Submissives. What turns you on most about the lifestyle?

[DaveLoveAss]

Bi-sexual dominant guy here.

In my life I've been a dom for bi-guys, sissys, trans, girls, and probably most others.

Having never been in the submissive position, I've been really curious about how it feels to be on the other side and wanted to hear from anyone submissive what you love about it.

Why do you like to give others control? What are you favourite submissive acts to take part in? Whats the craziest thing you dom has asked you to do?

Thanks in advance to anyone that participates x

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

Bi-sexual dominant guy here.

In my life I've been a dom for bi-guys, sissys, trans, girls, and probably most others.

Having never been in the submissive position, I've been really curious about how it feels to be on the other side and wanted to hear from anyone submissive what you love about it.

Why do you like to give others control? What are you favourite submissive acts to take part in? Whats the craziest thing you dom has asked you to do?

Thanks in advance to anyone that participates x

Answering each of these:

I enjoy the abandon of knowing that I can trust someone enough to relinquish control. And that it pleases her to take that control. Also, it relieves me of the stress of having to be the in control, assertive, bold one in my job. She is my safe place to be "weak and needy."

My favorite act of submission is to give her massages that end in worshiping her feet.

The craziest thing she has made me do is holding my bladder as punishment for not doing an assignment. She made me hold it until I couldn't anymore, then essentially ordered me to let it go in my pajamas, laying on a bundle of blankets. She made me sleep in it.

 

[SissySalina]

Bi-sexual dominant guy here.

In my life I've been a dom for bi-guys, sissys, trans, girls, and probably most others.

Having never been in the submissive position, I've been really curious about how it feels to be on the other side and wanted to hear from anyone submissive what you love about it.

Why do you like to give others control? What are you favourite submissive acts to take part in? Whats the craziest thing you dom has asked you to do?

Thanks in advance to anyone that participates x

Why- because sissy loves Her and will do whatever She wants because doing so gives sissy the greatest feeling in the world that a human can have. It is a relationship that just seems natural to sissy and the feeling has never happen with anyone else.

The favorite part - making Her happy, doing whatever She wishes well enough to satisfy Her. It is a sense of pride that She has allowed this sissy to be the one to serve and make Her happy.

Craziest thing - sissy would not consider anything She asked of sissy crazy.

She is the one that allowed sissy to become a proper sissy, She has taken Her time and effort to show sissy a life full of joy and harmony with Someone that cares and devotes Themselves to make a better sissy possible.

 

[DaveLoveAss]

Loads of thanks for the replies, that's really interesting.

Quite a few times, I've had other doms give me their subs asses to use so I have another question;

As submissives, how do you feel about getting fucked in the ass if your master/mistress tells you too?

Do you enjoy it? Or do you just do it because you are told? or is that an act that you would refuse?

Thanks

 

[SuperSissy]

Bi-sexual dominant guy here.

In my life I've been a dom for bi-guys, sissys, trans, girls, and probably most others.

Having never been in the submissive position, I've been really curious about how it feels to be on the other side and wanted to hear from anyone submissive what you love about it.

Why do you like to give others control? What are you favourite submissive acts to take part in? Whats the craziest thing you dom has asked you to do?

Thanks in advance to anyone that participates x

It's pretty simple for me, sexually submitting to a strong viral man excites me. The pathology of that? I don't know, I think allot of influences, from having a strong mother, to being in a position of authority and responsibility IRL and using it as a release, to just loving to feel feminine and girly.

That being said, I am bi, and typically dominate women. I do think being a bit of a switch gives me perspective of both sides, and allows me to bring more pleasure to a dom, and to better understand what a sub needs.

 

[RightFootFrwrd]

I wouldn't describe myself as a sissy as I don't act girly and don't typically roleplay that way, but I love the daddy/boy dynamic, and submitting to older men.

For me, it's the abandonment of control and allowing another man to do whatever he wants to me, without me knowing what that is, that's the turn on. I love being told what to wear, when I can cum, and the feeling of being used.

 

[Replicant2018]

Bi-sexual dominant guy here.

In my life I've been a dom for bi-guys, sissys, trans, girls, and probably most others.

Having never been in the submissive position, I've been really curious about how it feels to be on the other side and wanted to hear from anyone submissive what you love about it.

Why do you like to give others control? What are you favourite submissive acts to take part in? Whats the craziest thing you dom has asked you to do?

Thanks in advance to anyone that participates x

Lately i’ve become an online sub. After being in control all the time , i enjoy being a sub and continue exploring giving up control. It is also a hot online fantasy for now.

 

[CeriseBuss]

The security I feel in the presence of my owner.

 

[SteveBrad1]

I've been with an older divorced guy for over the half the year. He just turned 52. I'm in my early twenties.

