "Don't be stupid."
Then I found out she was the dean's daughter. "Maybe we shouldn't date.", and her reply of, "Don't be stupid.". Then she told me she was a virgin. "We really should not date." followed by, "Don't be stupid."
Then, she wanted me to come over on a Saturday. She was living with her father and stepmother, along with the 13 year old step-sister. Before I could ask if her father was OK with my visit, a father I had yet to meet as the guy his daughter was dating, she told me her father and stepmother were out of town for the weekend. She was due to go pick them up on Monday. I did not want to go. I was sure her father would be unhappy with some strange guy over while it was just her and her step-sister.
"Don't be stupid."
After a lengthy argument I finally drove over to visit. (Well after noon, expecting to leave shortly after.) When I got there, though, she wanted me to help prepare supper, as well as stay for that meal. I tried to argue that I really should go before that, with the predictable response, so I helped make supper and then ate with girlfriend and her step sis.
After helping clear away supper dishes and load the dishwasher, I again tried to leave, but I was told I was staying. I went through a lengthy argument again, with me insisting her father would not want me to spend the night, and her insisting just as strongly that there would be no problem from this. When I tried to leave anyway, I got out the door to head to my car, and she came out after me to yank my sweatpants down to my ankles. As I bent over to pull my pants up, she stepped on the crotch of them, and told me again that I was not leaving. Only when I told her I would come back in with her was I allowed to pull them up.
She wanted sex that night, in her own bed. The next morning, she told me I was staying for breakfast, but would be allowed to go back to my apartment after helping clear that, and that is what happened. What I did not know was that the parents had decided to come home a day early, and she told her father, when he called her from the airport to come pick them up, that I had spent the night. Her parents were furious before she could pick them up, and there was much ass-chewing I knew nothing about before I had someone beating at my front door at about 1:00 that afternoon. It was my gf, crying, telling me I had been right, and that her father was livid.
I called the dean to request an appointment, at his convenience, to come over and apologize in person. It turns out the 13 year old step-sister had told them about all the arguments, and the points I had repeatedly tried to make, and even that she'd yanked my pants down when I tried to leave. The dean wasn't angry at me at all, in fact he offered me a glass of wine and told me he did not know why his daughter had decided to be so forward, and my apology was accepted.
Once it was clear that her parents liked me, though, the gf dumped me.
For the record, I love it when a woman I'm attracted to decides to be really forward. I was sad that she dumped me.
It actually kinda happened to me while I was working on my undergrad degree. I was dating a fellow student when I found out she was only 18. (I was 26 at the time, and expected a junior to be older, but she'd skipped some grades) When I told her, "Maybe we shouldn't date.", her answer was "Don't be stupid."
Then I found out she was the dean's daughter. "Maybe we shouldn't date.", and her reply of, "Don't be stupid.". Then she told me she was a virgin. "We really should not date." followed by, "Don't be stupid."
Then, she wanted me to come over on a Saturday. She was living with her father and stepmother, along with the 13 year old step-sister. Before I could ask if her father was OK with my visit, a father I had yet to meet as the guy his daughter was dating, she told me her father and stepmother were out of town for the weekend. She was due to go pick them up on Monday. I did not want to go. I was sure her father would be unhappy with some strange guy over while it was just her and her step-sister.
"Don't be stupid."
After a lengthy argument I finally drove over to visit. (Well after noon, expecting to leave shortly after.) When I got there, though, she wanted me to help prepare supper, as well as stay for that meal. I tried to argue that I really should go before that, with the predictable response, so I helped make supper and then ate with girlfriend and her step sis.
After helping clear away supper dishes and load the dishwasher, I again tried to leave, but I was told I was staying. I went through a lengthy argument again, with me insisting her father would not want me to spend the night, and her insisting just as strongly that there would be no problem from this. When I tried to leave anyway, I got out the door to head to my car, and she came out after me to yank my sweatpants down to my ankles. As I bent over to pull my pants up, she stepped on the crotch of them, and told me again that I was not leaving. Only when I told her I would come back in with her was I allowed to pull them up.
