If your wife or girlfriend cheated

[Justfantasies]

It just happen to me ... im in shock. Even if its a Fantasy when it happen for real its a big difference!

My wife just told me she did. She feel sorry and told it was a big mistake. I feel lost

Does it turn you on -- even ever so slightly?

 

[cuckoldbill]

It just happen to me ... im in shock. Even if its a Fantasy when it happen for real its a big difference!

My wife just told me she did. She feel sorry and told it was a big mistake. I feel lost

Had it ever been discussed before? Was she aware of your fantasies about sharing her? My only suggestion is that you talk and talk about this. Try and understand why she did it and do not do anything in haste.
Hope you both are able to have a happy Christmas.

 

[lovesexfun]

We as a couple are on mutual terms so it will be fine when I will see her with her Bull as she is the one who is more excited than me now a days.

 

[ErickTheRed]

Had it ever been discussed before? Was she aware of your fantasies about sharing her? My only suggestion is that you talk and talk about this. Try and understand why she did it and do not do anything in haste.
Hope you both are able to have a happy Christmas.

We had a talk the last to days... everything is good even better then before a lot of joking about it... she found out why she did and told me so now we can work on it!

Sharing is a fantasy not something i really want. We are happy and have great time, even sex is better.

Its a good thing im not the kind of person to scream or loose control so it was easier for her to told me what she did and more important why she did it

 

[jharp]

We had a talk the last to days... everything is good even better then before a lot of joking about it... she found out why she did and told me so now we can work on it!

Sharing is a fantasy not something i really want. We are happy and have great time, even sex is better.

Its a good thing im not the kind of person to scream or loose control so it was easier for her to told me what she did and more important why she did it

Wait, so you just forgive her? Like that?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I want to catch my wife eating pussy.

 

[Justfantasies]

Wait, so you just forgive her? Like that?

Every good cuck deserves a reclaiming fuck

 

[Justfantasies]

I want to catch my wife eating pussy.

Most women do that at some time in their lives

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Most women do that at some time in their lives

They do?

 

[ErickTheRed]

Wait, so you just forgive her? Like that?

I love her... and in not jealous at all.. I dint like it of course but we talk, she told me what happen and why she did it. So yeah i forgived her. Shes my wife and i love her.

That doesn’t mean she can do it again.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I want to catch my wife eating pussy.

Why wait to catch it. Can't you help facilitate it?

 

[jharp]

I love her... and in not jealous at all.. I dint like it of course but we talk, she told me what happen and why she did it. So yeah i forgived her. Shes my wife and i love her.

That doesn’t mean she can do it again.

Except of course she will. Dude you just essentially gave her a free pass without consequences. What's to stop her from doing it again? Will you leave her? Or will have another talk about your relationship and your feelings? What is she willing to do to make it up to you? Assuming of course she can?

 

[DanbyDrive]

I love sloppy seconds. How did you feel when you discovered the mess in her cunt. I would have cum in seconds

A couple of things happened.

First, there was the moment I realized what I was feeling. I'm slipping in and out of her, and it was like sliding my dick into a bowl of hot pudding. I looked her in the eye and she had this sheepish, apologetic expression that told me all I needed to know.

Then, I immediately shot a load in her - I mean, instantaneously.

 

[ErickTheRed]

Except of course she will. Dude you just essentially gave her a free pass without consequences. What's to stop her from doing it again? Will you leave her? Or will have another talk about your relationship and your feelings? What is she willing to do to make it up to you? Assuming of course she can?

Well you can’t judge our relationship, you don’t know us , you assuming that she will cheat again because your that kind of person. And yeah the feeling i have for her the love i have for her is more important then a fuck she had!

 

[Justfantasies]

A couple of things happened.

First, there was the moment I realized what I was feeling. I'm slipping in and out of her, and it was like sliding my dick into a bowl of hot pudding. I looked her in the eye and she had this sheepish, apologetic expression that told me all I needed to know.

Then, I immediately shot a load in her - I mean, instantaneously.

I have had that experience too. But it is different somehow when she is proud of what she has done and wants to show what a slut she is and when she is acting apologetic

 

[CandK_inSE]

Most women do that at some time in their lives

My biggest fantasy is to see my wife with another woman.