He's not the stereotypical chubby guy. We exercise together. He's not some bodybuilder or anything like that. But when we first met, I thought he was 40. In California, guys over middle age will stay in decent shape.

I've only been with one other guy before him. I always relish playing a girl. I do this with him. I don't even see myself topping him.

Not sure I call this submissive, but I suppose it is. I relish him fawning over my body. I feel like a girl with him. He is sooooo visual. So I like to just ride him like a cowgirl. He really loves my enthusiasm too. I love grinding on him, being expressive and moaning and telling him how much I love his cock.

I loooove teasing him. Like I parade around in a white dress shirt and thong. I say Old man, I'm really going to give it to you, can you take it? lol It's fun to strip down and see him get hard. Then, I just jump on and say stuff like Oh fuck me daddy! I love your big cock in my ass, it feelz sooooo good!!!

I didn't know it would last this long, but we have fun doing other stuff too.

 

[aaron2878]

I’ve never had a real dom yet in my life, but I do enjoy being submissive. I love giving control and making sure the other person is always satisfied and that’s what makes me happy. The craziest thing a dominant guy has ever done to me is make me drink all his piss. I loved every drop too!! I also love getting facials, being marked by him and then leaving with his cum still on my face.

 

[pcarp]

I really can't explain it.

Bi-sexual dominant guy here.

In my life I've been a dom for bi-guys, sissys, trans, girls, and probably most others.

Having never been in the submissive position, I've been really curious about how it feels to be on the other side and wanted to hear from anyone submissive what you love about it.

Why do you like to give others control?I was always the more dominant until I met this one particular lady. Something about her just made me want to do whatevr she wanted What are you favourite submissive acts to take part in? Having always been the dominant partner, I was not used to the humilation aspect of being the submissive one. She would have me wear panties, stocking and a garter to work, as a police officer..imagine that under my uniform. She loved to peg me and make me suck her friends cock. She took me to a ligerie store once, and announced to the clerk the stocking and panties were for me to wear while I sucked her b/f's dick. Whats the craziest thing you dom has asked you to do?She once had me in stockings and a garter, tied over a table in a hotel when the pizza delivery man knocked. She answered the door wearing a panties and a bra..and her strapon.

Thanks in advance to anyone that participates x

Loads of thanks for the replies, that's really interesting.

Quite a few times, I've had other doms give me their subs asses to use so I have another question;

As submissives, how do you feel about getting fucked in the ass if your master/mistress tells you too? I let her fuck me whenever she wanted. She eventually had her b/f fuck me. He wasn't as into that as having me suck his dick but she loved it.....and so did I, simply because she wanted it.

Do you enjoy it? Or do you just do it because you are told?Both. I did it becasue she told me to, and enjoyed it because I would do anything to please her or is that an act that you would refuse? Would never refuse her back then. She has moved away but he still enjoys ordering me to my knees fairly regularly when he wants his cock sucked. And every once in a while he tells me to put on one of those old garters and a pair of stocking. I never know when but when I get that message I know he is planning to be balls deep in my ass when he cums. In my other relationships I am still the more "in charge" one..until he calls. I guess she trained me well for him??

Thanks

 

[SissySalina]

Loads of thanks for the replies, that's really interesting.

Quite a few times, I've had other doms give me their subs asses to use so I have another question;

As submissives, how do you feel about getting fucked in the ass if your master/mistress tells you too?

Do you enjoy it? Or do you just do it because you are told? or is that an act that you would refuse?

Thanks

sissy does what She request sissy to do, yes sissy has taken it in the ass as directed by Her. This act is one of devotion to Her and Her alone, sissy does enjoy the satisfaction of pleasing Her and Her wishes, so yes sissy enjoys it. It defiantly is an act that sissy would not refuse to do for Her, there would be so little that sissy would not do for Her and She knows this and sissy so She would not ask sissy to do anything that would cause sissy to decline Her request..

 

[coati]

I can't describe details about a Domme I submitted to for three years, because she would not want me to describe those details. But can say the following about my experience:

Being sexually submissive to an intelligent and insightful person can be pure joy.

Falling in love with such a person is a permanent condition, even if you don't remain in a coupled relationship.

It was not about finding myself by experiencing pain or humiliation or "crazy" stuff. It was much more about listening carefully, exposing my need for intimacy, and then processing these submissive experiences for the rest of my life.

If you continually try to be in control, you end up with huge blind spots and miss some of the best parts of life.

 

[tallandtrainable]

Pleasing and suffering

What turns me on most is the thrill of pleasing my dom or domme. Just to know that gets me all warm inside. Any time I get a good boy or something similar I melt. And if I suffer in some task or scene it makes it even better.