Difficult to describe, unmistakable when it appears, chemistry is that wave of unexpected compatibility that adds depth and richness to anything people can share. Heady stuff, and I’ve been mystified by it most of my life.
The effects of shared chemistry can be so profound, that when I was younger and just coming of age, I sometimes questioned my own authenticity because I could feel so differently in the company of different people. Am I this… or that? Turns out we’re both this and that, in turn, and no one will be all they can be at all times. Certainly, one of the forces shaping what we can be, and will be, is this elusive thing called chemistry.
Most residents of (or visitors to) the Lit-mosphere have a taste for intimate chemistry. In a community defined by sensual open-mindedness, what we seek revolves around the unique preferences and desires that drove us here in the first place. Such inclinations are particularly vulnerable to the rapport, or lack of it, that two people share. For many of us, the fantasies that gun our engines would be problematic if actualized in our day to day lives, but to connect with someone else resonating in a compatible way can free those energies and allow them to be realized in a thrilling but safe way. Such is the magic of good chemistry.
I’ve posted to Lit a few times over the years, but it’s never been in the cards for me to make sharing here a consistent part of my world. Still some of the connections I’ve made have been wonderfully rewarding, and every now and then it’s good to drop by, toss a coin in the lake and see what waves back.
You may be like me, may even feel a little out of place browsing the posts here, not trying to satisfy some sudden pounding lust (not knocking it, folks, just sayin’), but rather feel yourself driven by a deep curiosity and powerful sensual impulse. I haven’t hung out a laundry list of things I “want” in this post because this isn’t just about me. What chemistry can create is more interesting, and there are things to discover I’ll never think of on my own. Maybe we should connect.
The effects of shared chemistry can be so profound, that when I was younger and just coming of age, I sometimes questioned my own authenticity because I could feel so differently in the company of different people. Am I this… or that? Turns out we’re both this and that, in turn, and no one will be all they can be at all times. Certainly, one of the forces shaping what we can be, and will be, is this elusive thing called chemistry.
Most residents of (or visitors to) the Lit-mosphere have a taste for intimate chemistry. In a community defined by sensual open-mindedness, what we seek revolves around the unique preferences and desires that drove us here in the first place. Such inclinations are particularly vulnerable to the rapport, or lack of it, that two people share. For many of us, the fantasies that gun our engines would be problematic if actualized in our day to day lives, but to connect with someone else resonating in a compatible way can free those energies and allow them to be realized in a thrilling but safe way. Such is the magic of good chemistry.
I’ve posted to Lit a few times over the years, but it’s never been in the cards for me to make sharing here a consistent part of my world. Still some of the connections I’ve made have been wonderfully rewarding, and every now and then it’s good to drop by, toss a coin in the lake and see what waves back.
You may be like me, may even feel a little out of place browsing the posts here, not trying to satisfy some sudden pounding lust (not knocking it, folks, just sayin’), but rather feel yourself driven by a deep curiosity and powerful sensual impulse. I haven’t hung out a laundry list of things I “want” in this post because this isn’t just about me. What chemistry can create is more interesting, and there are things to discover I’ll never think of on my own. Maybe we should connect.