She wanted sex that night, in her own bed. The next morning, she told me I was staying for breakfast, but would be allowed to go back to my apartment after helping clear that, and that is what happened. What I did not know was that the parents had decided to come home a day early, and she told her father, when he called her from the airport to come pick them up, that I had spent the night. Her parents were furious before she could pick them up, and there was much ass-chewing I knew nothing about before I had someone beating at my front door at about 1:00 that afternoon. It was my gf, crying, telling me I had been right, and that her father was livid.
I called the dean to request an appointment, at his convenience, to come over and apologize in person. It turns out the 13 year old step-sister had told them about all the arguments, and the points I had repeatedly tried to make, and even that she'd yanked my pants down when I tried to leave. The dean wasn't angry at me at all, in fact he offered me a glass of wine and told me he did not know why his daughter had decided to be so forward, and my apology was accepted.
Once it was clear that her parents liked me, though, the gf dumped me.
For the record, I love it when a woman I'm attracted to decides to be really forward. I was sad that she dumped me.
For me
For me it’s all about taking sexual power away from where it typically lies: women. So forcing a woman to submit completely to the man after some “coercion” is the hottest. From there, it’s about adding layers of that submission/taboo:
-A happily married woman
-She’s a prude, sexually; maybe a real bitch
-The aggressor is a scary big black man (I know, but this is fantasy)
-She, during and after her forced seduction, continues doing new sexual acts that she would never do for hubby (anal, threesomes with another woman, swallowing, facials, etc.)
-Winds up so far dick drunk and submitted that she finally begins to insult hubby and talks about their aggressor as a “real” man when she has sex with him
-Not into the whole “hubby gets hard and comes and eats cream pie” stuff, but the intruder exerting his physical dominance over hubby is preferred, especially if hubby is brave and tries to save his wife
So for me, it’s all about forced seduction/corruption of the white wife by the scary thug black man.
For me it’s all about taking sexual power away from where it typically lies: women. So forcing a woman to submit completely to the man after some “coercion” is the hottest. From there, it’s about adding layers of that submission/taboo:
-A happily married woman
-She’s a prude, sexually; maybe a real bitch
-The aggressor is a scary big black man (I know, but this is fantasy)
-She, during and after her forced seduction, continues doing new sexual acts that she would never do for hubby (anal, threesomes with another woman, swallowing, facials, etc.)
-Winds up so far dick drunk and submitted that she finally begins to insult hubby and talks about their aggressor as a “real” man when she has sex with him
-Not into the whole “hubby gets hard and comes and eats cream pie” stuff, but the intruder exerting his physical dominance over hubby is preferred, especially if hubby is brave and tries to save his wife
So for me, it’s all about forced seduction/corruption of the white wife by the scary thug black man.
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This, to me, is the key.
Another example would be a a woman in a position of power brought to heel by an employee or in a lesser position of power who nevertheless has an alpha personality. She learns to crave the submission and coercion despite her power.
There are a number of stories about teachers blackmailed by their students. Some of them are quite titillating. A trope that's appeared a number of times is the teacher who's porno past is discovered by the student.
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That's kinda hot though. Knowing your teacher did some nasty stuff in the past.
In my mind, there is a slight difference between "reluctance" and "non-consent."
To me, what yerkiddin and eh9198 referred to was "non-consent."
Someone being forced into doing something they might not have wanted, anticipated, or expected.
To me, "reluctance" is a person wanting to do something, but refrain for various reasons, but have the act forced on them regardless.
Again, very similar, but with a slight difference.
The person who perpetrates the act on the reluctant person might know of, or suspect the reluctant person's wants, and thereby they fulfill the reluctant person's wants, or they are oblivious to the other's wants. The difference is internal to the reluctant person, whereas the person forced into non-consent, never conceived the act prior to it happening.
