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I’m interested in having my wife put me in a chastity cage, can anyone help me or give me some tips on finding the right one?
I’m going to start out wearing it on the weekend then we’ll go from there
 
We bought one about a month ago. Since I already had a cock ring that fit, I measured the inner diameter and ordered accordingly. My first one was made of plastic resin, it worked well. Unfortunately, I developed some serious chafing. I had to stop wearing it for a while. I've worn it a few times since, just a couple of days at a time. I switched to a metal cage on Saturday. Wore it for 104 hours straight. It was removed last night for cleaning and left off. We tried to have sex but apparently I never fully recovered from the chafing. After inspecting the new cage, it is poorly made and there are some rough spots that are contributing to the chafing.

Bottom line, if you but cheap, which is ok for sizing and styling, do not keep it on long term. Buy a high quality device for long term wear. Your penis will thank you.

By the way, once you get caged, you will want to stay caged, incredible feeling. :D
 
Quality comes with a price. I found the CB-X range is best and in particular CB-3000 or CB-6000 the best value.

Designed with comfort in mind and ideal for those wanting to wear their chastity devices for long periods of time, the CB-6000 is a discreet chastity cage that assures maximum security for key-holders. The best solution for chastity play. The CB-300 is for a smaller penis.

Pumperguy is so right, "once you get caged, you will want to stay caged, incredible feeling."
 
Yes...

I must admit to finding this kink of interest lately... I like the look of the steel ones with the urethral tube. Going to discuss with my wife and see if she would like to try one on me, ...of course I will be chomping at the bit when she is having sex with one of her lovers while I watch...

Curious how much it may hurt to get hard while wearing a restrictive steel cage..?? I would not be able to hold back from getting hard unless it was overly painful... curiouser and curioser...
 
I must admit to finding this kink of interest lately... I like the look of the steel ones with the urethral tube. Going to discuss with my wife and see if she would like to try one on me, ...of course I will be chomping at the bit when she is having sex with one of her lovers while I watch...

Curious how much it may hurt to get hard while wearing a restrictive steel cage..?? I would not be able to hold back from getting hard unless it was overly painful... curiouser and curioser...

The penis cage is designed so that the penis inside cannot be stimulated directly with hands and fingers. The tip of the penis cage is perforated to allow urine to pass and the design may incorporate vents to facilitate long-term wearing and cleaning. The flaccid penis is inserted into the cage and is held at a downwards angle so as to make an erection uncomfortable or impossible. Some designs have an extra short penis cage into which the penis may be squeezed to restrict it even more than in a regular penis cage.

The ring and cage are usually secured together with a lock or with a tamper-evident plastic security seal. When the device is locked, the testicles are trapped in the gap between the ring and the penis cage which is narrow enough to prevent the testicles and penis from being pulled out. The testicles are usually held in a fixed position, exposed beneath the cage although some designs have an additional cup that prevents easy access to the entire genital area.

Chastity cages can be manufactured out of a strong plastic material such as polycarbonate or they may be made from silicone, both of which greatly reduces their cost and weight compared with stainless steel versions.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0e/Plastic_chastity_cage.jpg/220px-Plastic_chastity_cage.jpghttps://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/63/Metal_Chastity_Cage.jpg/220px-Metal_Chastity_Cage.jpg
 
Quality comes with a price. I found the CB-X range is best and in particular CB-3000 or CB-6000 the best value.

Designed with comfort in mind and ideal for those wanting to wear their chastity devices for long periods of time, the CB-6000 is a discreet chastity cage that assures maximum security for key-holders. The best solution for chastity play. The CB-300 is for a smaller penis.

Pumperguy is so right, "once you get caged, you will want to stay caged, incredible feeling."

we'd reccomend the CB range as well - very good for discreet long term play!
 