It will NEVER happen. My wife is not into other women at all!

 

[jharp]

Well you can’t judge our relationship, you don’t know us , you assuming that she will cheat again because your that kind of person. And yeah the feeling i have for her the love i have for her is more important then a fuck she had!

I know female behavior, I've seen it in action enough to recognize things. If there's no consequences then there is nothing to stop her from doing it again. It's just a fact. Obviously you'll have to find what works for you, but I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you things are alright when they're not.

I'm not telling you what to do, but I'm telling you that things are not happy in paradise. By what you've posted you stated you clearly did not give her permission to sleep with someone else. Yet she did. She cheated, point blank. And all she got was a talk? That's nothing.

And for the record I'm not a cheater. I've got better character than that. If im not happy in a relationship then im going to end it. Point blank. But I have been cheated on and I've witnessed other women cheat on their husbands. And I can tell you the approach your taking here will go down about as well for you as it did for some others. Which is not well at all. Shell either take it underground and out of site or she'll just do it again, confess to clear her conscience and put the onus in you as she knows you'll likely forgive her again.

I know women like this at the Hospital I work at. One woman actually laughing at her husband behind his back as she's on her 5th fling with an office Chad. She'll confess and he'll forgive her after a stern talking too. But I can see it in his demeanor. The guy is just beaten and cant stand it. But he doesn't have the courage to divorce her.

If this is the kind of thing you want then enjoy. If not then you need to think about what you're going to do.

 

[CandK_inSE]

As for the main point of the thread, I had a girlfriend cheat on me. The sex didn't bother me; it was the lying, deception, and disrespect.

We had been dating about four months. She told me that prior to meeting me, she had been dating someone else for a long time, they were thinking about marriage, and then he hurt her badly. She said it was completely over and wanted nothing more to do with him. Okay. We'll see where it goes with us.

One week, out of the blue, she says she's going to the beach this weekend for a "girls weekend". A little surprising since I never knew of any girlfriends. Anyway, she calls me from the road on Sunday. She's by herself and was not exactly open about what she and the "girls" did. She then stops at my office on Monday and gives me flowers.

A few weeks go by and we're going to a Springsteen concert. Find out that she wanted to meet me rather than have me pick her up. I meet her, she confesses to me what she did in a restaurant. She got a call from the ex and got back together with him. If it weren't for the fact I didn't want to eat the tickets, and I wasn't a big enough asshole to ask the cute college age server to the show in front of her, I would have left her there. I told her that I really didn't care about her sleeping with the guy. I didn't really care that she wanted to get back with her ex. I was more upset about the lying about it and disrespecting me. We could have broken up amicably, and nobody really hurt.

We went to the concert. I walked her back to her car and told her to get the fuck out of my face and to never call me again.

She did a month later because she left some lingerie at my house and wanted it back. I did meet her and gave it back. She had the nerve to say that she still wanted to occasionally fuck me when her ex (i.e. boyfriend) was out of town. Just shook my head and told her that it ends here and glad it didn't go any farther.

 

[jharp]

As for the main point of the thread, I had a girlfriend cheat on me. The sex didn't bother me; it was the lying, deception, and disrespect.

We had been dating about four months. She told me that prior to meeting me, she had been dating someone else for a long time, they were thinking about marriage, and then he hurt her badly. She said it was completely over and wanted nothing more to do with him. Okay. We'll see where it goes with us.

One week, out of the blue, she says she's going to the beach this weekend for a "girls weekend". A little surprising since I never knew of any girlfriends. Anyway, she calls me from the road on Sunday. She's by herself and was not exactly open about what she and the "girls" did. She then stops at my office on Monday and gives me flowers.

A few weeks go by and we're going to a Springsteen concert. Find out that she wanted to meet me rather than have me pick her up. I meet her, she confesses to me what she did in a restaurant. She got a call from the ex and got back together with him. If it weren't for the fact I didn't want to eat the tickets, and I wasn't a big enough asshole to ask the cute college age server to the show in front of her, I would have left her there. I told her that I really didn't care about her sleeping with the guy. I didn't really care that she wanted to get back with her ex. I was more upset about the lying about it and disrespecting me. We could have broken up amicably, and nobody really hurt.