As far as what makes a good reluctance story, is the brewing of the reluctant person's thoughts. Their hesitation, and a realistic situation that presents itself which confounds the reluctant person, and their reception, despite their reservations.
To me, what yerkiddin and eh9198 referred to was "non-consent."
Someone being forced into doing something they might not have wanted, anticipated, or expected.
To me, "reluctance" is a person wanting to do something, but refrain for various reasons, but have the act forced on them regardless.
Again, very similar, but with a slight difference.
The person who perpetrates the act on the reluctant person might know of, or suspect the reluctant person's wants, and thereby they fulfill the reluctant person's wants, or they are oblivious to the other's wants. The difference is internal to the reluctant person, whereas the person forced into non-consent, never conceived the act prior to it happening.
As far as what makes a good reluctance story, is the brewing of the reluctant person's thoughts. Their hesitation, and a realistic situation that presents itself which confounds the reluctant person, and their reception, despite their reservations.
For me
To me, he’s not a cuck, because he tried to fight back and protect his wife (so he’s brave and not a wimp), and because he derives no sexual pleasure whatsoever for seeing or hearing the progressively more consensual sexual acts. In my mind, cuckolds get sexual pleasure from this humiliation, but the hubby in my mind would hate every second.
That makes the power-taking of non-con/reluctance all the more powerful.
To me, he’s not a cuck, because he tried to fight back and protect his wife (so he’s brave and not a wimp), and because he derives no sexual pleasure whatsoever for seeing or hearing the progressively more consensual sexual acts. In my mind, cuckolds get sexual pleasure from this humiliation, but the hubby in my mind would hate every second.
That makes the power-taking of non-con/reluctance all the more powerful.
Some one already commented but I just want to stress a few things. Internal conflict is really important because the world around us is not black or white. We often time weigh the pros and cons on our actions and I find a lot of stories don't describe that part well. One other comment, it is not limited to reluctant story, I find a lot of stories are not descriptive enough to lead the readers to play the scenario in his/her mind. Cheers.
I’ll agree with this. My wife once confessed that she secretly fantasizes about being forced by another man. So I’m thinking if she was ever in that that situation, a switch would be flipped in her head. Then the rape would turn into a consensual sex session. I think this scenario would make a great story.
As well, this scenario from her husbands perspective. He walks in on his wife in this predicament. But before he can take action he notices his wife’s reaction. So he stops and watches her being taken much to her her enjoyments.
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I agree with all
I pretty much agree with most of the other ideas listed here.
That being said I think the aspect that really makes a reluctance story hot is the gradual breaking down of limits. I think it makes it more realistic when the character (the woman in my case) slowly makes decisions that are baby steps to being seduced or giving in to desires and finally goes all the way driven by lust. maybe just dressing more provocative, then "accidentally being seen in some sort of undress, or maybe having a sexual dialog with someone she shouldn't. Then followed by some soft type of foreplay (watching each other or just kissing, or mild petting.
This can work for any genre , loving wife, first time, exhibitionist, etc..
anyone else feel this way?
I pretty much agree with most of the other ideas listed here.
That being said I think the aspect that really makes a reluctance story hot is the gradual breaking down of limits. I think it makes it more realistic when the character (the woman in my case) slowly makes decisions that are baby steps to being seduced or giving in to desires and finally goes all the way driven by lust. maybe just dressing more provocative, then "accidentally being seen in some sort of undress, or maybe having a sexual dialog with someone she shouldn't. Then followed by some soft type of foreplay (watching each other or just kissing, or mild petting.
This can work for any genre , loving wife, first time, exhibitionist, etc..
anyone else feel this way?
I like that as well, especially if she’s married. The increasing betrayal really builds and puts something at stake in addition to losing her sexual control/power.
