Learning to handle being cuckolded

[cuck72]

I'd Love to hear if there is any guys who were cheated on / cuckolded in their past? Then again by another girl, maybe a current wife or GF? You were so angry, and broke up with the first girl. But maybe you stick it out with the new girl or wife who cuckolded you. You still got hurt and angry, but maybe after a while the thought of her fucking this other guy, and it starts getting you excited. Is this something that can happen, even after he was angry and hurt? Maybe the BF / husband knows he treated her wrong, they had fights, so he starts feeling it's not all her fault. But like I said, he starts getting excited about her being slutty with cheating.

 

[cuck72]

being turned on by a cheating partner

I ask this because I know a friend who was cheated on, like 10 years ago. That girl friend left and had two babies by the other guy she cheated with. Now his wife cheated on him a couple years ago, he sometimes seems to mention about her cheating. They had a child like 6 months ago, and when she was pregnant, he would joke that he's not sure if it's his. But he doesn't seem very upset when he says it, and why would he keep bring it up at times? Just wondering if this in some way might turn him on.

I know I get turned on fantasizing about my wife cuckolding me, now I think of this friends wife being a slut, and if he's like me in a way. I wouldn't want to say too much, and maybe piss him off if it's a touchy subject. I see them and now masturbate thinking of her fucking other guys.

Maybe it's just my over active cuckold thoughts, and it really has bothered him.

 

[jharp]

I ask this because I know a friend who was cheated on, like 10 years ago. That girl friend left and had two babies by the other guy she cheated with. Now his wife cheated on him a couple years ago, he sometimes seems to mention about her cheating. They had a child like 6 months ago, and when she was pregnant, he would joke that he's not sure if it's his. But he doesn't seem very upset when he says it, and why would he keep bring it up at times? Just wondering if this in some way might turn him on.

I know I get turned on fantasizing about my wife cuckolding me, now I think of this friends wife being a slut, and if he's like me in a way. I wouldn't want to say too much, and maybe piss him off if it's a touchy subject. I see them and now masturbate thinking of her fucking other guys.

Maybe it's just my over active cuckold thoughts, and it really has bothered him.

I'm not going to sugar coat this. So its going to sound a bit harsh.

I think maybe you're reading too much into it and hoping he's like you. YOU clearly get off on cheating and cuckoldry if your handle is anything to go by. But I think maybe your friend might be emotionally broken. Resigned acceptance. He cracks jokes to soothe his inner fear, but in doing so gives voice to it. Some guys, the good ones, just don't get over getting cheated on easily. He knows she's cheated once and she's the second woman to do it. The feeling of inadequacy must really eat at him. I had a buddy who cracked jokes about no longer being here. I missed the signs and one day he ate his gun. Turns out he had been battling suicide depression for years. I didn't have a clue. So be careful. What you might consider harmless jokes may not be so harmless.

As for how to deal with Cheaters? I got cheated on while I was deployed. That shit knocked my head out of the game when I should have been focused on my mission. It nearly fucking killed me. Had I not been deployed her ass would have been kissing pavement after feeling a steel toed rocket launching her off my porch. Getting rid of her would have hurt as I had emotionally invested in her. But better getting rid of someone you can't trust and live with the fear that if she cheated once she'll do it again. And I'm no cuck who gets off on his woman going behind his back. And nor would I ever consider allowing her a lover either. I'm not built like that.

For me, dealing with cheaters can only be done one way. Get rid of them from your lives with all due haste. I don't give a fuck what her reasons why are. SHE is the deficient one, not me. I've never cheated on someone. But the same rules I apply to them would apply to me as well. Fair being fair. If I somehow lost my integrity and cheated, then thats on me and not her, even if she's failing as a significant other. Just end the relationship and move on. Life is too short to endure BS in a relationship that clearly no longer works. It'll hurt but in the long run it'll be better.

I don't know too much about your friends situation, but he sounds like a beaten man who buys into the blue pilled shit. He knows she's cheated and there exists the real possibility of her doing it again. Rather than have the courage to end it he just endures in fear. And slowly its effecting.

Rather than fapping to this, maybe talk to him and help him.

 

[cuck72]

I'm not going to sugar coat this. So its going to sound a bit harsh.

I think maybe you're reading too much into it and hoping he's like you. YOU clearly get off on cheating and cuckoldry if your handle is anything to go by. But I think maybe your friend might be emotionally broken. Resigned acceptance. He cracks jokes to soothe his inner fear, but in doing so gives voice to it. Some guys, the good ones, just don't get over getting cheated on easily. He knows she's cheated once and she's the second woman to do it. The feeling of inadequacy must really eat at him. I had a buddy who cracked jokes about no longer being here. I missed the signs and one day he ate his gun. Turns out he had been battling suicide depression for years. I didn't have a clue. So be careful. What you might consider harmless jokes may not be so harmless.

As for how to deal with Cheaters? I got cheated on while I was deployed. That shit knocked my head out of the game when I should have been focused on my mission. It nearly fucking killed me. Had I not been deployed her ass would have been kissing pavement after feeling a steel toed rocket launching her off my porch. Getting rid of her would have hurt as I had emotionally invested in her. But better getting rid of someone you can't trust and live with the fear that if she cheated once she'll do it again. And I'm no cuck who gets off on his woman going behind his back. And nor would I ever consider allowing her a lover either. I'm not built like that.

For me, dealing with cheaters can only be done one way. Get rid of them from your lives with all due haste. I don't give a fuck what her reasons why are. SHE is the deficient one, not me. I've never cheated on someone. But the same rules I apply to them would apply to me as well. Fair being fair. If I somehow lost my integrity and cheated, then thats on me and not her, even if she's failing as a significant other. Just end the relationship and move on. Life is too short to endure BS in a relationship that clearly no longer works. It'll hurt but in the long run it'll be better.

I don't know too much about your friends situation, but he sounds like a beaten man who buys into the blue pilled shit. He knows she's cheated and there exists the real possibility of her doing it again. Rather than have the courage to end it he just endures in fear. And slowly its effecting.

Rather than fapping to this, maybe talk to him and help him.

I understand, but they have 3 children, and I know they love each other too. They do have some good times, that's why I was wondering in some way, if her cheating might have opened up something more sexual in the bedroom or something.

I know it's probably just my cuckold feelings that I think about.

 

[jharp]

I understand, but they have 3 children, and I know they love each other too. They do have some good times, that's why I was wondering in some way, if her cheating might have opened up something more sexual in the bedroom or something.

I know it's probably just my cuckold feelings that I think about.

Doesn't matter how many children they have or if they love each other. In the back of his mind he's wondering if she's cheating on him. Or will do so.

Just be on the lookout for it.

 

[littlecordelera]

In the back of his mind he's wondering if she's cheating on him. Or will do so.

The lucky guys don't have to wonder. They know she will.

 

[gregy70]

The lucky guys don't have to wonder. They know she will.

That’s a sexy statement