We went to the concert. I walked her back to her car and told her to get the fuck out of my face and to never call me again.

She did a month later because she left some lingerie at my house and wanted it back. I did meet her and gave it back. She had the nerve to say that she still wanted to occasionally fuck me when her ex (i.e. boyfriend) was out of town. Just shook my head and told her that it ends here and glad it didn't go any farther.

Yeah, something unnervingly similar happened to my friend in my first unit. She was still hung up over the ex and cheated on him twice. He forgave her the first time but 3 months later did it again. I was still Naive at the time and wondered why would do that if he forgave her the last time?
Why risk the relationship? This along with other things I've observed went a long way to open my eyes. Sorry you had to go through that, but you came out better for it and met your wife.

 

[Mtnmike]

As for the main point of the thread, I had a girlfriend cheat on me. The sex didn't bother me; it was the lying, deception, and disrespect.

We had been dating about four months. She told me that prior to meeting me, she had been dating someone else for a long time, they were thinking about marriage, and then he hurt her badly. She said it was completely over and wanted nothing more to do with him. Okay. We'll see where it goes with us.

One week, out of the blue, she says she's going to the beach this weekend for a "girls weekend". A little surprising since I never knew of any girlfriends. Anyway, she calls me from the road on Sunday. She's by herself and was not exactly open about what she and the "girls" did. She then stops at my office on Monday and gives me flowers.

A few weeks go by and we're going to a Springsteen concert. Find out that she wanted to meet me rather than have me pick her up. I meet her, she confesses to me what she did in a restaurant. She got a call from the ex and got back together with him. If it weren't for the fact I didn't want to eat the tickets, and I wasn't a big enough asshole to ask the cute college age server to the show in front of her, I would have left her there. I told her that I really didn't care about her sleeping with the guy. I didn't really care that she wanted to get back with her ex. I was more upset about the lying about it and disrespecting me. We could have broken up amicably, and nobody really hurt.

We went to the concert. I walked her back to her car and told her to get the fuck out of my face and to never call me again.

She did a month later because she left some lingerie at my house and wanted it back. I did meet her and gave it back. She had the nerve to say that she still wanted to occasionally fuck me when her ex (i.e. boyfriend) was out of town. Just shook my head and told her that it ends here and glad it didn't go any farther.

Same thing happened to me except she was my 1st wife. All the signs were there but I loved her and tried to work it out. She couldn't stop so I finally left for my own sanity, even though now she wanted to work it out, I could not. I'll admit took me 7 years to finally get past it and move on with my life.

 

[Mtnmike]

Most women do that at some time in their lives

Wait What? Never seen or heard of it where I live, maybe it's how southern women are raised, idk.

 

[CandK_inSE]

Same thing happened to me except she was my 1st wife. All the signs were there but I loved her and tried to work it out. She couldn't stop so I finally left for my own sanity, even though now she wanted to work it out, I could not. I'll admit took me 7 years to finally get past it and move on with my life.

Sorry to hear that. At least in my case, we were still in the figuring it out phase and it didn't break me up all that badly. Pissed me off more than broke my heart.

You've seem to have some bad luck/bad breaks with the women in your life. Took me a LONG TIME, but found the perfect woman for me.

 

[CandK_inSE]

Wait What? Never seen or heard it where I live, maybe it's how southern women are raised, idk.

LOL.

Most of the southern women I know, and I'm married to one, and very conservative on the outside and in public. (Unless they get drunk...)

But if one falls in love with you, behind closed doors, she can be a mind-blowing lover that's loyal to you in every way.

 

[OldFred65]

My wife got fucked by all the guys in our family (our son, son-in-law, two grand-sons, and oldest grandson's boyfriend) and I am fine with it. That's what she wanted for Christmas. By the way they all fucked me too.

 

[JackOffer]

My wife got fucked by all the guys in our family (our son, son-in-law, two grand-sons, and oldest grandson's boyfriend) and I am fine with it. That's what she wanted for Christmas. By the way they all fucked me too.

That's the way both of my late wives were. Any cock we could get, family or otherwise.