Just a little update

[Jada59]

I've been talking to a local guy. He's Polish. <cue sausage jokes>

We are not exactly an item yet. Haven't met in person yet, but he wants an exclusive relationship. So if this happens... I will be deleting my chat messaging apps and probably won't be around her much except perhaps to play some word games or post a story or poem.

Just putting that out there. Squeeeeee!

 

[photobuff56]

I've been talking to a local guy. He's Polish. <cue sausage jokes>

We are not exactly an item yet. Haven't met in person yet, but he wants an exclusive relationship. So if this happens... I will be deleting my chat messaging apps and probably won't be around her much except perhaps to play some word games or post a story or poem.

Just putting that out there. Squeeeeee!

So how do you know this guy you haven't yet and you will be in an exclusive relationship. It takes more than a meeting to figure someone out.

 

[haventdonethat]

I've been talking to a local guy. He's Polish. <cue sausage jokes>

We are not exactly an item yet. Haven't met in person yet, but he wants an exclusive relationship. So if this happens... I will be deleting my chat messaging apps and probably won't be around her much except perhaps to play some word games or post a story or poem.

Just putting that out there. Squeeeeee!

Good luck in your upcoming relationship!

I'll miss your posts

 

[lustfulraj]

I've been talking to a local guy. He's Polish. <cue sausage jokes>

We are not exactly an item yet. Haven't met in person yet, but he wants an exclusive relationship. So if this happens... I will be deleting my chat messaging apps and probably won't be around her much except perhaps to play some word games or post a story or poem.

Just putting that out there. Squeeeeee!

Ok, can we keep in touch off of here then?

 

[phil_o]

Hi Jada,
Glad you have found someone you want to meet.
It appears a bit strange to me that you are thinking of deleting your apps when you haven't yet met this guy. Is it your idea or maybe something he has said for you to feel you have to do this?
My advice , not that you have asked for it , is wait a bit, abstain if you want but don't make any change until this guy has proven himself.
I bet this guy won't be doing the same even if he has told you he will.

Whatever you do have fun, stay safe.

Just re read and see he wants an exclusive relationship, not even met you! Sounds a bit demanding might I suggest controlling ?

 

[Jada59]

So how do you know this guy you haven't yet and you will be in an exclusive relationship. It takes more than a meeting to figure someone out.

Yes, I know. It just feels right. We'll see.

 

[Jada59]

Hi Jada,
Glad you have found someone you want to meet.
It appears a bit strange to me that you are thinking of deleting your apps when you haven't yet met this guy. Is it your idea or maybe something he has said for you to feel you have to do this?
My advice , not that you have asked for it , is wait a bit, abstain if you want but don't make any change until this guy has proven himself.
I bet this guy won't be doing the same even if he has told you he will.

Whatever you do have fun, stay safe.

Just re read and see he wants an exclusive relationship, not even met you! Sounds a bit demanding might I suggest controlling ?

I haven't deleted them yet. He just said if we are to start dating, he wants to be my one and only. I did tell him that I have guy friends and he is fine with that. I wanted him to look at my Facebook page to see who my friends are because there are some celebrities (not dropping names here) on there. He doesn't do Facebook. I did give him the name of IMO my most famous friend. He knows who he is and he's fine with that.

Of course it might not work out. But he's old fashioned and is full on courting me now. This is quite a refreshing change.

I had a numerology report done and it said a man would come into my life and I should rethink my views on marriage, and marry him. He fits all of the parameters of the man described in my report, so... I'm going with it!

He is a Scorpio. They can be like that. They can get jealous. He doesn't come across as controlling.

I realize this all flies in the face of what dating coaches tell us to to. But... I am like he is in that IRL I will only be with one man at a time. Some here on Lit. can attest to that as when I was in a relationship, our chats were pretty much G rated.

He and I both discussed what we are looking for and what our life goals are and they are the same. If I do see signs of control, I'll be out of there. I am own person. I am going into this with blinders off, bu it feels very right.

 

[phil_o]

I haven't deleted them yet. He just said if we are to start dating, he wants to be my one and only. I did tell him that I have guy friends and he is fine with that. I wanted him to look at my Facebook page to see who my friends are because there are some celebrities (not dropping names here) on there. He doesn't do Facebook. I did give him the name of IMO my most famous friend. He knows who he is and he's fine with that.

Of course it might not work out. But he's old fashioned and is full on courting me now. This is quite a refreshing change.

I had a numerology report done and it said a man would come into my life and I should rethink my views on marriage, and marry him. He fits all of the parameters of the man described in my report, so... I'm going with it!

Numerology aside I think there is nothing better then your own instinct, if I were giving something up I would then ask what is the other person willing to give up.

You know you better then anyone else, and trust your gut feeling.

Oh, I have famous friends too, it's just nobody has heard of them yet

If you don't sign in once every month do we send out the tracker dogs?

Have fun.

 

[hairball18]

I've been talking to a local guy. He's Polish. <cue sausage jokes>

We are not exactly an item yet. Haven't met in person yet, but he wants an exclusive relationship. So if this happens... I will be deleting my chat messaging apps and probably won't be around her much except perhaps to play some word games or post a story or poem.

Just putting that out there. Squeeeeee!

I hope it turns out well for you.

 

[LadyJS]

I hope it turns out well for you.

What he said.

 

[lustfulraj]

I've been talking to a local guy. He's Polish. <cue sausage jokes>

We are not exactly an item yet. Haven't met in person yet, but he wants an exclusive relationship. So if this happens... I will be deleting my chat messaging apps and probably won't be around her much except perhaps to play some word games or post a story or poem.

Just putting that out there. Squeeeeee!

All the best

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Best of luck Jada.

 

[Jada59]

Good luck in your upcoming relationship!

I'll miss your posts

Thanks! I'll probably still play in the threads.

 

[Jada59]

What he said.

Thanks!

 

[Jada59]

All the best

Thanks!

 

[jaF0]

Just re read and see he wants an exclusive relationship, not even met you! Sounds a bit demanding might I suggest controlling ?

A bit?

Shithead needs to be kicked to the curb and flushed down the drain NOW!

 

[Jada59]

Best of luck Jada.

Thanks!

 

[SassySheDevil]

I'm sorry. But this is just crazy. You want to get rid of all your messengers because of someone you haven't even physically met yet? How do you even know that your Chemistry would be the same in person. Is this person actually asking you to give up all of your friendships? Who gives a fuck if you have celebrity friends or not. Friends are friends. If all of the relationships that you have on Messengers are sexual. Then you just end those. I'm so fucking confused.
Yes, enter into a new relationship not having sexual relations with others. That is smart. But to cut everybody off because of somebody you don't even really know yet?

 

[Dribble]

I love you sassy.

I am old. Tired. But I have had a lot of experiences. Unfortunately, things like that only apply to me. When I go into a relationship changing who I am...or changing who I have been...it has always failed. I wish you the best jada... I do. But this feels wrong. Just stop having sex w your friends. Flirting..does not impact exclusivity.