Was my friend showing me his gay side or was it something else?

[Mrnobody6039]

Two times in my life this has happened to me. The first time I was probably 13 or 14 in junior high school. A group of us were at a friend's house. As I remembered it was a kind of a party his parents were not at home and there were several people there some females. At one point my friend whipped his cock out in front of my face. Didn't know what to do about it so I just kind of laughed it off. At one point our friendship ended do to him pulling a dirty stunt nothing to do with sex on me. The next time I was out of high school and at my best friend's house. He was married and had been for a a couple of years. I was in a different room listening to the stereo on headphones I heard or felt someone behind me and I turn around to look and there's my friend with his pants down his wife standing behind him waggling his cock in my face. Now the question is what was going through their minds what did they expect to happen. If I had known then what I know now of my interests I may have taken them up on whatever they were offering. After all the many years that have gone by I think about this often and wonder what I missed.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

obvious

They think your gay

 

[2JST4fun]

My take on it

I think both time they were seeking to find out if you were open to play. The 2nd occasion was a couple in search of either a threesome or if you were open to bi play with him. It was an offer for sure. This opinion comes form a 55 year old man that was in the swinging life style for 10 years and even there a bi or curious guy had to be careful. Single or as a couple. In my younger years I am sure I missed some chances due to being very cautious.

 

[yukonnights]

My take; The first guy was just an idiot or playing around. The couple were out of line and very poor at seducing someone. Intimacy needs to have time to simmer, let the anticipation, interest and trust build up enough to make it work, etc.

 

[photobuff56]

They think your gay

That's what I was thinking

 

[klippert]

next time tell him you what to see them both naked... or tell her too take your cock our and rub both cock-heads together

 

[Jennygurlluvs2play]

Two times in my life this has happened to me. The first time I was probably 13 or 14 in junior high school. A group of us were at a friend's house. As I remembered it was a kind of a party his parents were not at home and there were several people there some females. At one point my friend whipped his cock out in front of my face. Didn't know what to do about it so I just kind of laughed it off. At one point our friendship ended do to him pulling a dirty stunt nothing to do with sex on me. The next time I was out of high school and at my best friend's house. He was married and had been for a a couple of years. I was in a different room listening to the stereo on headphones I heard or felt someone behind me and I turn around to look and there's my friend with his pants down his wife standing behind him waggling his cock in my face. Now the question is what was going through their minds what did they expect to happen. If I had known then what I know now of my interests I may have taken them up on whatever they were offering. After all the many years that have gone by I think about this often and wonder what I missed.

I agree with what has been said already but will reiterate. The first guy was just an idiot or really drunk and wanted you! The couple were in my estimation attempting to seduce you and testing the waters. Albeit in poor taste. It would be funny to show up at their door after all these years with your cock hanging out!

 

[Mrnobody6039]

Unfortunately things have changed dramatically in the last 20 years. The couple divorced she was caught in the act cheating by my friend. And he passed away about 3 years ago.

 

[tmmmbrrr]

So, why do you think your friends felt free to be so uninhibited with you? Would you have been interested at the time if your friends had approached you with a little more sophistication?

Oh, and sorry about the way it worked out for your friend and his wife. That would be rough.

 

[Mrnobody6039]

Well I don't know my reaction was the reaction that I had at the time. Today might have been a different story. However I remember being a bit shocked with the first one. The second one, I was attracted to his wife she had great nipples poking through or t-shirt and when she came and waggle his dick in front of my face I wasn't put off by it and I was rather impressed at its size. But it never dawned on me to do anyting. Many years later visiting with him a year or two before he passed he did show me videos that he had shot with a hidden camera of him having sex with a girl from work in his house.

 

[PEAKER44]

I hope I would of asked if she was going to participate and if the answer was yes I would probably had reached up & started stroking him.