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The Non-con/Reluctance stories I like to read and write have two elements. First, the story should involve a choice. The protagonist should be in the position of choosing an outcome from two undesirable alternatives. Of course the selection is always the sexual alternative. Second, the story should be believable. The threat has to be realistic and within the means of the antagonist, and it must be proportionate to the sexual alternative. To put it another way, the thing the protagonist wants or the harm she is trying to avoid must be worth the cost of avoiding it. I don't care for forcible rape stories. Rather, I prefer coercion leading to sex.
There's always the sex cult...
Just wrote my first non-con and horror story. It looks at cult grooming. Another non-con/reluc theme could be in a medical environment. Played with that idea in an action story a while back, which again was pretty terrifying.
Just wrote my first non-con and horror story. It looks at cult grooming. Another non-con/reluc theme could be in a medical environment. Played with that idea in an action story a while back, which again was pretty terrifying.
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Inner conflict, as many people have already said, can make for a good story.
- Religious girl needs to admit that she wants to be tied up.
- One night of sex work would feel good, make a lot of money, but would any one want her afterwards?
- She's a Pakistani immigrant, studying to be a doctor. He's some handsome white dude and her parent's don't approve.
There are also blackmail plots, and the best ones are when the reluctant person gets revenge somehow, at least in my opinion.
- Religious girl needs to admit that she wants to be tied up.
- One night of sex work would feel good, make a lot of money, but would any one want her afterwards?
- She's a Pakistani immigrant, studying to be a doctor. He's some handsome white dude and her parent's don't approve.
There are also blackmail plots, and the best ones are when the reluctant person gets revenge somehow, at least in my opinion.
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Have you posted that yet? Horror sex cults are kind of my (reluctant) fetish.
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a humiliated, and embarrassed son & dad
A son has these two kind of friends, but they are troubled 30 yo's who been in jail a couple times, love to drink and party too much, so my son does try to stay away from them. One day they show up at his parents house, and get his old plump 60 yo cock teasing mom and faggot wimpy dad. They know their friends mom is a cock tease walking around with her big tits almost falling out of her low cut tops. And always showing a nice fat mom camel toe in her tight faded jeans. So they hang around for a little bit, chatting with their friends old dad. Then one spikes the moms soda, she's not totally out of it, she knows what's happening, just feels a real buzz coming on, like if she was drinking and it was time to stop. She's not sure why she feels this way.
Their friends dad though has lots of secret cuckold fantasies, and he has shared some with his wife, so she knows this. But never! knew even though she can't stand these two punk guys, that her husband has jacked off thinking of them fucking her. But of cause never thought it would ever really happen. They are trouble and didn't like them hanging around with their son. So as they start in on their wimpy friends mom, the dad just don't do anything, they are surprised, but laugh at his old ass. It turns into a couple hours of fucking the friends moms hairy old cunt, virgin asshole and mouth. At first she tries to fight them off, but feeling their big rock hard bulges in their pants, and with the kissing and feeling her up, and dirty talk, her old mommy cunt betrays her, and she starts to give in. She also knows her wimpy little dick husband has these fantasies, they shared, just never! about these two punk bad boys, these two so called drunken weed head friends of their son.
They grab his wimpy ass old dad, and have him licking up his wife's cum slimy sloppy cunt, and sucking them clean. During the gang fucking the mom tries real hard not to orgasm, not to give them the satisfaction, but can't control it. She starts yelling, no! so embarrassed as her old hairy cunt has some strong squirting orgasms on the big hard punks cocks. They later come around, one or both to fuck her old granny cunt some more, as their ex friends dad watches and cleans up. The son finds out when these assholes are out drinking and bragging about it. How they turned his mom into a dirty old cum dump, and laugh that his dad is a clean up cock sucking faggot. They took a few pictures with their phones to show off.
Don't know what happens with the embarrassed son. Maybe he starts fucking his mom like a dirty old whore. OR! maybe these bad ass friends get him sucking their cocks and licking up cum like his pussy ass dad.