The chafing you experienced isn't ideal, and you certainly don't want contact to break the skin and create the risk of infection, but a certain amount of discomfort, other than the intended discomfort to discourage an erection, is normal. It has to be tight enough so you can't slip out of it during your daily activities. My first chastity device was fine, except that it would slip off during the hinging poses during yoga class. Until I bought one that fit better, I had to wear long workout pants that were tight at the ankles, rather than shorts, so it wouldn't land on the wood floor mid-class.

There is also the matter of your own personal configuration and angles. We're all different. What I have found to be ideal for its purpose and my own personal fit is a Holy Trainer, v3. They'e made in Switzerland not of petroleum-based plastic, but rather of of bio-resin. The heat of your body gives it a little flexibility that you won't notice, but it will adjust slightly to your shape, something steel can't do. It also has a locking mechanism that creates very little bulge.

I'm including a picture of mine. As far as size goes, it's something of a guess. Yes, they're sized in mm and pecision made, but how do you measure yourself, expecially for the scrotum ring? I bought three before finding the right size: tight, but not too tight. It should be barely big enough for you to be able to pull only one ball at a time through it.

As far as the penis portion, I have an extremely small penis, perhaps the main reason she has caged me. The smallest size available in the v2 at the time was too big for me. My penis filled less than half of the tube, and it not only looked ridiculous that I could barely fill half of a small penis tube, but as a consequence, it didn't do enough to restrict my erections. Now, I'm wearing one two sizes smaller than "small". Mine is the new smallest and it's size is designated "nub." The interior length of the penis portion is under an inch long, and it fits my under-one-inch-long penis perfectly.

I wear shorts again in yoga class, and it's my little secret that I'm caged. My keyholder also appreciates that she knows I can't slip out of it. I'm a runner also. 7 miles is my normal daily run, and I've never had it slip off or chafe badly, even running a half marathon while wearing it. Once you find one that is the right material, shape, and size for your body, you won't chafe either.

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Is she in on this or is this just your doing? What you like and feel is comfortable might not be what she wants and honestly this atleast from my perspective would be more about her. Let her pick it you wear it it’s that simple, the more whining the longer you stay.
 
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Is she in on this or is this just your doing? What you like and feel is comfortable might not be what she wants and honestly this atleast from my perspective would be more about her. Let her pick it you wear it it’s that simple, the more whining the longer you stay.

Not sure if your comment is directed at me but I will respond as if it is.

My wife is very much into which cage I wear. When we started looking at them online, she picked the one that we first bought. After we purchased the next 2, she picked the one to wear next. I put the 3rd on for a couple of hours today. I left it on until she came home to see it and she wasn't pleased. I took it off. She just asked which was the best, I said the first one, the plastic one. She agreed. The other 2 that I bought were cheap Chinese imports. I only bought them to try different styles. I know what the issues are. At some point, we will buy a much better one.
 
Thanks for the feed back

The penis cage is designed so that the penis inside cannot be stimulated directly with hands and fingers. The tip of the penis cage is perforated to allow urine to pass and the design may incorporate vents to facilitate long-term wearing and cleaning. The flaccid penis is inserted into the cage and is held at a downwards angle so as to make an erection uncomfortable or impossible. Some designs have an extra short penis cage into which the penis may be squeezed to restrict it even more than in a regular penis cage.

The ring and cage are usually secured together with a lock or with a tamper-evident plastic security seal. When the device is locked, the testicles are trapped in the gap between the ring and the penis cage which is narrow enough to prevent the testicles and penis from being pulled out. The testicles are usually held in a fixed position, exposed beneath the cage although some designs have an additional cup that prevents easy access to the entire genital area.

Chastity cages can be manufactured out of a strong plastic material such as polycarbonate or they may be made from silicone, both of which greatly reduces their cost and weight compared with stainless steel versions.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0e/Plastic_chastity_cage.jpg/220px-Plastic_chastity_cage.jpghttps://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/63/Metal_Chastity_Cage.jpg/220px-Metal_Chastity_Cage.jpg



Thanks for the feedback, I can see that the clear polycarbonate one looks to be a good one, would be lighter for sure. I am looking forward to trying one, but a bit nervous as when I get a hard on I don't have much control over it. I get aroused easily and am always horny, ...time will tell how this cage is going to restrict me from getting hard.

