My fetish: I'm looking for a woman who prefers making love over getting fucked

[MMM_wms]

This seems to be my predicament on Lit, with fucking being so much more popular here. And to top off my fetish, I desire to meet a whole human being in you, not only a sexual object. One with a mind as well and a soul, not only erogenous zones to attend to. Because frankly, as exciting as a willing pussy appears at first sight, sex only becomes a routine sooner or later. Whereas exploring each other's minds and souls can become a life-long undertaking. With orders of magnitude more potential for brightening up our lives for each other.

And then I see my (male) ad as much as a gift as any woman offering herself to strangers. So all in all, my ads seem a bit weird and out of place here.

Only thing I hope for now and then: that you will see my ad and read it. You being a woman who ticks more like me than mainstream Lit readers.

 

[imagreal]

Demi

are you familiar with the term demisexual, there's a little bit of this going on. Welcome to my world I'm a demisexual. emotional connection

 

[yukonnights]

are you familiar with the term demisexual, there's a little bit of this going on. Welcome to my world I'm a demisexual. emotional connection

I relate to this. When I first learned the term, it was like a light-bulb came on — 'Ah, this explains a lot of things,' I thought to myself.

 

[BBCfan]

This seems to be my predicament on Lit, with fucking being so much more popular here. And to top off my fetish, I desire to meet a whole human being in you, not only a sexual object. One with a mind as well and a soul, not only erogenous zones to attend to. Because frankly, as exciting as a willing pussy appears at first sight, sex only becomes a routine sooner or later. Whereas exploring each other's minds and souls can become a life-long undertaking. With orders of magnitude more potential for brightening up our lives for each other.

And then I see my (male) ad as much as a gift as any woman offering herself to strangers. So all in all, my ads seem a bit weird and out of place here.

Only thing I hope for now and then: that you will see my ad and read it. You being a woman who ticks more like me than mainstream Lit readers.

Just a thought from Captain Obvious...How about getting a divorce and going on a real dating site where 100% of the women are looking for just that.

 

[windwater]

This seems to be my predicament on Lit, with fucking being so much more popular here. And to top off my fetish, I desire to meet a whole human being in you, not only a sexual object. One with a mind as well and a soul, not only erogenous zones to attend to. Because frankly, as exciting as a willing pussy appears at first sight, sex only becomes a routine sooner or later. Whereas exploring each other's minds and souls can become a life-long undertaking. With orders of magnitude more potential for brightening up our lives for each other.

And then I see my (male) ad as much as a gift as any woman offering herself to strangers. So all in all, my ads seem a bit weird and out of place here.

Only thing I hope for now and then: that you will see my ad and read it. You being a woman who ticks more like me than mainstream Lit readers.

Try the newspaper.

 

[CandK_inSE]

Just a thought from Captain Obvious...How about getting a divorce and going on a real dating site where 100% of the women are looking for just that.

That’s my thought too.

You would think you would want to be making love to your wife. You married her because you love her, right?

Slow fucking another random woman isn’t “making love”.

To “make love”, you need to have an emotional connection to her beyond the physical. Love is so much deeper than sex.

Maybe we’re weird, but even when me and my wife are enjoying more wild sex, and involved in some dirty talk, we still say I love you to each other during it.

 

[jedclampet69]

Have you every consider a partner who receivers her wild fucks with another then returns home for her loving sex ..

 

[MMM_wms]

thank y'all for your posts

finally some comments on the responses I have received so far: THANK YOU first of all for responding. DEMIsexual is indeed a name for my "affliction", but it has served me well so far. Quite frankly, I do not mind falling in love with women I have sex with. Worst case, when the feeling is not mutual, it'll disappear again in a whiff.

To those smart allecks of you, who suggested a divorce as a solution: aside from knowing everything better, your imagination seems to be so limited that you fail to see compelling reasons not to divorce.

I will PM jedclampet69 from Australia, because I fail to see – so far at least – how your suggestion might solve my problem.

Thanks much, one more time!

 

[MMM_wms]

Have you every consider a partner who receivers her wild fucks with another then returns home for her loving sex ..

PMing gets too complicated, so let me ask you this way: Do you care to explain, how your PM and my ad relate to one another?

Thank you.