Sexless Marriages

[ccs29745]

Sorry you're in same boat, understand toy angle, it's not the same
Wish people like us were closer together, maybe we start a club lol.

Think we need a bigger boat. Lol. Love that line in jaws. Welcome little miss

 

[Mtnmike]

Think we need a bigger boat. Lol. Love that line in jaws. Welcome little miss

Lmao, yeah might have to get a cruise liner.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

DD, you make me laugh, this is a sexless marriage forum lol. I have also done the same thing, to use whenever but she went off and told me to send em back, that she never ever wanted any kind of sex again !!! I ending up giving them to a couple I know and they love them. O well, after 10 years of selflessness I'm done trying to bring back intimacy to our marriage. Thanks for the laughs, I love your postings, keep it up

Oh Mike you know me, I don’t have much of a filter... who am I kidding, I don’t have a filter at all dude! I’m so happy somebody finds me entertaining, your namesake my Ex certainly doesn’t... thank you and I hear ya on “I’m done”!

Couple of thoughts.

If you've got partners that are throwing away lingerie, sex toys, sex-related items, it would seem that the message there is abundantly clear. They've decided that either they don't enjoy those things or they're simply "done" with them. It's a not-so-subtle hint, IMO.

There have been numerous postings by people who say things to the effect of, "Well, just have your partner give you sexual pleasure by some other means." That would be nice, but it isn't realistic for some couples. One partner or the other is "checked out" as far as sex goes. No amount of talking is going to change that for some.

There are folks here who ARE having sex, albeit infrequently. Have any of you considered that YOU might be the reason that your partner is less interested in sex with you? Have you let yourself go to the point where you've become physically unattractive to your partner? Is your treatment of your partner in the rest of your relationship making you unattractive to them? Are you not prioritizing sex and your relationship with your partner? I could write a serious missive here on this part.

Does your partner feel unattractive for some reason? Have you not told your partner that you find them beautiful/desirable/etc.? Have you forgotten the romance?

:::big sigh::: there’s so much truth in here & so much I’ve failed at

I never said they should stay together. I was only saying that a couple can stay together if they love each other enough to not need sex in the relationship. If the sex is the only thing holding them together and that stops, by all means, end the entire relationship.

Truth right here

I’m glad to see I’m not the only girl struggling with a sexless marriage. I have a high sex drive, but after being told no on numerous occasions for one reason or another, I kind of just stopped asking and bought myself a toy. It helped me for a while, but it’s just not the same as the real deal.

You are totally not the only girl in this situation, we’re not as common for sure, ere unicorns but we do exist. Sorry to hear you’re with me in the herd!

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Sorry you're in same boat, understand toy angle, it's not the same
Wish people like us were closer together, maybe we start a club lol.

Lmao, yeah might have to get a cruise liner.

Ok so now you made me

I remember many pages back we discussed having an annual Lit cruise that we could all go on and fuck ourselves silly for a week!

We do need a club though, maybe some regional clubs and definitely an annual convention

 

[Polranny]

Ok so now you made me

I remember many pages back we discussed having an annual Lit cruise that we could all go on and fuck ourselves silly for a week!

We do need a club though, maybe some regional clubs and definitely an annual convention

A club would be preferable to a life on the ocean wave, what would the membership criteria be? Need a huge hotel for convention, all with single room occupancy

 

[kentuckymtnman]

I’ll definitely join the club, and the cruise!

 

[DDBustyBrit]

I’ll definitely join the club, and the cruise!

Yeh you and I could head up the TX, OK, KS regional group. I don’t fancy including AR though, I’ve heard all the tales about cousins!!

Polranny can form the European region

 

[ccs29745]

Royal Caribbean fuck cruise or club getnlaid, both sound good to me

 

[TTawhere]

I’m glad to see I’m not the only girl struggling with a sexless marriage. I have a high sex drive, but after being told no on numerous occasions for one reason or another, I kind of just stopped asking and bought myself a toy. It helped me for a while, but it’s just not the same as the real deal.

There's no emotion and no connection that comes from a toy. Definitely not the same.

 

[Polranny]

Yeh you and I could head up the TX, OK, KS regional group. I don’t fancy including AR though, I’ve heard all the tales about cousins!!

Polranny can form the European region

Places are strictly limited to us genuine sexless married folk. Once we have numbers we can book the cabaret

 

[TTawhere]

Places are strictly limited to us genuine sexless married folk. Once we have numbers we can book the cabaret

Don't tell me that you're dragon your feet on the planning.