A son has these two kind of friends, but they are troubled 30 yo's who been in jail a couple times, love to drink and party too much, so my son does try to stay away from them. One day they show up at his parents house, and get his old plump 60 yo cock teasing mom and faggot wimpy dad. They know their friends mom is a cock tease walking around with her big tits almost falling out of her low cut tops. And always showing a nice fat mom camel toe in her tight faded jeans. So they hang around for a little bit, chatting with their friends old dad. Then one spikes the moms soda, she's not totally out of it, she knows what's happening, just feels a real buzz coming on, like if she was drinking and it was time to stop. She's not sure why she feels this way.
Their friends dad though has lots of secret cuckold fantasies, and he has shared some with his wife, so she knows this. But never! knew even though she can't stand these two punk guys, that her husband has jacked off thinking of them fucking her. But of cause never thought it would ever really happen. They are trouble and didn't like them hanging around with their son. So as they start in on their wimpy friends mom, the dad just don't do anything, they are surprised, but laugh at his old ass. It turns into a couple hours of fucking the friends moms hairy old cunt, virgin asshole and mouth. At first she tries to fight them off, but feeling their big rock hard bulges in their pants, and with the kissing and feeling her up, and dirty talk, her old mommy cunt betrays her, and she starts to give in. She also knows her wimpy little dick husband has these fantasies, they shared, just never! about these two punk bad boys, these two so called drunken weed head friends of their son.
They grab his wimpy ass old dad, and have him licking up his wife's cum slimy sloppy cunt, and sucking them clean. During the gang fucking the mom tries real hard not to orgasm, not to give them the satisfaction, but can't control it. She starts yelling, no! so embarrassed as her old hairy cunt has some strong squirting orgasms on the big hard punks cocks. They later come around, one or both to fuck her old granny cunt some more, as their ex friends dad watches and cleans up. The son finds out when these assholes are out drinking and bragging about it. How they turned his mom into a dirty old cum dump, and laugh that his dad is a clean up cock sucking faggot. They took a few pictures with their phones to show off.
Don't know what happens with the embarrassed son. Maybe he starts fucking his mom like a dirty old whore. OR! maybe these bad ass friends get him sucking their cocks and licking up cum like his pussy ass dad.
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I have a bunch of naked pictures of my wife, all in her 50's. Her nice big hanging old mommy tits, a slightly plump old ass, and nice mature natural hairy cunt. Some has her spreading on our bed pulling her wet panties to the side, some in a sexy see through baby doll, Even a few with my cum on her hairy old cunt after I pulled out and squirted on her pussy, cream pie pic's. I love the bent over spreading her ass cheeks doggy pic's. Anyway, our son and a couple of his friends {all mid 20's} are around when were not home. The friends snoop around in our bedroom when our son is outside. OMG! they find their friends moms naked pictures, The next day the wife is out and I love looking at her pictures and jack off thinking of other guys I know fucking her.
WHERE ARE THEY??? I can't find the shoe box with like 40 pictures of my wife looking like a real whore. The two friends come around to YES! blackmail us both. They fuck their friends mom like a whore, and make me clean up and suck their rock hard 25 and 26 yo cocks.
WHERE ARE THEY??? I can't find the shoe box with like 40 pictures of my wife looking like a real whore. The two friends come around to YES! blackmail us both. They fuck their friends mom like a whore, and make me clean up and suck their rock hard 25 and 26 yo cocks.
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I'm going to have to read some of your stuff!
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I would love it if you did!
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Yes yes yes.
I like the idea that a woman under most "normal" circumstances would say "no" to something. But... under some other circumstance she might give in to that temptation. Maybe it's as simple as a slow seduction where she's "intoxicated" by being turned on and "can't resist". Maybe it's a more complicated set up. But, in the end, she puts aside whatever is holding her back and gives in to the moment.
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