I am expect that this device will be used by my wife as another method of orgasm control over me.... should be fun!
 
Thanks for the feedback, I can see that the clear polycarbonate one looks to be a good one, would be lighter for sure. I am looking forward to trying one, but a bit nervous as when I get a hard on I don't have much control over it. I get aroused easily and am always horny, ...time will tell how this cage is going to restrict me from getting hard.

I am expect that this device will be used by my wife as another method of orgasm control over me.... should be fun!

The poly cage requires more care it doesn’t breath as well. The metal ones aren’t that heavy also no all of them are that big.
 
Thanks

The poly cage requires more care it doesn’t breath as well. The metal ones aren’t that heavy also no all of them are that big.

Thanks for the info/feedback. Good toknow on the poly unit, that could get sweaty..

Do you have any advice about sizing, I am 5cm flaccid and 20 cm when hard, large shaved balls should keep it in place..

I will post some pics once I get one locked on..

Cheers
 
Thanks for the info/feedback. Good toknow on the poly unit, that could get sweaty..

Do you have any advice about sizing, I am 5cm flaccid and 20 cm when hard, large shaved balls should keep it in place..

I will post some pics once I get one locked on..

Cheers

I don’t know of a length to thickness conversion. And since the base ring fits more than just the shaft it’s kinda trial and error. Some come with multiple rings and you can buy extra rings.

You could go to an adult store and ask.


http://malechastitydevices.com.au/measuring-up.html
 
The penis cage is designed so that the penis inside cannot be stimulated directly with hands and fingers. The tip of the penis cage is perforated to allow urine to pass and the design may incorporate vents to facilitate long-term wearing and cleaning. The flaccid penis is inserted into the cage and is held at a downwards angle so as to make an erection uncomfortable or impossible. Some designs have an extra short penis cage into which the penis may be squeezed to restrict it even more than in a regular penis cage.

The ring and cage are usually secured together with a lock or with a tamper-evident plastic security seal. When the device is locked, the testicles are trapped in the gap between the ring and the penis cage which is narrow enough to prevent the testicles and penis from being pulled out. The testicles are usually held in a fixed position, exposed beneath the cage although some designs have an additional cup that prevents easy access to the entire genital area.

Chastity cages can be manufactured out of a strong plastic material such as polycarbonate or they may be made from silicone, both of which greatly reduces their cost and weight compared with stainless steel versions.

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/0/0e/Plastic_chastity_cage.jpg/220px-Plastic_chastity_cage.jpghttps://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/63/Metal_Chastity_Cage.jpg/220px-Metal_Chastity_Cage.jpg

Both look good,i do like to see a nice looking cage
 
Nice

Thanks for the pics of those cages.
I was initially attracted to the ones with uretheral tubes as i used urethral sounds.
Relying on mail order in remote area.... decisions decisions... lol
 
Hello, I am caged 24 /7 nine years long now. If you will go longer than a weekend some advices from my experience. Open daily for cleaning, on hot days may be twice. Use always a good babycreme after cleaning. Have two or three different cage types to change every two or three days. That prevents pressure points. Try cheap cock cages with different base rings. The base ring should fit tight, but when skin of balls become blue, it is too tight. Don't go too fast. It takes about six weeks, to wear a cock cage 24/7. Don't have fear that others may see it. If you wear normal trousers todays cages will not be remarked. If you will wear cock cages long time, your keyholder should unlock the cages two or three times a week and keep your cock about 20 minutes erect. That prevents erection problems. Orgasms are not necassary. In those tease and denial plays
 
Any tips for cages that don't make sound when walking so it's easier to wear? I mostly like my Mancage but with the lock on, it does make sound as I walk which could be noticeable.

Also, sometimes when wearing my mancage, I might be a slightly stinging feeling around the balls because of the base ring. Any tips for that? It's far from happening often, but once in awhile hence why I'm not sure what causes the discomfort.
 
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