 

[Polranny]

Don't tell me that you're dragon your feet on the planning.

No dragon of feet! I just need a rough idea of numbers, there's nothing much worse than a cruise ship with no passengers

 

[IASFPWTF]

The week long cruise sounds like the greatest idea of all! Please let me know in time to take my vacation time from work...I love being silly

 

[IASFPWTF]

Club getnlaid is a great idea also! Let's do both

 

[IASFPWTF]

Being from Tx, I need to be in DDBusty's regional group.....yee haw!! I just love her...lol

 

[Polranny]

Being from Tx, I need to be in DDBusty's regional group.....yee haw!! I just love her...lol

Your loss,! DD is a Brit remember . You've also got to realise that she's likely to take a rain check on a cruise due to the shifting South of Canada . Spare capacity for a short while, we'll be posh.

 

[KPaulNeilson]

She comes in for bed, takes off her shirt, bra, and pant, and stands there in her panties. Raising an eyebrow, she asks, "Am I going to have to put a shirt on?" Like my desire for sex is some uncontrollable act of an untamed child...sigh.

 

[Vitriolhack]

She comes in for bed, takes off her shirt, bra, and pant, and stands there in her panties. Raising an eyebrow, she asks, "Am I going to have to put a shirt on?" Like my desire for sex is some uncontrollable act of an untamed child...sigh.

Try some reverse psychology.... “don’t worry honey, my desire for you has completely waned.”

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Being from Tx, I need to be in DDBusty's regional group.....yee haw!! I just love her...lol

Well aren’t you too sweet lol, men in Texas seem very susceptible to me for some crazy reason!! Good job Canada is migrating to Texas soonish!

Your loss,! DD is a Brit remember . You've also got to realise that she's likely to take a rain check on a cruise due to the shifting South of Canada . Spare capacity for a short while, we'll be posh.

Actually I think it’s fair to say that Canada (he also qualifies) & I will join but in a double berth. Hopefully we will make it out for group activities and dinner occasionally, when we’re done feasting on each other

Try some reverse psychology.... “don’t worry honey, my desire for you has completely waned.”

Brilliant idea and it might just work I’d say, as a woman!

Club Getnlaid

 

[Polranny]

Would all European region cruise members please register

 

[TTawhere]

Lit Cruise

We could always just sail out on the Revenge. She'd do.

 

[DDBustyBrit]

So my sweet thread family

Can I just declare in here...

I am vomit inducingly Happy with a certain gorgeous man north of the border

Never would have thought it was possible, in fact most of you wouldn’t have either considering the wreck I was for awhile there. But I’m beginning to realize the Ex did me one huge favor, even if his method stank. Because what I have now and what I had then are not even slightly comparable. It’s the difference between a very toxic cruel place, and an exuberantly happy, healthy, secure one!

Take hope from this turnaround in my life please...

Now I’ll pass the bucket for y’all

 

[Polranny]

So my sweet thread family

Can I just declare in here...

I am vomit inducingly Happy with a certain gorgeous man north of the border

Never would have thought it was possible, in fact most of you wouldn’t have either considering the wreck I was for awhile there. But I’m beginning to realize the Ex did me one huge favor, even if his method stank. Because what I have now and what I had then are not even slightly comparable. It’s the difference between a very toxic cruel place, and an exuberantly happy, healthy, secure one!

Take hope from this turnaround in my life please...

Now I’ll pass the bucket for y’all

I am genuinely delighted for you both .........bucket not necessary .......and hopeful you'll be in the state cabin on the cruise ......provided you loved up honeys cum out and see us at some stage!

 

[hedonisatlurist]

So my sweet thread family

Can I just declare in here...

I am vomit inducingly Happy with a certain gorgeous man north of the border

Never would have thought it was possible, in fact most of you wouldn’t have either considering the wreck I was for awhile there. But I’m beginning to realize the Ex did me one huge favor, even if his method stank. Because what I have now and what I had then are not even slightly comparable. It’s the difference between a very toxic cruel place, and an exuberantly happy, healthy, secure one!

Take hope from this turnaround in my life please...

Now I’ll pass the bucket for y’all

good I am pleased for you, you deserve some happiness in your life, Enjoy the moments

 

[philos]

I hope it continues for you for a very long time.